Where goes sex?

When sexual relationships in the family does not go, we habitually begin to go right and wrong. But in all the family troubles always blame both spouses! Perhaps the passion withdrew from the fact that you started to apply asexual role?The entire life - theater, and the couple lives including. In this theater of human life has its own repertoire of roles and images. The role - it is your attitude that underlies your conduct, actions and feelings.On the relations of man-woman role - is primarily a position that you occupy in relation to his partner for life, whom you see it, what role do you offer him apply to you. From this position should everything else: your behavior, your mood, your actions and your reactions to what is happening.We think that relations "emerging" or "not up" somehow miraculously, spontaneous manner, and like ourselves. We are only involved in these relations. But this is only the foreign affairs side. In fact, each side - both men and women - are actively building those relations - and, above all, so what role they will perform in a joint duet.All this - the heroes of lovers. Their roles are painted sensuality, sexually. They write love novel in which they themselves are the principal actors. These roles so easily and simply perform at the first stage of relations. They do not even have to play - all produced naturally. Over time, when the pair became family, genre Performance and love is changing gradually turns into a melodrama… But what it becomes depends on what the role of a chosen yesterday's Romeo and Juliet.Raleigh, which includes the heroes, do not involve manifestations sensible-romantic nature. For example, occurs when a beloved over the years transformed into a shrew, a passionate young man - in the henpecked husband. There are several roles asexual (ie, images, deprived of their similarities to Polish sexuality), in which the intimate relationship of partners not something that difficult, and sometimes even simply inappropriate for the plot.This is the unfortunate case where harmony in the couple gradually dies and sexual life takes pitiful form (up to the total absence!) - Precisely because the role of spouses and the resulting relationship does not imply such an expression to each other .Your role can maintain a sense of love, but can kill him day after day. Roles are formed in the first few years and gradually "fixed". This process takes place normally, gradually and quietly to themselves heroes. This is similar to unwritten conspiracy partners. Basically, the role of a harmonious match. Even if such a pair of life reminds theatre of hostilities. Just such a spectacle all play in the war.Rarely can so that the roles in family categorically pair did not meet each other. If for a long time are not mutually "adjust", steam, usually leave. Each role - its own set of requirements, their repertoire of old records and claims action. Appearance is also consistent with the role of rights: a person, fashion - all expressed your role. It was difficult, for example, to imagine a beautiful, joyful and cheerful woman in the family was quiet and score a victim. Also difficult to imagine that an active and self-confidence synuley man was next to his wife.click here