American psychologists found that early sexual experience contributes to the development of adolescent depression and may even lead to suicide. More than 25% of sexually active girls teenagers suffer from depression. Among them rovesnits not have sex, only 7.7% have psychological problems. At boys, the figures are somewhat lower - 8.3% and 3.4% respectively. This is evidenced by data American researcher Kirk Johnson. The scientist has concluded that sexual relations had a very negative impact on the psyche of adolescents. In his view, for the harmonious development of the individual first sexual experience does not need to receive before his adulthood. In the United States is 21 years.
From this point of view and agrees doctor of psychology Jin Tuenge. In gathering material for his book "Generation Me", academic interviewed 1.3 million young Americans and found that they are faced with depression much more often than previous generations. In doing so, with today's youth the most free views on sex, perhaps in the history of mankind. From the view of American colleagues stand some European experts who consider sex a kind of mine to the time mechanism, which, with careless handling could literally blow up the adolescent psyche.
The consequences could be terrible and more. American scientists calculated that the girl, sooner part with virginity, commit suicide three times more likely than their rovesnitsy, does not enter into sexual contact. Among boys the figure even higher. Young people entered into sexual relations in their teens, killed himself six times more frequently.
"Indeed, early sex can have very serious consequences." The fact is that at each stage of development formed in man certain mental functions. Thus, from 12 to 15 and even 18 years before the foundation of such a thing as loyalty. Then, 25 years before going on awareness of the concept of love. Early sex leads to a malfunction of a phased personality. It turns out that teenagers realize through sex only brute power, not realizing that such love, "- warns psychologist."Young girls often begin to think - that with the help of the sex they will be able to attach themselves to a partner, but in a way they only discourage him. And because girls typically attached to humans after close relationship, they often dealt with suicide because of failed love. Therefore, sexual life must begin no earlier than 18 years, when already pass all the major stages of personality. "
However, experts believe that early sex can not be treated unambiguously negative. "For example, for adolescents 14-15 years old, they engaged in sexual relationship. If they love each other - everything is normal," - believes sexologist. Let them will separate in two years, but they appeared experience. Yes, if young people do not like each other that, of course, very often, it can harm. But society must understand - physiological functions by themselves are not guilty, and they can not be denied. You can not injunctions!
It makes no sense to recognize the ban and psychologists. They are more concerned about the improper upbringing of teenagers. "Today's children are poorly distinguish the notion of love and sex. They are simply misinformed," - tells a psychologist. In doing so, there is a need for children to love and be loved. We should not prohibit them sex, as well as bans nothing wrest out, fill a need for love. Not coincidentally always particularly popular literature lessons. Through literature, children taught how to love.
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