Women and their treason

I want attention.Virtually all women complain that permanent partner pays them too little attention. And in general - is to begin to live with a man, he immediately stops noticing his lady heart and reduces the proportion of the number of gifts, flowers and other such necessary for it, signs of attention. Few ladies can do to get used to. Someone starts angers and swearing, others - fill the shortage on the side. Naturally, this is not a rare flowers or a compliment from staff and colleagues - like those on the move only on holidays and in cases of extreme necessity. Attraction-it wants to constantly and regularly.That's what had to seek something more reliable man. And as for men aim advances - this is primarily the sex, then even a very mutually beneficial cooperation: do you mind me, I - the bed. While it is difficult to say which option is worse in such a situation for a spouse: constant scandals in the family because of the mutual dissatisfaction or wife is happy - but with a lover on the side.

Since her husband boring.The situation is difficult and not so rare: a woman wants fun, activity and diversity, she and husband - quite boring and uninteresting people. Neither his party not to drag off, or in the theater, or even just take a walk. So far no, tired, then "you know, this is not for me." That's walking with other accounts. A more cheerful. Well then, you may continue communication and in bed. The more so that the boring husband and sex are usually also missing. Serve him and no missionary position "perverse".

Just like sex.Check if women talk about themselves or girlfriend, then articulate this need it so honestly and beautifully: "just like sex." And if a man gives a similar explanation, the women's interpretation of it usually sounds somewhat different: "because the stallion". Or, if it comes to the insidious beings, which is a temptation to your husband: "because the bitch." This is a very well illustrates the conventional understanding of female themselves, other women and men.Actually, most people are beginning to think rationally on issues of treason, only when the change themselves. If you have changed, come to the first plan very different, emotional, grounds. The first jealousy: a man confident in his sole right to partner and treason perceive any situation, so to speak, as a waste of their private property. No less important here and envy: I do not have enough, but he (she) was able to imagine (able) to allow treason, and I - no. Of course it is a shame!

But actually with treason linked to at least two significant real problem: the risk of children on the side (or the introduction of the - if revises wife), and the risk of obtaining from betrayed something intimate infect. But so few people think until the problem really is not manifested in all beauty.

So do not forget that the search for pleasure in someone else's bed is fraught with serious consequences - and this is (as opposed to their own emotional or sexual dissatisfaction) has not only your problem, a problem and your husband (wife). And, of course, if you do change, do not expect that the partner will go down in your position, understand, forgive. This, in principle, possible - but highly unlikely. click here