SEX-instinct

Women use sex to get love and men use love to get sex. I do not remember who first raised the idea, but today it has turned into a cruise expression. Even became a kind of axiom to explain discrepancies in the issue of sex in the expectations of men and women.The modern woman feels no less free with regard to sex than a man. But for some reason is still the man from whom many mistress, respectfully referred to as stallions, a woman who sleeps with more than one man, often leave the gossip for her back and views of others. Where such injustice?

I think the reason for this attitude lies in the peculiarities of human psychology. The sexual revolution, like any revolution, breaks the external manifestations of any representations, but was unable to suddenly change the centuries approves stereotypes and attitudes of people. Even in today's world, human memory (albeit at the subconscious or even at some genetic level) keeps the stereotype: a woman - a hotbed keeper, a man - hunter.The facts of modern science, too, faces at protecting men. Genetics scientists found that sexual attraction for men meets a single hormone. Many know his name - is testosterone. The woman also leads to sexual relations is not a hormone, a complex set of chemicals. Maybe so, for many male sex - this is a normal physiological effects, comparable, for example, with meals. For women the same sex - this is a physical manifestation of love and closeness. That is why women so important emotional component of sex.

Women are generally less chained and uncertainty in their sexuality. Therefore, if a man should be kept through the bed of certifying that they might be interested in opposite sex, the woman would be sufficient complement or even a mixed one, admiration sight. If complement received, the ambition is met. That is, the goal achieved ambition to have a bit of fun, and we need to put the following.

If a person waits from sex only satisfy their physiological needs, then do not understand why it needs a partner? After all fun and can be achieved independently, without spending time on the acquaintance, establishing contacts and other conventions. Nevertheless, there are even known to all profession, which involves the joint occupation of sex without love. In this case, the motive for his ambition to have a bit of fun for men excluded. After all, he gets sex, not because he himself so cool, but because it paid the money. So, in addition to the physiological pleasure and ambition is something else, for which people enter into sexual relationships. Even the most cynical view of the adherents of that sex - this is just an act comparable to eating, put the question to a standstill, why, then, need a second person.

Two people loving each other, for whom sex - is an expression of closeness to enjoy quite a different quality. I have repeatedly observed sympathetic as they look to those who compares the bed with a fridge. Indeed they can only regret - because once they are capable of such a comparison, it means they never have been able to experience a sense of unity of space, given true lovers. click here