Motive of the first sexual experience may be love, passion or curiosity. But regardless of the reasons men and women almost always experiencing anxiety or stress. Even if the men had already been sexual experience, in the early acquaintance with a new partner he may have difficulties. It may be so concerned about the tension and desire to make a good impression that will not be able to achieve erection, as this would severely he did not want. Or vice versa too quickly reach orgasm because of the excess stimulation. This situation is possible in the very first sexual experience only in this case problems may be complicated inexperience partner. But that has not happened does not have to think about failure just because it happened not quite as expected, do not need to take first experience too seriously, because the situation will improve as experience is gained and gaining self-confidence.
The following tips should help in making even more pleasant your first steps in sex. Create a comfortable and intimate, that there is a sufficient amount of time that nothing and no one has been able to thwart you. And although five minutes in the back seat cars in jeopardy, you find that this assumption may, of course, deprive you of chastity and even bear some share of romance, but the number of failures in such cases much higher. Do not forget about contraception, pregnancy if your partner is undesirable. Always remember that there are sexually transmitted diseases, some of them can run and hide people they can not even suspect, including AIDS. And if you do not quite know their partner or partner, it is better to once again secure oneself against. Also rule will be good tone, if you think about the safety of your partner, because if you already have sexual contact, it is possible that you are a carrier of infection.
It should not be too hasty, too, especially if the partner did not sexually experienced. A woman should be sufficiently initiated, then it appears a natural lubricant, and they relax, thus facilitating sexual penetration member. If not enough natural lubrication, to use lyubrikant, it will also facilitate the penetration and reduce the pain and traumatization. In addition, lyubrikant with nonoksinol-9 will help prevent unwanted pregnancies, with aloe and vitamin "A" will accelerate the process of regenerating, but with clorgeksin mirimistinom or speak in his role antiseptic. If partner virgin, I choose posture "top man" and put a pillow under her hips to facilitate infiltration. Tremors have to be shallow, cautious, but strong.
Virginal membrane does not constitute a real obstacle, as it is a very thin wall, only partially covers entry into the vagina. When it does not break the pain is too strong, unpleasant feelings are likely to arise from the fact that entry into the vagina has not yet been stretched and very narrow, and muscles can be severely stretched from the unrest. Therefore, your actions may facilitate a tentative entrance into the vagina stretching his fingers. The loss of blood is usually only symbolic, and sometimes it may not be at all.
None of you should not feel disappointed if the woman does not reach orgasm. Only not many women in the first Relations experiencing orgasm, it's sometimes rare, even with a regular sex life. Most women have to learn to experience orgasm during intercourse, they are not automatic, as in men.
To defuse tensions can drink any alcoholic beverage, but in small numbers. Keep in mind that excessive alcohol consumption reduces sensitivity and slows down the time of orgasm in men. Yes case and not only in this, because first sexual experience - this event, about which people then remembers his entire life, and agree, as some do not seem especially pleased then to remember all their lives, who are deprived your virginity : How your first girl all night trying to awaken you that you want something done with it.
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