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As sometimes happens, upset or fall aboard, and then to part with his girlfriend or another, we think that this forever. But day passes (week, month) and we start to miss, sadness and mourn their fate. We think that all current setbacks and failures associated with loss of loved one, who as guardian angel protects us from life storms. In doing so we forget, of course, because of what actually occurred tiff and not hesitate to break his head (not afraid of the word), threw back to start all over again.
Imagine statistics argues that many people, who finds the strength to come back to, seemingly, a former friend in the broadest sense, are understood, accepted, and even more - their relationship come to lasting and durable agreement. However, before returning to his ex-friend or ex-girlfriend, it is necessary to reflect well on leisure and seriously weigh the pros and cons. Let us weigh together.

So, suppose you decided on the second attempt. Please note that at least one of two that necessarily need to lower their demands, that is to delete their bar. But even with all the willingness to make this relationship should not be reopened without prior nice conversation with a serious, but nonetheless a discussion that led you to rupture. If this conversation did not take place, psychologists warn, your relationship will be a precise repetition of the past. And this would not like anyone. It is therefore very calmly, without unnecessary emotions, if you want to discuss all your problems and differences that have not yet feel that none of the two harbours no resentment or evil to another.

But that's not all. These efforts will be required on your part is when you find together again. And they will need to send your relationships while avoiding the mistakes previously admitted, according to a new, more accurate way which would not lead again to the final, grandiose chamber or your relationship. It should not be the subject matter, someone who threw (abandoned the party, among other things, in most cases is more advantageous position prietom), or, say, one should not talk to each other about what can happen if you return possorites. Better not to think about that, because of whom and why to part you and that you have in common, because it is "common" and forcing you to be together again.

Another, which should reflect - is your personal situation at this period of time. Statistics again shows that are better than your case and regardless what you feel in life, so as to guarantee the success of your scheduled event. See for yourself: you have setbacks, you no one drew attention, you torture abandoned thoughts about you (or your friend to quit), and generally you have poured across the deep. Or maybe this state of affairs when you are not the way ex-friend or ex-girlfriend beckons, and it's your Excellency wishes to dispel Loneliness? That is why in such a position is not worth committing shots in the past. You just need someone who will understand and spare you. And this man can quickly become someone else, not your former friend, with whom one does not already exist. Undoubtedly, more likely from someone who succeeds. In this case, have a choice: if you prefer to rest your old love - it means that your deed objective, and this is the only person who you want.

And the last question that you should answer before dial phone number: if you want to purely theoretically prove to yourself that can return to her old passion? Does not of pure selfishness and vanity, not for the sake of whether that boast to friends or to satisfy their own curiosity you're going to rake up the past? If you understand that this is so and there are not count on your continued long novel - it will not. If your thoughts are clean, you are successful and are confident in their love - ever! And note that the second time separation would be much less painful than the first ...
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