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The theme of love and challenges (more correctly, love, but look at it from another point of view) to adolescence is very difficult. And if any other situations it solves all through the emotional sphere, the situation with love very rashly rely on any rational inferences on his part. There are several traps, which gets virtually all teenagers. Let's try to separate them. Solitude. News? For a teenager - very. The sense of loneliness and so it accompanies, but when the couple caught the eye - write missing. In this case begins either selfhumiliation ( "all together, only one, I did not find:"), or an attempt to rehabilitate himself, finding a pair no matter on what basis it will be grasped. Often a situation where two (girlfriend or friends) go everywhere together, often spend their time together in the context of axiological beginning to be perceived as a manifestation of unhealthy attraction. Before afraid of this, find out may, it is simply an attempt to escape from loneliness? Pressure. A good parent would not provide it. But peers - will be exactly. Even if a teenager is not ready and not willing to try to enter into any relationship with someone, it makes the situation, jokes and constant peer hints that it "weak". Well, when attempts are unsuccessful, you should prepare for serious consequences. This leaves an unpleasant experience, who do not want to repeat (and whether it would be nice - in terms of its existing teenager does not even sets), so drop the self-esteem and perhaps credibility among friends. Love "demands". The first object of love - this is almost always idol. From idol to argue or make compromises difficult. And very often a situation where a teenager was ready to go to any madness, if "love demanded"! Threatening separation. To prevent such a situation can be, having a good confidence contact. Independent feeling. Teenager afraid of any allusions and talk about love. Bo and alone with himself to think about this. A pressure or interest on the part of others - almost a war with the secret agent Counterintelligence. Any guerrilla warfare in this situation, which will be seen, perceived to be exclusively a hostile reception. Whatever led a teenager first real love for him feeling very delicate, very fragile, touch it is not recommended.
The theme of love and challenges (more correctly, love, but look at it from another point of view) to adolescence is very difficult. And if any other situations it solves all through the emotional sphere, the situation with love very rashly rely on any rational inferences on his part. There are several traps, which gets virtually all teenagers. Let's try to separate them. Solitude. News? For a teenager - very. The sense of loneliness and so it accompanies, but when the couple caught the eye - write missing. In this case begins either selfhumiliation ( "all together, only one, I did not find:"), or an attempt to rehabilitate himself, finding a pair no matter on what basis it will be grasped. Often a situation where two (girlfriend or friends) go everywhere together, often spend their time together in the context of axiological beginning to be perceived as a manifestation of unhealthy attraction. Before afraid of this, find out may, it is simply an attempt to escape from loneliness? Pressure. A good parent would not provide it. But peers - will be exactly. Even if a teenager is not ready and not willing to try to enter into any relationship with someone, it makes the situation, jokes and constant peer hints that it "weak". Well, when attempts are unsuccessful, you should prepare for serious consequences. This leaves an unpleasant experience, who do not want to repeat (and whether it would be nice - in terms of its existing teenager does not even sets), so drop the self-esteem and perhaps credibility among friends. Love "demands". The first object of love - this is almost always idol. From idol to argue or make compromises difficult. And very often a situation where a teenager was ready to go to any madness, if "love demanded"! Threatening separation. To prevent such a situation can be, having a good confidence contact. Independent feeling. Teenager afraid of any allusions and talk about love. Bo and alone with himself to think about this. A pressure or interest on the part of others - almost a war with the secret agent Counterintelligence. Any guerrilla warfare in this situation, which will be seen, perceived to be exclusively a hostile reception. Whatever led a teenager first real love for him feeling very delicate, very fragile, touch it is not recommended.
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