why divorce?

According to studies of American sexuality, sexual contacts of the 10 only 4 - indeed desirable. Couples married for several years, it is easy to agree with that. Proximity is increasingly becoming a "wrong time", "not for any mood", "despite" and so forth - not for nothing jokes about the "headache" do not lose relevance for centuries! So what happens? Who is to blame and what to do?No need to search for the guilty - neither you nor "he" is not responsible for lost desire. All quite understandable and predictable. Passion, which makes you once throw stones at each other anywhere in the embrace - in the car, elevator, Entrance (doterpet was so difficult!), Soluble in acid daily household problems. Romantic meeting also remained only in memories. Now everything is simple and boring: an evening shower, dinner at hastily, telly "with a dream to come", soft sheets, pillows comfortable, familiar posture, a kiss on duty in "gratitude" - and sleep in each other back…

Moreover, it is necessary to take into account that the woman cool faster than a man. And it was not peculiar, as the man to demand sex "on automatic". She needed Prelude. And the soft evening light. And that body in the embrace of twine, and flowers on the walls dissolve, and passionate whisper sailed past in a cloud, and fetching hands, intertwining, and had to bite lips so as not cried from happiness and love…

So what do I do? It may be that you have this temporary mood. divorce, the easiest way to destroy the relationship. But save the family, feelings to each other - this is art! If you set categorical ( "No, no, I can not more - even I can not see him! We need to disperse, it is definitely!"), It did reflect on everything once. Last. Imagine that a divorce or a gap behind. "He" is no longer snoring you on the ear at night, not running on the flat in socks and shirt in search of trousers, does not watch football, not to force when sick ... You imagine that his and no ... And you flat meets cold emptiness of loneliness - every day… And what then?

First and foremost: learn to say "no"! No one can force you to have sex, if you do not want to! Take this for a rule, and life will be much brighter. And then you wake up in a real, true femininity, sexuality and reintegration. And "it" you really have to seek and win in the second, third, fourth, fifteenth times!Another option - try to talk to "them". Well, not directly: "I am vomits from you!", A hint that lacks the severity of emotion. Let try to think of himself as diversify your married life (and it's in his interest so!).Try to recall how and for what you fell in love with him for the first time. Well, in the end, both repeat their wedding trip (if it was successful, of course).Head of the novel on the side! Not necessarily bring it before the end - sometimes to feel revitalized and desirable, it is enough light flirting in the workplace. Perhaps the learning of other men, you make sure it is your sole and not suitable. And then you will find both win!

And all come back: you again immerse yourself in love, warmth, endless kisses (a tender, then passionate to pain) and will be holding hands. And would whisper, gentle words, smiles, the eyes uncovered. All will return. After all, everything in our hands! click here