At home with a luck

Morning sex better setting-up exercises

2008-09-24T10:04:00.000-07:00

Alternative Medicine from Queen's University in Belfast called for all who want to be healthy and beautiful, to have sex in the morning. Specialists have proven: morning sex 3 times a week reduces by half the risk of heart disease and saves the gracefulness.

Scientists are not the first time prove that sex is extremely beneficial to human health. At this time, the study addressed precisely the morning sex. It turned out that it is so useful that they can fully replace the morning exercises. During sex involving all muscle groups organism. In addition, it is an excellent «aerobics» and internal organs.Regular sex in the morning improves blood circulation and normalizes blood pressure.

Previous research in this area found that women who have sex with a permanent partner without a condom, less likely to suffer depression, and sexual activity just before the «critical days» significantly weakens premenstrual syndrome.

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Useful whether sex with Viagra?

2008-09-23T07:48:00.000-07:00

Easy to use, a small number of side effects, the relative security (not to patients with ischemic heart disease, taking nitrates), the effectiveness of more than 80% - all this has made the drug mainly in the treatment of patients. Indirect evidence of this was that already twelve pharmaceutical companies around the world produce modified forms of the drug. However, there is a natural question: whether sex really helpful with: Viagra is not for a remarkable, somewhat forgotten feelings, but on objective criteria of quality of life for the patient?

A prerequisite for a study in patients with ejaculotary dysfunction, taking the drug Viagra, have accumulated a large quantity of evidence about the credibility of lowering the quality of life of patients suffering from violations of erectile function. In a large number of research groups of men with ejaculotary dysfunction, unlike standardized by race, age, concomitant diseases, etc. Groups of comparison, was found credible reduction in the number of points in such parameters as general health, vitality, and (which is legitimate) mental health.

We have examined the parameters of the patients regularly (at least once a week) host citrate sildenafila about erectile dysfunction. The study included sixteen men aged 48 to 72 years (average age 54 years). Previously, none of these patients are not treated at the ejaculotary dysfunction.

Our patient, being educated man, of course, heard about Viagra, but trusting their doctors did not take the drug because he was convinced the doctor in his ineffectiveness from diabetes. But over time intra cavernous therapy to meet his less and less because of residual pain in the penis after the injections, which made me sick about 3-4 times a month. Against this background, has begun to develop neurotic fear of sex.

Overall, against a backdrop of the reception Viagra in doses of up to twenty-five hundred mg (dose chosen physician clinical titration method) at a date more than three months, we have obtained encouraging results. As mentioned above, in patients with ejaculotary dysfunction in contrast to men with normal quality of erection initially there was credible reduction parameters such as general health, vitality, mental health. Following the treatment, using sildenafila found an increase in scores on all parameters determining, but was particularly significant increase in such indicators as physical functioning, general health and emotional Role functioning.

As we found, the parameters of men before and after treatment with the use of Viagra reliably depend on age. Men with ejaculotary dysfunction at the age of less than 4O years before the treatment parameters such as physical functioning and mental health were reliably lower than men with ejaculotary dysfunction over 50 years. This is due to appear, the fact that the strength of the negative impact ejaculotary dysfunction in the human psyche is inversely proportional to age: the younger man, the greater availability of ejaculotary dysfunction traumatizes his mental health. As a result of sildenafila citrate parameters reliably increased as more young (under 50 years old) and older (over 50). However, the growth parameters in a group of up to 50 years old, was significantly higher than that of men aged over 50 years, especially such as general health and role emotional functioning. These results once again confirm that in young patients ejaculotary dysfunction significantly impairs the quality of life.

It is also established that in patients with Erectile Dysfunction reliably depends on the length of ejaculotary dysfunction, pre-treatment with the use of Viagra. Patients with a history ejaculotary dysfunction lower rates of all parameters compared with patients who have Erectile Dysfunction to occur less than 2 years. Especially this difference is significant for role-emotional functioning. After treatment ejaculotary dysfunction using sildenafila citrate marked growth parameters, but patients with a shorter history ejaculotary dysfunction noted a significant improvement in the quality of life compared with patients suffering ejaculotary dysfunction more than 2 years. It certainly shows that to restore normal parameters and improve the quality of life of patients as a whole as soon as possible to begin therapy ejaculotary dysfunction.

Thus, it is clear that Viagra as a treatment ejaculotary dysfunction increases the overall quality of life. However, reliable growth of all parameters describing, against the backdrop of sildenafila citrate once again demonstrates its high safety and efficacy. However, it must be remembered that the quality of life of patients receiving treatment sildenafila citrate reliably depend, ultimately, by age, length of history ejaculotary dysfunction and the correct dosage of the drug selection. That is why the answer to the question formulation in the headline of the article, the positive: sex with Viagra is useful.

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30 years ... and still virgin

2008-09-21T09:14:00.000-07:00

Of the total diversity of reasons why people remain virgin, sexologist emit five principal.

Traumatic childhood experiences (sexual harassment, violence). The strategy of avoidance, deputy conduct can not get into situations that can cause severe memory.

Idealization partner. Romantics sublimating the need for love and convert it to other experiences. They are waiting for a meeting with a man or woman of their dreams or remain true to first love.

Religious, cultural norms. In some traditions are required to keep virgin until the wedding, or even until his death.

Still unformed sexual identity. A man in his youth not absorbed the stereotypes of sexual behavior of their sex. This may be due, and not perceived homosexuality.

Low self-esteem. Man feels is not beautiful, stupid, unworthy of attention. Often this is the result of difficult relations with his mother - too power to interfere in all affairs, or indifferent, absent.

«When you sixteen, and you are a virgin, even touching. But in thirty-six it already looks ridiculous and indecent ». How many people have experienced such feelings known: no statistics, and hard on this issue expect candor. Nevertheless, many adults live remains virgin, and suffer from it as of anomalies, which no one can tell. «I am red, when I ask: Who are you on the horoscope - Virgo? I hate the expression of type «innocent lamb», «virgin jungle», and so on », - recognizes the 32-year-old Anna. Anna is protected by force of the Actor's imagination: «All I play the role of swagger virgins. No one knows the truth, but two friends with whom we are familiar from childhood ». For her deception - is saving, but necessary measure to avoid attracting attention, not excuses and did not answer the question: «Why?»

«Virginity adult in public opinion no longer looks like a virtue. It even saw a social failure: if you are successful, you need to be successful in everything », - comments sexologist, MD. «Sexual start before marriage is becoming commonplace. In this age of marriage increases - adds a gynecologist. - For 16-17-year-old boys and girls to have sexual relations today prestigious. Moreover, when a child of 20 years do not yet have a partner, parents worry: Is it all right? This change of manners - an additional problem for those who have never had sexual relations ».

In most cases, virgin does not serve either for or against virginity as such. But they always have any explanation: «too much work», «no desire», «no time» or «not yet met their love» ... «To live in harmony with one another, simply need to invent some explanation, a concept. - For example, their virginity man explains himself that he «fully Science», - and as if in confirmation of this clock sits in the library and the computer stops to chat with friends. This is an example of the so-called replacement behavior: when to achieve the desired too hard, we unconsciously switch to a different activity, thereby relieving the stress and anxiety ».

Up to a certain point for many of virginity is not a problem. Sometimes young people even claim the right to remain virgin until you meet lover. But for 30 years raises concern, followed by a can emerge and this phobia: «Can I?», «I Normal?» Man falls in circulation doubt that eventually could lead to the rejection of his body, fear of another body rights. By the 40-year-old point mental pain only increases. «Women virgin adulthood no longer wait for sexual relations. - Few said: «I want sex». They can not disturb the very possibility of infiltration into their body, they are afraid of pain. Rather, say: «I want children, home, family».

Most sexologist feel wrong to separate sex from other components of romantic relationships. «Often the problem is not sex: care of him, men and women unconsciously waive any close relations», - explains French sexologist Michele Saal. «Solid and reliable, these people do not believe in myself that constantly run down their questions:« So I do? »,« Is do? »- Continues sexologist. - It is easier simply to abandon relations, which continue to doubt and to experience ».

«It happened by itself - is recognized Anna. - I am heading psychotherapy, and now express their feelings more freely. What I think and helped me get to know this man. We both worked at the talks, then have supper together, there is some sympathy. He was married, and because the relationship could not continue. I first was able to talk about his virginity to a man. I shack up with him. Neither love talking about what was not, but it happened with great tenderness, it is easy ... nice. This first experience like I opened up, and now I feel normal, beautiful woman ».

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Sex statistics

2008-09-19T11:21:00.000-07:00

The most popular time for sex - late in the evening on Saturday. The most unpopular - the day on Monday. Men accompanying sex obscene comments - 58% of women - 74%.

Men whose members have long 22sm and more - 1 in 100, Women who have more than two nipple - 1 of 5000, Men who believe that the half-woman sexual than completely naked -43% Three of the most erotic women's clothing: bra, stockings, shoes at the hairpin.

Men, on average, think about sex 2 hours a day, For the year the average man spends 23 hours of sex, Men often have sex: the missionary position , preferred dog-STYLE posture. In group sex ever participated: 28% of men, 13% of women Percentage of men who confess to their wives that people think during sex to other women - 51%, specifying what it is-39%.

After sex an average man: sleeping, eating, watching TV, In the year the number of casual partners (one night) a man about 30 years - 7, a woman - 1, The number of men, condemning such ties - 47% 31% of men claimed that they had happened several sexual partners at the same time, Men were negatively related to premarital sex, 19%; 24% of men believe that simulation orgasm - standard practice in sexual relations.

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The duration of the ideal sex

2008-09-19T10:42:00.000-07:00

Ideal sex should last for 7-13 minutes, and even three minutes is quite "normal", study conducted by American experts. Australian sexologist, commenting on the results, noted that most men want sex lasted longer, while women prefer the opposite, that sexual intercourse should end quickly, reported The Australian.

The study is the first by measuring the length of the ideal sex. Researchers interviewed residents of the United States and Canada. Contact length of 3-7 minutes of the respondents cited "normal", all that is lower - "too short" and the sex, lasting more than 13 minutes - "too long".

The study, published in the international "Journal of Sexual Medicine, was conducted in order to meet the demand myth that healthy sex should last a very long time. U.S. studies show that the majority of U.S. residents believe that normal sex should last for 15-20 minutes. However, as shown by various polls, usually sexual intercourse for less than half that time.

The author of the study, Eric Corty from Pennsylvania said that such thoughts are the cause of "disappointment and dissatisfaction". "In the fantasies of the ideal male sexuality, men are presented with more members, a stone erection and the ability to have sex all night long" - he notes.

"It turns out that many men and women share this fantasy. The result of this study was to create a realistic model of sexuality that helps people with various sexual disorders and dysfunction, but in the long term - to prevent the occurrence of these disorders," - he said.

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Sex before adulthood dangerous for life

2008-09-17T09:06:00.000-07:00

American psychologists found that early sexual experience contributes to the development of adolescent depression and may even lead to suicide. More than 25% of sexually active girls teenagers suffer from depression. Among them rovesnits not have sex, only 7.7% have psychological problems. At boys, the figures are somewhat lower - 8.3% and 3.4% respectively. This is evidenced by data American researcher Kirk Johnson. The scientist has concluded that sexual relations had a very negative impact on the psyche of adolescents. In his view, for the harmonious development of the individual first sexual experience does not need to receive before his adulthood. In the United States is 21 years.

From this point of view and agrees doctor of psychology Jin Tuenge. In gathering material for his book "Generation Me", academic interviewed 1.3 million young Americans and found that they are faced with depression much more often than previous generations. In doing so, with today's youth the most free views on sex, perhaps in the history of mankind. From the view of American colleagues stand some European experts who consider sex a kind of mine to the time mechanism, which, with careless handling could literally blow up the adolescent psyche.

The consequences could be terrible and more. American scientists calculated that the girl, sooner part with virginity, commit suicide three times more likely than their rovesnitsy, does not enter into sexual contact. Among boys the figure even higher. Young people entered into sexual relations in their teens, killed himself six times more frequently.

"Indeed, early sex can have very serious consequences." The fact is that at each stage of development formed in man certain mental functions. Thus, from 12 to 15 and even 18 years before the foundation of such a thing as loyalty. Then, 25 years before going on awareness of the concept of love. Early sex leads to a malfunction of a phased personality. It turns out that teenagers realize through sex only brute power, not realizing that such love, "- warns psychologist."Young girls often begin to think - that with the help of the sex they will be able to attach themselves to a partner, but in a way they only discourage him. And because girls typically attached to humans after close relationship, they often dealt with suicide because of failed love. Therefore, sexual life must begin no earlier than 18 years, when already pass all the major stages of personality. "

However, experts believe that early sex can not be treated unambiguously negative. "For example, for adolescents 14-15 years old, they engaged in sexual relationship. If they love each other - everything is normal," - believes sexologist. Let them will separate in two years, but they appeared experience. Yes, if young people do not like each other that, of course, very often, it can harm. But society must understand - physiological functions by themselves are not guilty, and they can not be denied. You can not injunctions!

It makes no sense to recognize the ban and psychologists. They are more concerned about the improper upbringing of teenagers. "Today's children are poorly distinguish the notion of love and sex. They are simply misinformed," - tells a psychologist. In doing so, there is a need for children to love and be loved. We should not prohibit them sex, as well as bans nothing wrest out, fill a need for love. Not coincidentally always particularly popular literature lessons. Through literature, children taught how to love.

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Second attempt

2008-09-16T08:52:00.000-07:00

As sometimes happens, upset or fall aboard, and then to part with his girlfriend or another, we think that this forever. But day passes (week, month) and we start to miss, sadness and mourn their fate. We think that all current setbacks and failures associated with loss of loved one, who as guardian angel protects us from life storms. In doing so we forget, of course, because of what actually occurred tiff and not hesitate to break his head (not afraid of the word), threw back to start all over again.

Imagine statistics argues that many people, who finds the strength to come back to, seemingly, a former friend in the broadest sense, are understood, accepted, and even more - their relationship come to lasting and durable agreement. However, before returning to his ex-friend or ex-girlfriend, it is necessary to reflect well on leisure and seriously weigh the pros and cons. Let us weigh together.

So, suppose you decided on the second attempt. Please note that at least one of two that necessarily need to lower their demands, that is to delete their bar. But even with all the willingness to make this relationship should not be reopened without prior nice conversation with a serious, but nonetheless a discussion that led you to rupture. If this conversation did not take place, psychologists warn, your relationship will be a precise repetition of the past. And this would not like anyone. It is therefore very calmly, without unnecessary emotions, if you want to discuss all your problems and differences that have not yet feel that none of the two harbours no resentment or evil to another.

But that's not all. These efforts will be required on your part is when you find together again. And they will need to send your relationships while avoiding the mistakes previously admitted, according to a new, more accurate way which would not lead again to the final, grandiose chamber or your relationship. It should not be the subject matter, someone who threw (abandoned the party, among other things, in most cases is more advantageous position prietom), or, say, one should not talk to each other about what can happen if you return possorites. Better not to think about that, because of whom and why to part you and that you have in common, because it is "common" and forcing you to be together again.

Another, which should reflect - is your personal situation at this period of time. Statistics again shows that are better than your case and regardless what you feel in life, so as to guarantee the success of your scheduled event. See for yourself: you have setbacks, you no one drew attention, you torture abandoned thoughts about you (or your friend to quit), and generally you have poured across the deep. Or maybe this state of affairs when you are not the way ex-friend or ex-girlfriend beckons, and it's your Excellency wishes to dispel Loneliness? That is why in such a position is not worth committing shots in the past. You just need someone who will understand and spare you. And this man can quickly become someone else, not your former friend, with whom one does not already exist. Undoubtedly, more likely from someone who succeeds. In this case, have a choice: if you prefer to rest your old love - it means that your deed objective, and this is the only person who you want.

And the last question that you should answer before dial phone number: if you want to purely theoretically prove to yourself that can return to her old passion? Does not of pure selfishness and vanity, not for the sake of whether that boast to friends or to satisfy their own curiosity you're going to rake up the past? If you understand that this is so and there are not count on your continued long novel - it will not. If your thoughts are clean, you are successful and are confident in their love - ever! And note that the second time separation would be much less painful than the first ...

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Sex for one night

2008-09-14T08:05:00.000-07:00

Happiness men and women is not forever and not always treason once. Deceived partners, according to new research findings, suffer not only mentally but also physically. As the study by the Institute of Psychology University of Göttingen, mental and physical health, caught in a situation to cause harm. The study was conducted on behalf of the German magazine Focus. It interviewed 3334 men and women holding traditional orientation, which had been deceived by their partners.

Do people know about treason loved one, symptoms similar to those that occur in patients, endured various injuries. 66% of men and 61% of women complain of insomnia and other sleep problems, 69% and 62% respectively have difficulties with concentration. 68% of men and 69% of women after such negative experiences are beginning to fear for the future.

The study provides data on the frequency and treason. According to the magazine Focus, single sex on the side - probably a myth. Only 12% of men and 9% of women changed their partners once. Most (41% and 46%) supports this kind of attitude from month to six months, while 29% and 23% - respectively longer. The reason, push for treason, is in most cases, sexual dissatisfaction partner.

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Friendship ... or sex?

2008-09-12T23:20:00.000-07:00

As the saying goes, the friendship between a man and a woman sooner or later ends with sex. This, of course, does not always happen, but very often. The question whether to translate good friendly relations in the intimate sphere. All the pros and cons, you can weigh, having read this article.

The most obvious advantage is simplicity in the relationship. Ie you have a sexual partner, you do not have to look at his side, moreover your sexual relations are built on the absence of the pressures and constraints, and, of course, the emotional side. But this is only possible if both sides are well aware that such sexual relations to anything they did not oblige. Both partner honest with each other in that they both have sex and only, that is pleasure to each other, no one thought arises that the other uses, as, indeed, such sexual relationships built on mutual use of each other.

If you want sexual relations are not destroyed your friendship, you must be honest with each other. If someone of you (this applies mostly female), although there is little hope for something more, consider this the beginning of the end of your relationship. In 9 cases out of 10 such friendly-sex does not become a serious stage, therefore, women do not try to do from their male friends serious partners in life and not to join with him in sexual relations with some far-reaching calculation, only if you both want to sexual pleasures, and sex and all that.

This situation is suitable, since, so you skipped intermediate stage of flirting. You do not need to go to visit, buy gifts, invite in a cafe or restaurant, try to guess that she likes. All well and understood and known. You do not need to worry about how the meeting will take place, you feel comfortable with one another and physically and emotionally, you know each other's shortcomings. Men can not face, whether successful sexual intercourse, as in any case, you stay in good terms, and then can laugh together over small setbacks. Such a relationship for people who have not left time for romance, but there is a need.

Remember that you must be honest to each other and all points over "and" should be separated. Moreover, you should not extend your relationship to friends, relatives, acquaintances. You also should not advertise in public relations. If there is mutual understanding between the partners in this matter, it is sufficient to simply call. But if a partner for some reason refuse from the meeting should not insist and be aggrieved, because you do not need each other, in the sense of sexual relations. Moreover, convenience and comfort factor does not mean that you must be lazy or lazy lover mistress. Do not try to make the impression, just a pleasure and you will answer the same.

"Нарpу end". This happens very rarely, but perhaps that romantic feelings arise from both sides. And when that happens, the friendly feelings degenerate into something more than a simple agreement to meet the physical needs, they degenerate into serious relationship with the solid foundation built on friendship, mutual understanding and flickering feelings.

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Sex study Durex: secret becomes clear

2008-09-12T11:50:00.000-07:00

Durex, the world expert in the field of sexual health and pleasure, presents the results of a global study of sexual life - Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey. The project was attended by more than 26 000 people from 26 countries. Project participants raised a variety of questions about sex. And, first of all scientists wanted to know how residents of different countries are satisfied with their intimate lives. In doing so, experts Durex found the most important parameters for sexual gratification.

The more people engaged in sex, the greater its chances to find happiness in your personal life. The Russians were three world leaders sexual marathon. 78% of Russian men and 80% of women have sex at least once a week. On average, each inhabitant of our country has 143 love visits a year. Ahead of Russians only passionate Greeks (164 times) and temperamentnye Brazilians (145 times per year). More rarely been able to remove all the stress in bed Americans - only 85 times a year. But the Japanese are showing restraint, these miracles: they find time for love just 48 times for the whole year!

In doing so, the scientists found curious difference between the frequency of sex for men and women. As a rule, men more often engage in love their girlfriends, but something happens where and vice versa. In Spain, weak sex "wins" with superiority in 4% and resident of South Africa made lovingly comfort to 11% more men! There is only one question: Where is the passionate African girls find partners?

Longer just love the game last in Nigeria: on average spend here on sex entire 24 minutes. Not lagging behind Nigerians Greeks (22.3 minutes), Mexicans (22.3 minutes) and Brazilians (21.4 minutes). In Russia, too, a decent result: Russians act of love lasts at least 18 minutes. But among the "lagging"… were Frenchmen, whose love is only 14.6 minutes. Worse figure - in India. Although it is in this country wrote "Kamasutra", Hindus spend the whole sex at 13.2 minutes.

Orgasm gives the brightest feelings, but experiencing its far not all. Durex found that most enjoy during the proximity of the residents of Mexico, South Africa, Italy and Spain - are 66% of respondents experiencing orgasm. Quite a bit lagging behind Brazilians (65%) and Greeks (64%). In Russia defusing love gets a little more than half the population - 54%. But less sexual satisfaction fell on the proportion of residents of China and Hong Kong: in these countries, only 24% reach the highest point of delight.

Female orgasm became the subject of a separate study Durex. The most satisfied were resident of Mexico (51%), South Africa (48%) and Italy (48%). In Russia, experiencing orgasm 37% of women. The least fortunate Japanese again: only 11% of them are experiencing the peak of delight. A resident of Hong Kong have set an absolute record of dissatisfaction: here only 8% of women reach orgasm during sex. Not surprisingly, it is Hong Kong and Japan are headed by top sexually dysfunctional countries.

Only 32% of Hong Kong residents and 10% of Japanese are happy with their intimate lives. Fortunate were all Nigerians - 78% think here their sexual life at its very. In Mexico the same views hold 73% and in India - 67%. In Russia satisfied with the quality of sex only 42%.

The Durex Global Sexual Wellbeing Survey (2006 year) - a global study of sexual culture under the auspices of Durex, the world leader for the production of goods for sexual health and pleasure. Large-scale study covered more than 26 thousand respondents in 26 countries around the world. During August and September 2006, scientists collected and analyzed enormous information on sexual life of different peoples. These data will enable Durex even more effectively help people worldwide find love and harmony of sexual relations. Satisfaction - just one aspect of the study Durex. In his course were explored topics such as physical pleasure, emotional aspect of sex, first sexual experience and sexual preference. Durex phased intend to disclose all the data collected in the next 18 months.

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Never to part with your beloved

2008-09-11T09:00:00.000-07:00

Relations between people always require the ability to find a common language throughout, and regarded each other with the view. For its part, you must remember - in all respects no place in any ultimatums, that you just fold back from a loved one. If dear wants to go with friends to drink beer - please. He wants to forget a bit, and you can do most needed. Not all the same "house, family, work"! But abuse of such freedom of action should not - be aware measure in all.

Remember: even the best young man you never replace a beloved friend! The fact is that men and women have different reactions to stress. Heavy floor in this situation shut goes to themselves, while women must be reprimanded. If women are beginning to "eat out" a man they perceive it as a call to action. And if a man can not help, it feels a sense of guilt. Women just have to tell what happened, and gain sympathy. And this can often give only girlfriend.

But what if your favorite himself jealous you to a better girlfriend? If this happens, it means beloved think that what rightfully belongs to him, you sacrificed girlfriend. Therefore, do not forget to emphasize the important role played by it in your life. Of course, one must remember that you really loving people (or favorite girlfriend) will not dictate any conditions about with whom you communicate better, but will respect and appreciate all your choice. These friends should understand each other, just as sincere and loving people, too, you never refuse to enter the situation.

Love - a candle flame. Ty itself - like dome over the flames. What is your stronger self-confidence, so you burn more reliable flame. Yet the rest, and even friends - as a breeze. It may slightly or threaten to blow lights. A hurricane can be. Therefore, try to be strong cap his love, and not suffer the fate of methane and ...

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Statistics of sex

2008-09-10T10:15:00.000-07:00

U.S. scientists conducted a sociological survey women about their sexual life. Here's what conclusions they did. Today, more women experiencing orgasm during sex. Statistics show that 20-30 year girls today are so pleased to 2 times more often than in 1994.

Every third admitted that during sex is that it is engaged in love with someone else. 65% said that informs his partner if they had not reached orgasm, and 2% silent and pretend that they are satisfied. 7 out of 10 said that are condoms in their purse "just in case." Half of the women interviewed were not ready to have sex on the first date, and waiting at least 2 or 3 meetings.

Sex, of course, very important, but 90% of women say that to have good relations and friendships are needed, trusting relationship. Most ladies have sex, 2 times a week, 1 out of 5 - once a month. click here

The first sexual contact

2008-09-10T04:17:00.000-07:00

Motive of the first sexual experience may be love, passion or curiosity. But regardless of the reasons men and women almost always experiencing anxiety or stress. Even if the men had already been sexual experience, in the early acquaintance with a new partner he may have difficulties. It may be so concerned about the tension and desire to make a good impression that will not be able to achieve erection, as this would severely he did not want. Or vice versa too quickly reach orgasm because of the excess stimulation. This situation is possible in the very first sexual experience only in this case problems may be complicated inexperience partner. But that has not happened does not have to think about failure just because it happened not quite as expected, do not need to take first experience too seriously, because the situation will improve as experience is gained and gaining self-confidence.

The following tips should help in making even more pleasant your first steps in sex. Create a comfortable and intimate, that there is a sufficient amount of time that nothing and no one has been able to thwart you. And although five minutes in the back seat cars in jeopardy, you find that this assumption may, of course, deprive you of chastity and even bear some share of romance, but the number of failures in such cases much higher. Do not forget about contraception, pregnancy if your partner is undesirable. Always remember that there are sexually transmitted diseases, some of them can run and hide people they can not even suspect, including AIDS. And if you do not quite know their partner or partner, it is better to once again secure oneself against. Also rule will be good tone, if you think about the safety of your partner, because if you already have sexual contact, it is possible that you are a carrier of infection.

It should not be too hasty, too, especially if the partner did not sexually experienced. A woman should be sufficiently initiated, then it appears a natural lubricant, and they relax, thus facilitating sexual penetration member. If not enough natural lubrication, to use lyubrikant, it will also facilitate the penetration and reduce the pain and traumatization. In addition, lyubrikant with nonoksinol-9 will help prevent unwanted pregnancies, with aloe and vitamin "A" will accelerate the process of regenerating, but with clorgeksin mirimistinom or speak in his role antiseptic. If partner virgin, I choose posture "top man" and put a pillow under her hips to facilitate infiltration. Tremors have to be shallow, cautious, but strong.

Virginal membrane does not constitute a real obstacle, as it is a very thin wall, only partially covers entry into the vagina. When it does not break the pain is too strong, unpleasant feelings are likely to arise from the fact that entry into the vagina has not yet been stretched and very narrow, and muscles can be severely stretched from the unrest. Therefore, your actions may facilitate a tentative entrance into the vagina stretching his fingers. The loss of blood is usually only symbolic, and sometimes it may not be at all.

None of you should not feel disappointed if the woman does not reach orgasm. Only not many women in the first Relations experiencing orgasm, it's sometimes rare, even with a regular sex life. Most women have to learn to experience orgasm during intercourse, they are not automatic, as in men.

To defuse tensions can drink any alcoholic beverage, but in small numbers. Keep in mind that excessive alcohol consumption reduces sensitivity and slows down the time of orgasm in men. Yes case and not only in this, because first sexual experience - this event, about which people then remembers his entire life, and agree, as some do not seem especially pleased then to remember all their lives, who are deprived your virginity : How your first girl all night trying to awaken you that you want something done with it.

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The crises of family life.

2008-09-07T09:27:00.000-07:00

No family, which during his life, never to quarrel. All discord and trouble - is to check the strength of relations. But it turns out all these troubles cyclical, and it may be, if not avoided, at least mitigate crises. Psychologists have found that each couple is being held, on average, three crisis. There may be more, it all depends on the temperament of spouses.

The first crisis, the crisis first 3-5 years of marriage. It depends on it, whether you're together or not. Advances the period ended occur gray weekdays. The husband and wife used to each other, they often have to deal with economy, stood at the plate, clean, wash, etc. The desire to do good turns beloved be a drag on. Most divorces, about 80%, accounts on this crisis. The partner or partner are actually not such as the first time acquaintances. People tend to idealize family life, especially women, but when a person is faced with the reality, there is a contradiction between dream and reality.

Sign with a partner rule: to discuss all disputes and differences. Then your or his discontent will not accumulate and result in rapid clarification of the relationship. If it does, you possorilis, try to understand her lover, to stand on its site, think, or maybe you are wrong? Do not try to change her husband - you are unlikely to succeed. Always looking for compromise, no loops on the negative points. Since Most quarrels in this period occurs because of domestic affairs, often going out from their homes in halves of the theater, guests, distractions.

The second crisis occurs through 7-9 years of living together. It is linked to the phenomenon of addictive. Usually by this time many couples factory children have financial independence. All habits, and behavior of a partner well understood. You can tell your husband as the lead themselves in any situation, with half the words you understand each other. All seem to be good, but it seems that love thing, no passion interest in the first years of marriage.

Do not hurry with conclusions. Understand, your love just moved to a new phase, has gained new sensations. Psychologists advise during this period of rest more often from each other, go to the fitness club, meet friends, and let the husband goes to football. You can take up new hobbies, change the image, that is make in my life that something new. You will see that you have new topics for discussion with her husband.

After 16-20 years of marriage may be the third crisis. It is exacerbated by middle-aged crisis. At that time the children grow, the plant for their families. Career either already taken place, and happy people, enjoying welcome success or not achieved what wanted. Many men are afraid at this age look untenable, so very often the fastest factory novels with young girls. They want to prove ourselves and others that much more can achieve and gain.

If you have something this happens, do not rush to divorce. After all, this is an extreme measure. Remain such as wise, cheerful and upbeat! These novels take place very quickly, and you are bound by long years, understanding of each other, knowing all the habits and preferences. In most cases husbands returned again, frightened of new life and misunderstanding.

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The theory of sexual selection. How do you evaluate women

2008-09-06T01:26:00.000-07:00

In contrast to the evolution of abstract, brutal sex selection we are seeing every day. That's pretty blond went past and did not even reply to your greeting. A girl in a bar sniff, when you tried to give a treat its beer. You think every case to the beer? Not at all, you simply failed sexual selection. And so, you have to continue with the women all was well, tell - in the first and last time.

In contrast to the strong muscles and fast feet, such qualities as splendid peacocks and a long tail, seemingly quite useless in the struggle for existence. Why is their evolution has retained and even contributes to development? Responding to this question, Darwin suggested that teams in animals of different sex selection occurs on specific "sexually attractive" grounds.In such females are trying to select a team of the best and most attractive future father, and males compete with each other, trying to draw the attention of females. The longer the peacock's tail, the more chances he likes females. The same story with a deer horns and face with a necktie and a person.

Many years later, when the genes have already been discovered, biologists have confirmed the idea of Darwin: female descendant invest in more costly than males, so they are more interested in one, but "good" father. A peacock learns media as the best genes? At the tail, of course! CONCLUSION: women admired only the best - even if it is absolutely the best useless from a practical point of view. The main thing is that you have to start as a stand out from the crowd. The votes hair, tenacity. Or at least a jacket.

Many typical female character traits, according to scientists anthropologists, have a biological cause is understandable. They endured in an us from our ancestors-monkeys, and millions of years of evolution have not been able to change the "protection" in our brains program behaviour. Girls love swings. Take girlfriend in the amusement park, and she will choose either carousels or swings - short, the attractions associated with the sensation of flight. The passion for this kind of entertainment we inherited from the distant ancestors - monkeys, which, at the hands of swing, flew for hours with branches at the branch.

Cub monkeys spend the first months of life on the body of my mother, clutch fingers in her hair. Therefore, many women like to sleep, squeeze in the hands of soft toys. When people grope and warm wool, in the brain automatically gets reassurance program. Incidentally, this is why many women like to knit. During ovulation, all female monkeys experiencing arousal and cravings for increased communication. They run from one member to another flock, looking the most suitable male. If there is no male, it's not a problem and talk with female - maybe even girlfriend tell where to hide all these two guys. And although ovulation among human beings less visible passion for communication and gossips still remained.

If young monkeys take away from the mother, baby in horror grasp of wool - but already his own. People in a state of despair, but for lack of wool, are beginning to tear at their hair themselves. And many women, experiencing stress, go to the hairdresser - so that sub-hand shabby hairstyle. It is from a hike in the hairdresser some ladies are beginning a new life - to drop out of work, husband or let all serious. Instinct - can you do nothing. Sexual lips chimpanzee in a state of ovulation fill with blood and become bright red. But the monkeys sometimes think that kind of her genitalia little attracts males, and she begins to protrude their normal lips. Then too, all males immediately pay attention to the ready-to-female fertilization.

Females chimpanzee changing sexual partners several times a day. And each time before pairing males come into ritual battle for the right to possession of females - is instinct. Exactly the same instinct works and females - man-chimps must prove their right to insemination. And though now people have no need for every sexual act to beat opponent to face, the head women are still running "test - sex". And if there is no decent opponent, then let in another proving their love. Well, for instance, would let the tea. No, not with lemon, but with jam. And not with strawberry, but with bilberry. Or you do not love me?

Biologists have determined that in the process of sexual selection 80% of females of all species choose their same male - that is just a "spy", who picked neighbour. Swedish and Finnish biologists have put the experiment on the hen: done stuffed birds and move them from one black to another. Living hen that while present, have shown a clear interest it is to those who are surrounded by female attention.

The same reaction and a weak human sex. What do you think would do in the first place any woman coming to the party? It will examine not men and women to learn - what a man is the most attractive? 're Still the one that overshadowed her? And if there is such a woman starts nervous and simply jealous: how so? Attention, its rightful receives another! Consequently, all objects of attention from the need to discourage rival. CONCLUSION: surrounding themselves "stuffed" women. The emerging everywhere and always surrounded by beautiful sex (let them be relatives, colleagues at work or simply friends). Very soon you'll see that in your surroundings, new copies. Nobody likes to single men - any decides that the time it refused to everyone else, then it he did not seem especially and unnecessary. click here

Islam. Love and sex

2008-09-05T11:19:00.000-07:00

In terms of oral tendresse in Islam there are different views. They proceed from the principle of "permitted all that is not forbidden", referring to the meaning and: "Your wife - Niva for you, go to your field, as a wish, and prepare for themselves, and be afraid of God ..." (2:223). There are only two ban, they say. The first is contained in the Koran - a ban on sexual intercourse during the month: "move away from the same women in menstruation and is not approaching them until they cleanse" (2:222).On the second ban in several states Hadith Prophet (yes Allah bless him and welcomed), and it deals with anal sex (as will be discussed separately). Thus, a direct ban on oral sex in Islam does not.

However, oral sex (if it is not limited stimulation) can be linked to hit in the mouth, men and women sperm his madhi (selections glands before eruption seed) or, respectively, selections female genital glands in the mouth by men. With regard to cleanliness sperm among Mussulmans there is no single opinion. Some believe it clean, like saliva or milk mothers, others denied it clean, comparing with blood and urine.

Another view is that oral sex degrading to humans and is such an act, "which did not commit, even the lowest animals" (Mufti Ibrahim Desai from South Africa). It is based on that person's head and his mouth - a sublime parts of the body. Roth and language memory for us to serve Allah, so using them to to bring sexual pleasure to their spouse humiliates rights. However, such considerations related to sex seen as something dirty and unworthy. But the man was created from seed, and Allah put the embryo in the womb so that he could obtain full development: "Is not it a drop of semen museums?" (75:37); "He makes you in your mothers womb, one after another in the creation of three darkness" (39:6).

There is another argument, found in the writings of some Islamic scholars. They say that there is only one certain place, where men's seed to fall - is vagina. God created man exactly so, he provided this to the human race could continue. In this case, compared with the field appears as a proof of the following allegations: grain should fall into the earth to it subsequently increased harvest ( "catechize for themselves").

"Oral sex is acceptable with the consent of both spouses, provided that the mouth does not hit any liquid" (Ayatollah Ali Sistani). "With regard to oral sex, it is acceptable only as a prelude to sex and stimulation" (Sheikh Ahmad Kutti)

Sheikh Kutti writes: "Scientists believe that oral sex with intent to obtain eruption husband's semen into the mouth of his wife - makruh (undesirable effect). This assertion is based on the views of Muslim jurists who considered unclean and semen madhi. If, during oral sex classes are seed eruption occurs, the spouses must perform a complete anointing - gusl, if not, sufficiently small anointing - voodoo.

Among the founders of the four schools of Islamic law there is a difference of opinion as to whether the seed (mani) clean or not. While the Imams Abu Hanifa and Malik consider unclean seed (nadzhas), and Ahmad Shafii imams do not share this viewpoint. But they all insist that the seed must wash off if it is wet, or to scrape away from the body, clothing or other items on which it came, if it has dried. If, during oral sex classes seed hit in the mouth, it is necessary to rinse their mouths. In any case, can not swallow seed. " click here

The most stupid laws on sex

2008-09-03T22:42:00.000-07:00

In different countries around the world about sex laws "go one up" unprecedented fun. For example, in California a cat with a dog must obtain special permission to engage in love with each other. And in Utah is illegal to engage in sex with a man at a time when it bring in resuscitation.

The law prohibits Alaska salmon have sex on the streets of the city. In Washington, the only permissible position is missionary. Any other position is not legitimate. Police in the state of Idaho, if noticed have sex in the car, must, before suit, beep and wait 2 minutes, and then approached. In the state of Iowa man is allowed to do no more than 3 gulps of beer while he deals with sex.

In the state of Kentucky woman is forbidden to appear in bathing suits on the carriageway. The exception, if it is two police escort. In Michigan woman hair is prohibited without permission from her husband's hair. In Oregon illegally swearing during sex with his wife.

In Pennsylvania is illegal to have sex with a truck driver in his car. In South Dakota forbidden to have sex in a hotel on the floor. In Texas, there is a law banning pigs have sex at the airport. In Washington, there is a law prohibiting sex with a virgin.

In the state of Wyoming law prohibits have sex at the entrance to the store. In Minnesota, the husband is forbidden to have sex with his wife, if it smells of garlic or onions. In Montana forbidden to have sex in front of the house after sunset. In Nebraska in the hotel to have sex, you can only clean shirt night. In Nevada sex without a condom is not legitimate.

In New Mexico sex in a car during a lunch break banned, but allowed only when the machine is curtains. In Oklahoma law forbids masturbation for a man who oversees the sex of the other two people in the car. Illinois: if a partner at any time sexual intercourse say "no", his partner is obliged to stop. Otherwise sex by mutual consent turn into rape.In Santa Cruz, allowed a man to have sex with a woman and her daughter at the same time.

In the Middle East, Islamic law states: "After sex with a lamb mortal sin of the lamb consumed in food." In Lebanon, men are allowed to have sex with animals, animal if female. Sex with male animals is punishable by death. In Bahrain male gynecologist can look at the genitals of women in the survey only through the mirror.

In Indonesia, the punishment for masturbation - beheading. In Guam, there is a male profession, which is to travel to villages and deprived girls virginity. The point is that under the laws of Guam virgin does not have the right to marry. In Hong Kong, the wife has the right to kill her husband, who she has changed, but it can do so only bare hands.Bare seller legally permitted in Liverpool. click here

About silent than men in bed?

2008-09-03T08:26:00.000-07:00

Of course, sexual education reached among us known success. The average ordinary person has been able to reflect on the statistical superiority over the clitoris vaginal orgasm. Woman almost business tone may briefed before sexual intercourse: "And you have… such things? .." Moreover, respect for their sexual preferences and partnerships almost does not concede theoretical knowledge: we do express their emotions words, do not feel shy and not redden. At least when it comes to basic values. In the same nuances and especially in the criticism partner, we somehow have a delicacy.

But when it came to bed - here we cast the truth. Do you think that there is light at the ideal woman? Yes, we do not need any ideal! Late. Now we want to consider all of your irregular folds and the roughness of the holder of a happy eye. Hide and muffle meaningless. Active shamelessness temperamentnoy squab us where miles than the relevant parameters 90-60-90. In addition, on some things we just can not pay attention until we are not tknut nose: "You see, I have one more chest". Well, yes, once we explained we are ready to reject about this together. Whatever you may perceive themselves, remember above all: in bed should be proud of their bodies.

Sex turns us into animals. We do strange things, almost no talking, cries, biting, and then spend a few minutes in silence, as if returning to civilized conversation. So sometimes in the men's head coming suspicion - and in ourselves whether it was? Does she remembers that now done, or it was unconscious state of meditation? Awaken in lowland instincts of a woman - no great feat, but to learn from its self-identity and sense of humor - another thing. Do not be afraid at times to understand the man that you are aware of their actions. Just look at him in the eye. Especially during oral sex. This, as our respondents, indeed "terribly excites".

Not all men speak with his penis and give him a name. It is rather an American comedies. But some divisions in the "I" and "he" is present in male psychology. Although already because his behavior so unpredictable. And once their two, and then the relationship should be built separately. Just imagine that we are talking about his favorite cheerful and stupid dog. You do not miss this case potrepat animal on the head, to caress, to say something good. And with the male penis. Man will be very touched by your concern for his pupil.

Men do not like sex almost could not. There's even a male American saying: "Sex - like pizza, even if bad, it is still good". click here

She fear of sex

2008-09-03T07:53:00.000-07:00

One, my girlfriend constantly suffers setbacks in his personal life. It is quite attractive, many men would like it closer relations. And she was in love with some of them. But hardly anyone of them tried to kiss her, she immediately raised revulsion, and she refused further development of relations. And, for bedding scenes, for example, in films, she observes with obvious pleasure. But when it comes to real life, she just can not imagine that it is love. Even with a man who truly likes her, even in fantasies with some well-known actor, nor with whom. She was about thirty, but not something that family, and even have a decent novel she had never produced. From time to time she calls me on the phone, tells about another failure and with tears in the voice asked why this is happening with it, whether it was normal.

The question "Are all the fine with me?" - Probably the most frequently asked question when it comes to sex. Very many people occasionally feel that maybe they were not everything is fine - that they feel that they like or dislike in sex. Forget the "normality"! The fact that normal for you may not be quite normal for the other, and vice versa. And in this there is nothing terrible. Although sometimes the situation is, indeed, can cause discomfort and badly affect the personal life, as is the case with my girlfriend. And then one must look for a way out.

Such fear of entry into sexual relationships called intimofoby. This is not a disease, and the state of relations with other people. And if men intimofoby most often manifests itself in fear of not sexual, and intimate, in terms very close, trusting, long-term emotional relationship with regular sexual partner, the women usually intimofoby expressed in fear of it sexual relations.

Reasons intimofoby can be quite a large number of factors - social, psychological, sexual. Putting an end to the disease itself is very difficult, especially in difficult cases need help psychotherapist, long painstaking work with the patient and serious analysis of all his previous life. Indeed, the roots intimofoby usually laid back in early childhood. Psychologists increasingly seen as intimofoby character pathology caused by upbringing alone, unbalanced mother. Mother his unpredictable behavior has formed with his child in disbelief predictability conduct of another person, so he does not trust anyone and neither is trying neither of whom do not depend. Psychiatrists believe intimofoby consequence of some mental illness in which there are emotional and strong-willed violations.

Intimofobymans may be even stronger and self-confidence with the type of men. Incidentally, it is possible that the legendary Casanova and suffered from intimofoby. It is this malaise, and not rampant sexual appetite forced to change its partners, such as gloves. Any man simply afraid to be rejected. The man, suffering intimofoby, few believe in loyalty and friendship, and very many of its incomprehensible, in your opinion, it is deeds connected with this, so that it insured against possible failures. And then he tells you: "You know me so many times in life betrayed that I simply can not trust anyone until the end, even for you".

Women now intimofoby suffer even more men. Many well-earned, well stand in the legs, so there is no need to men as breadwinners. Much more convenient to have such a ladies "bogus" friends. Many single women seeking to "give birth to themselves", believing that they have enough forces and means to educate the child. But, despite the best efforts of mother, child in danger of single-parent families receive one-sided education.

Already confirmed science and statistics that if a single woman born daughter, then she risks in the future to repeat the fate of the mother. From childhood your child better grasp certain stage of life and behaviour: for example, that the family should be dad and mom, allocation of responsibilities, caring, etc. If not, a girl can grow with the firm conviction: "If my mother was able to do without her husband, then he and I to anything." In addition, an enormous influence on the younger girl has a relevance to her father or step-father. Nitpicking father can make the girl in misandrist. Having experienced in childhood humiliating treatment by the very close person, the girl firmly learning that from other men can expect the same, and therefore do better without them! click here

Teens tale...

2008-09-01T22:54:00.000-07:00

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"Well, as years have passed?" -- Asked a girl from another girl fifteen years old. "Yes so anything interesting," - is responsible. "But I have three boyfriends were one of them ... THIS happened ..." The situation is painfully familiar, and if not for its own experience, the experience of friends - accurately. Mostly about sex for girls from becoming thirteen and before marriage.

So what is this, just close to each their own biological clock. Some are reluctant, others - are late, but it does not cause to throw stones at the first hit, more or less decent male specimen. And after THIS executed with a sense of duty and deep disgust THIS to return home. But what will talk to "experienced" girlfriend:You moved slightly at the party, and a new acquaintance you think it is terribly nice and cheerful guy. He said such interesting and, most importantly, original things that probably in bed, he at least inventors. In principle, the situation is not very critical, with whom I can not get? While there, and its minuses. The most unpleasant happens in such cases awakening next to strangers and absolutely not so nice guy. And you strongly lucky if we can remember his name. But there is another nuance - the likelihood of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. In drunk on such things as statistics prove, few people think.

You regularly get expensive gifts from a young man, live with him or somehow depend on it. In such situations, many girls see in sex for a way to repay the kindness and attention. Yet everything must be quite different! And if love is becoming a sort of conventional units, neither one nor the other much joy from it is unlikely to receive. And if tomorrow you will give presents someone else, but after tomorrow - the third and so on, at a pace and with such views did not become one of the representatives of prostitutes. Are you sure you want only male sex, therefore, regularly giving him what they need, be able to keep it in themselves. Mistake. It's like a confectionery factory at work: first madly tasty and interesting, and then heartburn from one mention of the sweets.

In addition, the sweets - not only product, but around so delicious, and who want to try! So to rely solely on sex, you can only have to be prepared for what you get in return, too, only sex. The last reason why you want to do is: one-time sex - it's fashionable, especially after numerous movies and fashion magazines, where experienced girls bring to mind men who used them as wanted, and dropped out, writing in a long list under the number seven.

Agree, this is cool. But there is the reverse side of the coin - going out to hunt, is to think that whoever was caught in your network, too, may prove to potential hunter, and, like you, he can use you. Sensations are not the most pleasant, but that is life. Therefore, before you decide on a deed, it would be appropriate to ask why you need it and whether you need at all. And if after a given question "Why I want this?" You did find the answer, strongly recommend that you quit this occupation. Because this feeling and a desire to justify the reasons and did not need.

Signs of treason

2008-09-01T03:00:00.000-07:00

Man, which step out wife, calculate not so difficult: lasts longer than us on the side, so it is easier to detect. Psychologists distinguish similar behaviour fraud, which can indicate on treason.

He begins to hold less time with you. The explanation is rather banal: extra work, suddenly the scheduled meeting, a meeting with a client. Ceased to look like lovers: sex has become a rare guest in your bedroom (of course, ostensibly because of fatigue at work), disappeared were tenderness, he does not want to holding hands, kissed by the moon and done many other lovely stupidity, which is doing in your best times.

Suddenly and dramatically alter the appearance. Sid on diet, is beginning to go to the gym, changing haircut and buys clothing in a new style. Passenger seat in his car suddenly has shifted in the embarrassing situation for you, is found on the floor Women's long hair, the radio instead of the usual radio "Retro" sounds "Maximum" ... Of course, the situation is back seat, which comfortably his new passion, and a number of musical turned on its request.

Man irritability becomes more and more often leaves himself. So bizarre it said feelings of guilt. To make his silent, a man trying to find (and, often, finds) cause for irritation. Changing its smell: after shaving cream - not the one that was gifted to him by you at the New Year, as obsession and long-lasting fragrance of women's spirits, found on his jacket, cast doubt that the so intensively suffocated his department staff member.

Behavior change: affects psychology defender. At a simple phrase: "Hello, where are you?" immediately be otpoved that do not have to be so suspicious. That is precisely after this suspicion and usually begin. Talks on a mobile phone definitely lead to suspicion. Previously, he quietly left a mobile phone on the table and left in the shower, it is changing, he takes off his or even in a rest-room. It starts with strange calls: seeing the number on the determinant, he run out of room and closes a door, but, coming back, gabble out something unintelligible an urgent call from the boss. In two hours the night.

A man with an average wealth suddenly begins to spend on a family much less money. The reason for not suddenly woke effectiveness, but that a new passenger must walk in a restaurant, keep in film and give something not too cheap - an impression. click here

Place of family quarrels

2008-08-31T23:49:00.000-07:00

The most "hot point" in the house is the kitchen, which more often than other premises, it becomes a place "clarify relations." To avoid family strife, try to hold less time in the kitchen. Such a council gives the British company's analytical experts "Hot point", the study spent thousands of homes in different regions of the United Kingdom.

According to their data, the "hot point" in the house is the kitchen, which more often than other premises, it becomes a place "clarify relations." Wives swearing husbands, partners for dirty dishes, and those in turn, emerging from themselves, in particular, for their half-made "smuggled" cup of tea and other actions underhand.

85% of women surveyed admitted that come just in fury when men create disorder in cooking and do not wash dishes, as well as forgotten once again put in the refrigerator products. No less a cause irritation women selfishness of their husbands when they eat the last piece to regale with.

Every tenth woman admitted that revenge for that response, including ignoring the men and provoking even greater tensions. For expression housewife Jenny Hughes, "kitchen - the heart of this house: it is here that we do homework, entertain, communicate." It is therefore not surprising that there are occurring and the most severe clashes, Hughes believes. click here

Mistakes first wedding night

2008-08-31T11:00:00.000-07:00

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The first contact with new partner often brings disappointment. Sexual Association estimated: only 47 percent finish the night of love relationships. Experts advise how to behave, not that the first night was the last.Increased demands on the partner or to themselves. Men are afraid to foul up and try to extend sexual intercourse longer. Women portray themselves from Messalina out of fear that they deem frigid.

Disappointment. In their fantasies man brings the woman to multiple orgasm. And so it happens - with a constant, habitual partner. But with a new girlfriend lover so afraid to disappoint her, that starts to experience before time. Anxiety directly affects erection. The result - misfire. Women, too easy - often, to worry a lot, they can not relax. And because the new partner does not know what "buttons" you need to press, a lady does not receive the full pleasure. The effects - the gap relations.-- The longer the delay sexual contact, the stronger the partners played fantasy - argues psychologist. -- Naturally, we think that under it will be steeper and sex. Everyone expects another something supernatural, and produced medium.

Hurry do not need. Psychologists estimate that fall perfectly into the bed after five visits. The more partners know each other, so they will be comfortable in bed. And should not make excessive demands. It must be understood that if more concerted practices, it would be better sex. And still less do not need to show their displeasure. If misfire occurred, a woman should not sharpen its attention to the person dissatisfied and disappointed suspire. The next time everything will turn out. Men also need to behave less rapidly. Remember: women do not like the constant change of items. Orgasm - a thin piece, so you can pleasure "shoot down" a change of pace or position.

-- For many people, sex - this expression of love. -- They do not take into account that other people may think differently. Typically, women tend to romanticize us. They believe that after sex, especially if he was magnificent, partner simply obliged to show heightened concern. But men often fearfulness. They need time to understand their feelings and emotions. Usually they did not name Enchantresses immediately after sex to the wedding. It is not like any infringement on freedom. In general, everything depends on the seriousness of the relationship between human beings. You do not need to think that the partner applies to you just as you will be attending. The sentiments in any event will be the test of time.

Partners can not meet each other fully. Naturally, frustration and irritation. A few arise after such sex desire to try to lie in bed again.-- This usually occurs for two reasons: partners enjoy a hurry or simply not too interested in sex. -- In the excitement meet not only the main erogenous zone, located directly on the sexual organs. Impacting on them quickly, forgetting about other centers of pleasure, you will get a purely mechanical excitation, but not emotional.

Both men and women saw such inattention to itself as an affront. The second wants to seize the moment, in order to snatch his quickly. Therefore, you need to pay a prelude decent time - not a few tens of seconds, and at least ten minutes. At the same time an opportunity to find where is your partner lie erogenous zones, which are known to have different people may find themselves in quite unexpected places. Do not be afraid to ask leading questions, otherwise not have enough time for the key.

Sexual harmony comes only after ten sexual acts - calculated French physiologist. During this period can be good to explore each other's erogenous zone and not be afraid to disappoint partner in their abilities.

Realy orgasm

2008-08-30T02:06:00.000-07:00

Every self-respecting man wants the girl of his choice was master in the kitchen, living room and queen of whores in bed. Well, not, of course, whores, but at least consider it the best lover in the world.It turns out that there are such women. They do not have problems with orgasm, and vice versa, are enchanting defusing any man. But, nevertheless, prefer one. Sexologs call them super women.

Find a woman is not easy, but many searches are justified. First, it has always experienced orgasm, which in itself is a big plus. Secondly, its discharge will be very strong and vivid that greatly increases man's self-esteem. A main feature of these women - after orgasm, they flow into the state of trance, until faint. This condition can last from 10 to 20 minutes, after which it will praise his man to heaven. In relations with women there is a big problem: they are very hard to get into a bed. However, suspecting the ability to die of orgasm in every woman does not need intransigence.

We need to carefully asked my steadys new and very familiar about childhood, sexuality, relationships with parents. If you demonstrate the wonders of diplomacy and skills of a psychologist, it can learn a lot of interesting things. This woman must meet certain parameters.

She started the sexual life after 22 years. Immediately start enjoy proximity with a man. The usual women need time to develop sensuality. In many childhood she masturbated, but in her fantasies were not present shag. It was a normal sex. She has excellent health. And all because of the fact that during the multi orgasm in the blood is thrown out three times more than the usual women erythrocytes, leukocytes and lymphocytes. Hyperventilation light contributes to know that she is not aware of the respiratory tract diseases. Most likely, she brought up single mothers. Relations were very roditelnitsey trust. Where are the children, she explained at an early age.

Super woman rarely consents to sex even with the nice man and good friend. She is aware of its features to lose consciousness, so do not trust each counterclaim. It will never be solved at the extreme sex in the lift, a car, trying on room. Her sex syncope condition immediately becomes noticeable around. Eventually super woman understand what you're looking for exactly it, and agree to drop your eyes to faint. Such women will find any harmony not only in bed.

She always you will understand, or at least, will try to do so. For super friendly attitude is typical of women to men. They are well versed in male psychology, more tolerant and easier to come to compromise. And it does not depend on the social status of women and its intellectual level. You practically guaranteed humbly mother-in-law. Despite the fact that on heredity hyper orgasm is not transmitted, mothers of these women also positively related to male sex and rarely criticize the choice of daughters. You will live longer. All this is thanks to hyper orgasm your wife. Husbands excess of women is much less likely to complain of heart. Do not even think about the intrigues on the side! Therefore women very rarely change. According to sexologist Robin Baker, wife of a powerful sexual energy hinders the development of gene infidelity. click here

Why, after 40 women throw their husbands?

2008-08-30T01:31:00.000-07:00

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Despite the stereotype that men after forty throwing their wives for younger women, the statistics said that 65% of divorces in this age, initiated by women.

As it turns out the fault to hormonal background, which amends the work of the brain and makes women more pragmatic. Endangered excessive activity zones emotions before the next cycle, which forces a woman to see a somewhat different reality and to hear offensive words that may not have been delivered.

Together with declining levels of estrogen drops and the level of oxytocin. Since then, the woman becomes less interested in maintaining peace, it does not receive such an emotional "reward", which received earlier from caring for young children. Yet it becomes less responsive to the sensitivities and needs of others.

This leads to a reassessment of their life priorities and internal rules, which can not but affect family relationships, which have their usual patterns established over many years.

Why do young men love?

2008-08-29T10:14:00.000-07:00

Men who prefer women younger than themselves, and women choosing to older men, not only acting under the influence of cultural stereotypes. Those and other preferences in the age sex and marriage defined in the process of evolution. According to the scientists, both men and women of children is greater when the father for a few years older than the mother. They believe that in the course of natural selection worked out by representatives of both sexes compatible age preferences. As the study conducted in Austria, men are making the greatest strides in childbirth, when the partner of six years younger, female same children most of all, if the father is five years older.

One of the most famous fecundity of marriages in Britain confirms these figures are almost one hundred per cent. The Queen, which is now 81 years, for four years and ten months younger than the Duke of Edinburgh. They have four children - is more than twice the average for British families. However, in pairs, where a man much older, such benefits have been observed. Women whose partners are older than ten years, on average the same number of children, and how much those whose spouse under the age of five years. Results of the study are available from most convincing evidence that the Union, in which the older man and younger woman, became the norm for heterosexual couples in the course of evolution. So taken in most studied human societies, and this gives an advantage at birth progeny. In England and Wales in 26% of households husband younger wife, 48% - slightly over from one day to five years, and 26% of cases - for six years or more. In other countries, revealed similar patterns. And while the average difference in age may differ, the norm is always strong precedence half. On average in the world, men prefer women as partners to 2.66 years younger, and women - partners at 3.42 years older.

Similar trends are observed in the analysis of data on marriages around the world. This feature brings together different cultures and have long given rise to suspicion among scientists that it was formed in the course of evolution, since the difference in age in the historical perspective provided the birth and survival of more children. Usually such age preferences due to the fact that men are programmed to choose partners that are visible signs of the ability to bear children (and they are underlined at a young age). At the same time, women were believed to aspire to material wealth and status, which becomes more men with age. And although a new explanation in theory sounds logical, particularly researchers have been unable to prove that men are choosing younger wives and girlfriends, as well as women, go marry older people receive some benefit children at birth. A new study conducted by Martin Fiderom and Susan Huber of the University of Vienna, helped locate relevant evidence for the first time. The specialists examined a database of more than 10 thousand men and women from Sweden. All of the surveyed have children born to one partner. Details appear in the journal study Biology Letters.

Among men the average number of children increased, if the age is less than the partner. Pick this advantage reached with a difference of 5.92 years, and then again began to decline. A similar discovery was made by and for women: the average number of children increased if the partner was older, the figure reached a peak with a difference of 3.97 years, and then again began to fall. Perhaps the different figures for men and women due to the fact that in the sample was submitted only one marriage partner from each pair. In the case of a woman older than her partner, the figure is changing even more visible: the number of children declines sharply with each passing year difference. Perhaps this is largely due to the fact that women's ability to bear children decreases with age. Chances that a woman who partner over ten years, leads the family at a time when her fertility begins to decline. In the case of men older is not such an immutable fact.

The results show that from the perspective of evolution useful when men for a few years older than women, because the light appears more children. Scientists say: "The findings could explain why men usually prefer to take in his wife's women, who under the age, while women generally prefer men older than themselves. We concluded that age preferences for selecting partners benefit men and women in terms of biology, and this feature could formalize the process of evolution. " Scientists also found that when a person has children from first marriage, and then he comes into re-union, the new partner is generally younger than the first. This is true for both men and women. As the researchers believe, the choice of a younger partner is designed to compensate for the loss of the ability of reproductive rights. click here

Man-virgin: how to cope with the problem?

2008-08-29T08:13:00.000-07:00

The man, who did not previously engage in intimate relationship with a woman - not a myth and not fairy tale. That reality may not commonplace, habitual us, but nevertheless one can only sympathize with a woman who would face such a "surprise". What is the complexity of the situation and with such difficulties facing such a woman?

Problems first wedding night (in all its forms) in terms of women, in contrast to the problems of first sex by men, described numerous psychologists, gynaecologists, educators. Meanwhile, almost 70% of boys first sexual contact has been with complications. If Man-virgin partner has some experience, it might help him in the event of difficulty. And if she is as helpless as her first man? All may end trauma (physical or mental) or deep disappointment and partner, and in the process of rapprochement. This happens, and unfortunately not so rare, as they would have liked.

According to the upbringing, the man in bed to be active. And it became public opinion. And a man preparing to be an active, but because of a lack of experience does not always correctly directs and distributes this activity. Waiting and excite expectancy, so even before the contact, it is possible the rapid ejaculation. Sex life of most men beginning in fairly young age, when the level of sex hormones, and hence the attraction, they are rather high. While not all will receive "correctly", men have made several attempts. So generated a certain stereotype of sexual conduct directed at achieving a timely initiation and receipt meet partners. According to some data, from the first attempt to really managed to rapprochement among men who usually goes a long time (up to six months).

Actually the term "old maiden" (relatively to both sexes) was somewhat suspect - what is it (he) before their 30 (or more) years, nobody has found? But if a woman as more passive side can still refer to the fact that no one does not marry, the man has no such excuses. So, what guys remain in the Man-virgin?

Men with low levels of sex hormones and sexual attraction: a small growth, childish, with sparse hair, too full. They are not drawn to women, they expressed little need for intimate relationships, even though intelligence from these men could be brilliant and they have no shortage of women friends.Men who dominated in the nature of closure, cubicles of people, inability to learn. Such features are often the innate nature.

Often excessive parental guardianship gives the boy, then boys timidity, uncertainty in itself. A habit every shift on the shoulders of mothers, not incapable or unwilling to adapt teenage boy to a new type of communication - erotic - has resulted in the future man begins to fear uncertainty associated with the opposite sex, thus avoiding contact.

Virgin-romantics who want to "save himself" for the sole, whose name is unknown so far. In search of the mythical ideal man runs past the women's appearance or behavior who want to inch does not coincide with invented a way.

But whatever the reasons for the protracted innocence, with the age problem is compounded by. The level of sex hormones, which are 17-20 years old literally forced the young man and yet again close to women, after 25-27 years begins to decline. Decreases in posture to close, harder to develop specific communication skills. It habits lonely life, smooth severity of experiences: "I do not like all", herd mates married, but finding a common language with younger women - still a big problem. Male or departs from contact with women, limited to the minimum socializing at work and at home, either adapting to the level of some blameless friendship, which sometimes does not require women seeking greater proximity.

For women trying to have intimate relations with the Man-virgin, the novel can have a significant nightmare. She will play a leading role, gently press for each step forward in relations, which could be intimidating man. It should be ready for what in the most intimate moment such a man cover habitual panic or at least habitual timidity: suddenly, he leaves a bed of love under the pretext minimal or no pretext. If Man-virgin and will be able to bring to the proximity, it is likely that does not work. Mass effort will be needed to prevent a man fall into despair and force him to repeat his feat until sexual contact will not be successful.

In short, Man-virgin - "beast" rare and difficult. "Hunting" to it by forces far from each woman. But who knows, could be established tandem will cost everyone else? click here

When you are ready to begin sexual life?

2008-08-27T10:12:00.000-07:00

There is no strict age or physiological framework. You can begin when the person is ready for this. Preparedness means the psychological and information. Psychologically, you should want this, and want it with that person, now, it is available today in terms of his own will to want to, not feeling any sacrifice on its part. Information you must know in detail especially female and male anatomy, physiology, methods of contraception and sexually transmitted infections, how emergency contraception in the event of unforeseen circumstances, doctors have the coordinates, which can be at any time to ask for help and not be afraid That he does not take you seriously, slang and tell all parents.

You should know not just in theory about contraceptive methods, but also have contraceptives with them and be able to use them, and take for himself for life principle - take care of themselves. Your protection - it is your own business, not the cause of your partner, even if it is experienced and promises to take care of everything you and you believe him throughout - do not let anybody be responsible for your life and health, except themselves - anybody else handles with such a burden, and pay for it - only you and your future child. You should permanently forget about the so-called calendar method, calculating the safe days, interrupted intercourse and safe sex life during menstruation. All these myths, worthy of only one - to have forgotten about them forever. Also, you should know about how to diagnose pregnancy at an early time period and how it interrupts the real, not mythical. You have to exclude such a source of information, advice and experience as girlfriends, mothers or partner, forums on the Internet, articles in popular magazines, movies - all these myths and rumours exchange between dilettante, reliable information can come only from professional sources. You must be a place where you can safely meet, do not fear anything, and where the available means of hygiene. You must be money to buy contraceptives and pay visits to the doctor and possible treatment. You have to consider in detail the relationship with their parents about this topic: what and when you tell them not to live in constant fear - learn / kill and do not lie.

The first time is remembered for life. Not only conscious memory, but unconsciously - it is the first experience, which meets the body, and he writes on his white sheet as an example, which then compares all the rest. First time can determine your understanding of the norm for life, is like New Year's - as found, and so can hold: therefore try to perfect it was, do not let random gusts to spoil the happiness of the future. You must love and feel loved. You should not deal with them and to ourselves. And you must ask ourselves one hundred times - WHY you want .. and want to do. You must be confident and feel their dignity. If you hesitate - it means too early. And no matter how many years you When NOT to start?

Blackmail. 'If you love - prove'. Love never does not prove in bed - and does not require evidence, it is - a way of life, rather than a set of actions-proof. If you feel you must prove your love, then you do not believe in it. You are free people and are not obliged to prove anything to anyone - you just as you are - and another can pretend not to become. And if someone is not satisfied, then will not hold further, and you will never be free from this man. If you surrender to blackmail and 'prove', you just voluntarily give themselves to use - and you just from that in the first place will then bad - from what themselves afford to lose its dignity and to love - and even accuse certain. The victim. 'I want to give him the dearest thing that he realized as I love him'. This is the same as the first option, only even more twisted idea of love. Love has nothing in common with the victim - this feeling, which can only free people, ready in others recognize and respect freedom. Therefore, he did not insist - he respects your freedom and waits until you're ready and made their free choice, without the victims themselves not responsible to him. Evaluate whether it nobility and be worthy of their partner. Take responsibility - do not commit acts sacrificing for someone, but because you want for yourself. If you do not want - did not commit. Understand that he will not be happy on your victims, after which necessarily comes disappointment, regret and recriminations in ingratitude. Do not humiliate their love of evidence, their willingness to wait.

If you believe proof of his love home, its essential criterion, its mortgage, your responsibility towards the beloved, to test your loyalty, you expected from the victim on the altar of love and other similar thoughts's in your head:. You would have waited - but you expect any material reinforcements your words - wait! You are not ready yet. Age. 'The time has come'. This argument is not worthy of lengthy discussion. Readiness does not depend on the calendar age. Why do you keep themselves up to such a venerable, as you now think age? To the same doubts as before - did go against itself? You are doing this to place a checkmark in front of a critical year? You no longer little girl, once so worried about their age - it means you already have the ability to imagine - and that will then, after this desperate step? Something really changed for the better? Or you then long nights to communicate with their inner voice and justified? If you are doing it because you 'are already so many years', but still something lacking in life - learn to love. With this skill will come and this willingness and a decent facility.

Self. 'I am already an adult, and this - main occupation adults'. A typical feature of child - to imitate adults, not understanding the essence of deeds. Examples maminy shoes, although they crappy inconvenient to walk - why it is: because adult. Pronounce 'adults' words, although himself wants to silence ears: Try to smoke, drink, and then tortures, then conquer his disgust and to continue - and I am worse than adults. And let me be bad, and I will let the ridiculous in their children's attempts to imitate, and let me all this really does not want. But that agreement. Teenager must rebel and do everything spite. It should be different from a child - adults should finally see that the teenager - it is NOT CHILD, as an adult. A typical child sees adults line - to try everything that is unknown and in his own copy of their adult behavior. They always melt this point, and now they have it melt on the margins of consciousness, because the first course - their concern for your health, as in childhood, with your games with glass and fire. But apart from these experiences still remaining thought - this is not - 'as he's got much more mature since then', and 'what is he still funny child, and I thought something - it was already an adult'. That's true. Keep this in mind just in case, when you have to do something to prove his consistency. Consistency, independence, freedom, self-esteem, responsibility - all signs of an adult, not dependent on his calendar age. And like all true values, they do not require evidence, they are obvious! And if you think that surrounding do not recognize them for you - it means they simply do not exist! Do not bend their lives, dream up evidence - loans self, it is much faster proves all your moving into adulthood.

Unfortunately, sexuality everyone correct its own mistakes, myself - and my mother would be happy to move all your suffering themselves, but will not be able! Sexually treat you, you do abortion, infertility, after you treat abortion. You are adult enough and ready for such tests? Or may be worth waiting with such self-determination and return to good old-type escapades causing hair and loud music? This will be the only ranch, rather than dramatic - evidence of your childhood. click here

How to survive after divorce

2008-08-26T03:14:00.000-07:00

Divorce - this is awful! Divorce - is the collapse of our hopes and happy life! Divorce - is loneliness and the complete apathy! But do not you think that in these minutes, covered the full sensory disorder, you simply do not see the second side of the coin? And there, among other things, can be charted very different message: Divorce - a long-awaited liberation from the yoke of illusions! Divorce - this new prospects and new possibilities! Divorce - this meeting, dating and love, which we have long forgotten!

Whether on whose initiative happening disintegration of the family, each of us feels burning sense of guilt. During that had not been able to maintain the relationship, which casts or throws. Over the experiences of their children, if any, parents, relatives, friends. For that, being "responsible for those who tamed", experiencing negative feelings to the once close to humans. For what has to talk about material things to share and return gifts. Very often, in the process of divorce is not the best we have shown our quality of the depths of our subconscious go into the light of God suddenly such monsters and gin, which we do not even suspected. And now we feel the burning sense of guilt for having allowed them to appear in all beauty and so ugly behave. Ah, if you could return all back! But unguided chariot divorce, as if whirlwind, kept on our lives and someone unintentionally crush, someone scared to death, but someone made for life mutilated. And in this we are to blame.

Imagine that a woman can feel emerging from treason, or a man who preferred another ... And even if there are no classic triangle still reject you. And you feel acute to the limit The feeling of loneliness.We can say, full of loneliness. Because even the illusion of relations no longer remains. Even if you did it deliberately and that decision cost suffered countless sleepless nights and internal struggles, you suddenly feel extremely badly on all of its offices.

I hope you do not reach the 1% hopeless pessimist, which put itself on the cross and become the Great. Many aware of the fact that after divorce a woman much closer to his life, his inner peace, to his career and personal life. It is as if activated, stretching their vitality to cope with the bulk of its vital problem. Certainly, many vital questions she now has to deal with alone.

Maybe you do not always have enough time to do exclusively themselves, their appearance, their dreams, their internal world, careers, sports and interests.… Remember, what you had to sacrifice for their families. Now a lot more, finally, all these take up close. And not just deal, but to achieve something. Because you have a powerful incentive and self-development. Otherwise, not now! Your life now depends solely on you. Think, maybe, just wanted to tell you that the sky? It is time, finally, learn to be responsible for their actions, thoughts and desires. And build their own lives, not hoping for someone.

Every day, I can say every minute of your life will be amazing on its significance events. Watch, listen. Observe. All now becomes relevant from a thousand times. Every meeting, every event, every line hit you at eye books. All this signals that sends you sky as the guide of life. You have started a new life! You now know exactly what it should not, but you just need. And nobody prevent you implement conceived. Because our lives shape our desires.

When you enter into a state of internal equilibrium, but not earlier advice to fall in love with you! This is a very helps! Why not earlier? If you believe that will not load its new men past grievance, if you're not against all men, if you can not compare and do not throw stones from despair to any adventure, then the sooner it happens the better. Now you just need to feel once again a woman. Loves and cherished. This will give you strength and self-confidence!

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Brothel in "quarter Red Lights"

2008-08-23T02:04:00.000-07:00

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Hamburg, Germany. The oldest brothel in "quarter Red Lights" in the city of Hamburg ceases to exist because of the unprofitability of the business, reported this Friday all local news agencies. Founded in 1948, and remained since then family business, "Hotel Luxor" was recently sold to unknown investor, and in the coming days forever rose in this capacity, reported Madame Voltraud Mehrer.

Madame wine itself across the Internet, with its plethora of free pornography and varied, many agencies "on call girls" and many dance clubs, opened on the same street, where her institution. "In Saint Pauli is no longer possible to earn big money in prostitution", - complained it, bearing in mind the whole area, which includes the famous red light street. -- "The only business that is still preserved in the region - this dance bars and clubs".

Their best days of this institution is experiencing in the seventies of last century when, in his state had only 12 girls who worked 7 days a week. "Our customers were then only wealthy people who do not lavish on remuneration girls", - "she said. -- "Now everything is changed".

Today in "Hotel Luxor" working only 4 girls and institution open only from Tuesday to Friday. "Previously, the girl here earned 2000 euros per night", - complains one of the girls institutions, introduced as "Nicole". -- "Now on you can only dream of such. I work here a year and the maximum that I have - 200 euros per shift ".

What is sex for teens?

2008-08-23T00:57:00.000-07:00

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The survey, conducted in 9 European countries, showed that sex for young people willing to take the lot. Much of the youth of Europe to find a partner for sex, are beginning to drink and use drugs. It interviewed 1340 people, who often go to bars and night clubs. 23% of men and women aged 16-35 years admitted that drink and use drugs only for one purpose - to find a sexual partner.

Also found was a clear relationship between early sexual intercourse and drug and alcohol use, especially among girls under 16 years old. About 25% of young people have been told that took cocaine for the extension of sexual intercourse. This study once again confirmed that in a state of alcohol or drug intoxication, young boys and girls feel much more to unchain and willing to make risky sexual connection.

Former husband ...

2008-08-22T23:42:00.000-07:00

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All women are very fond of telling their current of former men on men. Of course, these memories are usually not filed in the form of erotic stories, but in the form of thinly veiled, but still unpleasant sediment remains. So why do women?To date anger, women usually give two explanations for its actions. First, they claim simply share their feelings, a former left in her life long footprint, and there is nothing surprising in that it rarely remembers about him. And because none of the men closest it has no - something else with whom to share those memories.

But (!) And is second, that such memories are delivered from the most good intentions. You see, on the basis of their man should make sure that it is much better than all her previous lovers. A woman can sincerely believe in their build these, but because they do not fit a step closer to the truth about its motives. A motive was not those films.

Primarily comparison with the former, and simply unobtrusive memories of him are given to women's perennial goal: correct. The woman always and by definition something unhappy, and this is one of the "unobtrusive" approaches to rehabilitation. Secondly, any stories about the former cause jealousy in a man - and this is one of the important goals of the entire female family activities. It is believed that jealousy - a sign of love, a jealous man should exercise care masterpieces and charm.

In general, both of these goals subconsciously fully fit into the model of a key female behaviour. Woman in principle and not quite perevarivaet and relaxed man. It annoys her and causes acute desire to make the move. In times of our ancestors-hunters this was normal: a man came from hunting, brought extraction, was sex. Naturally, he was inclined to stay home to continue to eat, sleep and have sex.

But the woman knows that now there is food - but tomorrow it could and has already ended. It is from here and its eternal frustration: bright and fed today risks becoming permanently in the dark hungry tomorrow. Therefore, the next day after the return of men, she begins to spoil his life that he quickly went on the hunt again, and then back again with fresh prey in exchange for sex. And jealousy is needed to ensure that it returned exactly to it (the more interesting it is to other men - the more it should be valued), and returned quickly (certainly not empty-handed).

Overall, the memories of the previous men not really quite special properties, the overall picture emerging from the female character. Rather - this is just another method of creating an inferno as household ticking programme implementation genetically female behaviour.

The degree of male attractiveness.

2008-08-22T10:13:00.000-07:00

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Scientists in a study conducted by the British Brunel University, developed a mathematical model that combines the characteristics of attractive men and symmetry of the body. This is the first study, based on images of human bodies, male and female, derived from a special three-dimensional scanning technology. Past work enabled scientists to establish the relationship between evaluation parameters and physical attractiveness, the most important of which was symmetry. This characteristic is perceived positively by many other species, as is associated with good health and, consequently, with favorable reproductive capacity.

The new model, "understood" attractive appearance, takes into account 24 parameters, in particular, the length of the torso, long arms and legs, as well as the length of neck, shoulder and of the forearm. The model was created in the experiment, whose goal was to determine the relationship between the perception attractive body and its characteristics, such as growth, the volume of the breast or chest, leg length, width of shoulders, rounded (for women).

Thanks to new three-dimensional scanning technology, scientists have received 77 phone images, both male and female, and put the images into a computer with neutral colors, moreover, the images were without heads. With the help of hundreds of measurements, which are crawling with three for 6 seconds, the scientists were able to withdraw Index belonging to a male. "

Then the researchers asked 87 people - men and women - look at the pictures in the computer and choose the most attractive of them. Pictures, which most often male preference, were the most distant, in their anthropometric data, the index of masculinity. Women with less symmetrical data were even further from the index. Based on the assessments of scientists established the link between the attractive appearance and symmetry.

According to the study coordinator William Brown, "received an explanation relationship between body shape and attractiveness: the proportions of the body, the shape and growth are important indicators of good level of development and good health and, consequently, that the individual may or may not be a welcome partner to Reproduction ". "If physical asymmetry is so small that it is impossible to see the naked eye, the evolution of bright allocated specific points, such as broad shoulders and narrow hips, to emphasize masculinity," - said the scientist.

The number of pregnancies among adolescents.

2008-08-22T07:31:00.000-07:00

In 2006, in Chicago were born 10 children from 14 - year old girls and 50 of 15-year old girls. However, experts believe that in fact these indicators in times higher. In doing so, in Chicago, several thousand girls under 15 years of doing abortions. Each year the number of pregnancies among adolescents just growing. Experts link this to the lack of a common culture of sex education.

According to official statistics in 2006 in Chicago were born 10 children from 14 - year old mothers. In addition, there were 205 births 16 - year old girls and 17 among 573 - summer. But in practice, alas, those figures even higher. "I believe that in fact last year in Chicago was born about 50 children from 14 - year old mother and at least 100 from 15 - year - said the chairman of the NGO" Women and information "Dr. McCimanz. -- The number of early pregnancies is growing steadily ".

According to the chairman of the Center of assistance to minors each year in Chicago recorded about 10 thousand pregnancies among minors. That 10-15% of the total number of women preparing to become mothers. This is an extremely negative impact both on themselves births, and in babies, say doctors.

"Of course, there are some possible complications during childbirth in such an early age - told the chairman of the Center of assistance to minors. -- No more dangerous for girls psychological side childbirth. After all, a teenager was no longer able to play with friends or do what is right, because even a child herself. When she gave birth, simply obliged to grow up and take responsibility for themselves and for the child, thus depriving themselves of childhood. Many girls who give birth at this age, still have not grown up, so it is difficult to concentrate entirely on the child, they want themselves to run and play, not sit at home and deal with a child ".

Only an overwhelming number of teenagers are handled on abortion. Each year, nearly 1 thousand 14 - year old girls interrupt pregnancy. Their psychological state is no better than those who did decided to give birth. "As a psychologist, I face not only teenage mothers, but also with the girls having to tender age of horrendous illness as a result of early sexual activity, - said psychologist center. -- Many of these girls in general will never be able to give birth. This is indeed a terrible sight ".

Experts agree that the root of the problem - in the upbringing of children. "Many parents still live by the moral principles that were in effect during their youth, - said psychologist center. -- But then was a different life. Now the youth has much to unchain themselves and need to educate children on the basis of the current situation. We need to explain to girls that this child's upbringing, how to care for them. Then they will realize how hard it is and would not rush to become a mother. To educate children need at school. Such programmes have already tried to enter, but then actively against them were made by priests and parents. But only get worse. Not coincidentally say: informed - it means is armed ".

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Sexual illiteracy - the main difference of our teenagers. Young people quickly adopted the overseas trend towards early sexual relations, but not totally reflect on the implications. "Teenagers pregnancy arises because we have no culture of public sex education, - said psychologist center. -- Take, for example, Sweden: a country is considered the motherland of sexual revolution. Sex - are common among Swedish youth. Sex life there very early beginning. But while there were no abortions. They are simply prohibited. Adolescents are literate enough in sexual matters and know how to protect. The U.S. has the same place total sexual ignorance ".

The ratio of men to prostitutes…

2008-08-20T10:05:00.000-07:00

In each life, and perhaps not every man, meets sex for money. It may be obvious, that is: telephoned, agreed price, came, did their job, left. It may be hidden, something like, with your restaurant, diamond pendants, and then - I am all yours. No matter what method is specified payment, it is important that it is selling sex… The attitude to it is different for men who do not like something, but someone still, someone regularly uses the services of such girls and women, not seeing nothing wrong in this… This article is about the attitude of men towards this type of sex…

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-- The plan that I think about them? Nothing do not think women, as women… -- You often using their services? -- Not often, but sometimes -- Why do you pay for sex? Women - choose any! -- The same question can I ask you! Well, if honest, do not like flirtations, and second - sex for money has its advantages. You get sex, not whims, riddles and more.

-- In terms of sex? Looking to how. There is a very cool and girls are taking cheap. In general, immigrants. And there is just pitiful, nothing could, at least, can not what I want! And why do you ask? -- Yes so… Listen, and you conscience does not torture, that you alter his wife with prostitutes? (* laugh *) -- And what is conscience? (* laughs *). Of course not! And why should it tortures me? The wives of many can not and do not know how! For example, who are my "dirty imagination" will be pursued? (* laughs *) -- Well, you could find and not for money and with the full realization! -- And why did you not find no money? (* laughs *) -- We are talking about you! -- And what about me say, yes, crying for sex, money is not principled, principled result. For all have to pay, not pay, that will receive. Do not pay for sex - you'll "sex", in general, to turn a complete gut! And so, all beautifully, without tensions and tears about aimlessly spent time!

I do not like to pay for what you get for free (* laughs *) -- You believe in the word "free"? -- Of course, you know how many women who can commend you, for example, for not the most expensive bouquet of flowers? A lot, so what overpay! -- Paying for sex - this is your only money question? -- When you can take everything for free, why pay, explain? -- Do you like to make gifts to women? -- In terms? -- Well, in direct. -- Type, buy something? -- Well, yes -- (* Laughs *)…

That such dialogues. Conclusion of them do not need, because men are all different, and attitudes towards women selling their stuff, too. On a can say that calmly refer to prostitutes and I do not think a disgrace to pay for sex. True, I would never married to a woman, in my opinion, marriage should not be based on love for money… click here

How to become a "Sex giant"

2008-08-19T08:51:00.000-07:00

Some men can carry up to five sexual acts for the night, and some no more than one, if you want to know why, as well as, perhaps, this post is for you.

First and foremost, the ability to multiple sexual acts depends on the sex hormones testosterone and, usually, with the age of testosterone in the blood is reduced, and that leads to the impossibility of multiple sexual acts. Of course, multiple sexual contacts have played an important role for women, especially for girls recently started their sexual life. If you want to become sexually giant, you should be in good shape, to respect the right food, as well as the obligatory rest before sex.

Although there are other methods through which you can achieve multiple orgasm. Even in the distant in 1955, was developed by Dr. Simanz method of treatment of premature ejaculation. The essence of it was to be: you almost to masturbation cumshot, then abruptly stops. After such "start - stop training, you learn to get orgasm without ejaculation. There is also a technique called "cramping", directly on the verge of ejaculation should compress the tip of the penis of thumb and two fingers from top to bottom. Soft-touch stimulates sexual member almost before ejaculation, then abruptly stop and press the tip of the penis. Keep it short for 15-20 seconds, then after ejaculation to sag, please continue to masturbation. click here

Beauty and youth - in your hands

2008-08-18T11:09:00.000-07:00

In addition to high-quality cosmetics in "to" preserve the beauty and youth are not less important is compliance with some simple rules. Their implementation by force of each…

Summer. Sun. Do not forget goggles, which will help avoid wrinkles around the eyes. Protect your skin from sunlight. Tan - it's fashionable, but not helpful… Office. Coffee. Try not to get involved. Drink not only "drink vivacity", but purified water as well as green tea.

Work. Computer. Try not to stoop. After all, the correct posture is very important to maintain skin tone neck. Evening. Cinema late. It might be better to refuse? .. Do not forget that you should not sleep less than 7 hours a day. It was during a night of sleep updated cells.

Evening. How would reach pillows… No matter how tired you are, do not neglect evening cosmetic procedures. Keep in mind that at night (preferably - one hour before sleep, that cosmetics are well absorbed into your skin, rather than in the pillow) is required to clear and moisten person. click here

All lovers - addicts?

2008-08-17T08:15:00.000-07:00

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As it turned out, love - akin to drugs. It arises addictive, physical and psychological dependence syndrome and even repeal. That is the conclusion of scientists came from the English National Center Narcology.

Scientists have conducted numerous studies, as well as lovers interviewed during their next gust of love, and found that during the attack of love in the brain occur the same physiological changes, and that when taking the drug type of cocaine or heroin.

First of all love and receiving drug similar in type passing biochemical reactions in the body. -- So, accompanied by a surge of hot feelings release dopamine, which alters not only the activity of certain brain areas, but also leads to the development of other physiological reactions and feelings. With the completion of the contents of dopamine in the nervous tissue falls below normal levels - as a result of a person appearing symptoms of depression, that is developing "syndrome lifting. -- All in the admission as a drug.

However, researchers note, "fiziological" love means that it can not last forever, because neurophysiological changes that accompany human emotions and feelings, do not go after about 5-7 years. Incidentally, this is no contrary to what happens to people in life…

Beer for Women

2008-08-17T07:59:00.000-07:00

The decline in sales in the UK drink froth concerned brewing company. However, they very quickly found a way out of this situation, Resolved to pay special attention to female audiences and to promote their products among women.

The message of this came from The Wall Street Journal. The magazine writes that one of the British units Molson Coors Brewing Co. Already opened to host the department code-named "Eve". It is anticipated that its activity will be the introduction of beer brands and technologies drink advertising aimed at women. His work will aim to "create a world where women love beer, like shoes".

Well, look what he has from this work. -- So far, according to research firm Taylor Nelson Sofres PLC, in Britain regularly drink beer, about 13 per cent of ladies. In the U.S., this percentage is almost twice as much - it is 25. click here

Men fall asleep immediately after sex

2008-08-16T11:27:00.000-07:00

The fact that a man during sex spends far more power than a woman, had been known before. But British scientists found that 80% of men after sex totally whacked…

At that time, as women demand from their partners after sex pleasant words and gentle palmsing, men are so exhausted that want only one thing - sleep. Ladies accuse knights in the cold, and "has made her - and sleep?!", But men simply can not physically turn and not fall asleep.

Specialists from the University of Surrey county in southern England argue that such a condition is only natural for men. But for women… Only 46% of representatives wonderful sex feel strongly tired after sex. Hence - and a desire to "yet", and the requirement to continue… The study researchers interviewed 10 thousand Britishers.

True, at the pleasure of women, there remain 20% of those men who can to stay awake for some time after orgasm. Scientists have found that the most durable Britons live in Liverpool and Glasgow. After the sex they have not failed to sleep 20 minutes more… click here

Internet for women

2008-08-16T03:32:00.000-07:00

Audience sites targeted exclusively at women, for 2007 grew by 35%. This category is one of the fastest growing and promising to advertisers on the Net, analysts believe. The fastest growing sites on politics only.

The popularity of women's sites grew in 2007 by 35%, according to new record research company comScore. In July 2008, this kind of resources was visited 84 million people - 27% higher than during the same period in 2007 in May for such sites, advertisers place more than 4.4 billion banners. This is more than portals for children, teens or family sites.

Women's sites, according to ComScore, growing faster all the other thematic segments of the Network, exceeded only by resources on policies. The rapid growth of traffic and advertising on sites in this category drew the attention of major media companies and venture capitalists. Thus, at last week's Internet provider Comcast for $ 125 million gained popular in the United States Information Service dispatches DailyCandy, which is popular, especially with female audiences. In July 2008, Peacock Equity Venture Company invested $ 5 million in BlogHer, a network of 2.2 thousand women's blogs. In March, Yahoo launched a portal Shine, which publishes materials from various magazines for women.

"Women constitute over half the population of the Earth and commit more of all purchases. Therefore, we are constantly looking for new sites for this type of investment ", - said Tim Draper, founder venture company Draper Fisher Jurvetson. As analysts note, sites for men is not as popular, although the network as more users every male. Living portal company AOL, aimed at female audiences, in June 2008 visited 16.1 million, while a similar men's portal Asylum - total 3.3 million.

"Traditionally, women are considered such topics as fashion, beauty, health, cookery and the life of stars. As stated in the report, other topics on these resources usually do not attract any advertisers or users. One of the most popular blogs in the Women's Network is Dooce.com, the audience of about 850 thousand users. According to Federated Media, which sells advertising on this blog, as compared to 2006, revenues from the increased sevenfold. click here

Relations

2008-08-15T06:33:00.000-07:00

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Find in a world in which the game is on "Men's Rules", the woman realized that such a candid look at love relationships frightens men. They are "nothing" does not need. They want passionate, no matter what is not compelling novel or short-term intrigue on the side. In other words, they needed an easy dessert - without any promises there, other people's problems and obligations. They give us these desserts called "free love" for years, once (twice or thrice) briefly interrupting to start a family…

You, as a woman is allowed to have only one desire - to want this day beloved man. The rest of your desire to have no value. It does not matter what you want to go with him to drink a cup of coffee or go on nature on weekends. Always important to just what he wants.In doing so, the men also do not like, if you are about to exercise your vicinity (which date it has not yet appointed) too turbulent emotions and allow ourselves the audacity to score his immodesty icq or SMS messages about how you would like him to undress. "That bitch! -- He thinks. -- I'm serious person, I am at work. I am now not until then ".

From talking about feelings, more complex formations than emotion, the man usually starts to worry. As if he had a head ill or sick heart. He does not need your love, because it is a serious sense, static and fairly long. He "no matter what is" not configured and does not want to customize it to you. Because, sweet, in this case from you only have extra problems… Your love - so bold as oil cream, which does not fit into the concept of gentle light souffle. Moreover, women's and women's tears "pain". Even the idea that a woman hurt, violated internal comfort men. He does not like this. Should not be painful - accept, dear, pain. Where to? Get somewhere…

Men can not tolerate, when women loading them their problems. After all, they have already many problems. They have their families (parents, sisters, friends and (or) a wife with children), important work "of the Screw", machine, which forever "not healthy", business, which is constantly "on the verge of"… Then you sweet… , Is an independent adult working women, which itself should solve their problems. Of particular patient man can listen to your tirade and said tearfully: "Well, anything invented" or "One must consider what to do". Actually, all this and confine. All their problems, you will deal exclusively itself.

Thus, a man gets quite convenient for themselves "version of" women. She did not "heavy" it by its difficulties, not asking to take girlfriend, not forced to go shopping together, does not require that he was withdrawing for her apartment, is not asking for money. She learns to enjoy "small" - just what this man a few times a month (at a convenient time for him) will give it a couple of hours of love and caress, kiss and reach orgasm.

Women - intelligence establishment. Especially adult women. They have long realized that to do so as not to lose a beloved man. They agreed to play on "Men's Rules" - to receive pleasure from each other in a "pure" form. No promises, statements aloud desires, unnecessary calls and letters from unnecessary emotions. They have learned apart from their own problems, focusing its attention during the short hours together, who can devote his man, entirely on it, his body and generally enjoying An… no! Too bad… Also do not like! That we too have not…

am not telling him about his girlfriend and their problems (first, secret, and secondly - is it so interesting?). I am not happy at home fashion show, demonstrating their new shoes, skirt and jacket (which do not have the time, yes men and little interested in women's fashion). I do not talk about politics has become, because it is too sad and so few of us depends. If I forgot that I have no apartment and I absolutely nowhere to live, that he did not give a god, is not thought that I expect from him some assistance…

… He told me that I am doing it from sexual toy… What do I with him than not to talk about except about sex (in this case he has forgotten that we have not already seen a month - and friends-the "beer" are seen more often ) And then sharply remarked that now he had no opportunity to see me. And if I am not satisfied, then I need to find someone of another…

How long have sex

2008-08-13T09:42:00.000-07:00

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The problem of premature ejaculation sexual destroys the lives of many couples worldwide. Only in the U.S. about 25% of men face it constantly. From time to time ends on sex, not began, most couples. Fortunately, premature ejaculation can be overcome quickly enough and once again enjoy sex as much as you want.

Question duration of sexual intercourse to settle permanently in the head of both sexes, largely due to erotic and pornographic films, where characters, it seems, can have sex forever. But not believe that I saw on the screen corresponds to reality. About premature ejaculation can say when the man in the excited state can not be kept at least a couple of minutes. According to the American Psychiatric Association, such an instantaneous reaction is considered a problem if it is repeated constantly and manifests itself with minimal sexual initiation or shortly after penetration.

The time of ejaculation depends on many factors. Among them - age, sexual experience, a term relationship with partner, as well as the last sexual intercourse. The causes of premature ejaculation may become too strong waves; state of health (nervous system disorders, diabetes, prostate infection); stress; drug use (including caffeine); tightness (especially for inexperienced partners); over-stimulation.

Early sexual experience - with or without a partner - also can cause premature ejaculation. Many men in their teens accustom themselves quickly to get pleasure from driving for fear of being caught by parents. Some even afford to end immediately. The negative consequences of premature ejaculation affects not only the health of men, but on the physical condition of women. Failure to reach orgasm leads to problems with the cardiovascular system. So conducted a study in 1976 showed that 65% of women who underwent a heart attack, reported problems in the sexual sphere, complaining of the absence of erection of their husbands or to the problem of premature ejaculation.

To begin combat premature ejaculation, is initially set a standard length of sexual intercourse. According to the authors of the book Men's Sexual Health, classes love the process took an average of 15 to 45 minutes, but directly sexual intercourse lasts from 2 to 12 minutes. Meanwhile, experts do not recommend the use of sex for the extension of various devices and drugs, like special attachment or lubricants-anaesthetics. In the first place should learn to control their sexual behaviour, and a special training technique is the most effective therapy.

Secrets of youth

2008-08-12T10:18:00.000-07:00

Being beautiful want at any age. And this is not so difficult as it seems - you need only know what cosmetics are appropriate for your age. How do you need to care for face and body, and that in 20, 50 and look at itself-the most.

You can be beautiful in 16 years, and 60 - the age is not important. This woman had in stock many recipes for beauty and good shape.All you need to keep the skin smooth and gentle for many years - drop women's tricks and ability to use the gifts of nature, as well as cosmetics are chosen correctly.

But the ex long and magnificent sex without us. And we are still waiting at the sea weather. But if the weather does not affect in the force, then create it in the house, in a bedroom, or in other possible locations for sex can. Suffice it to stop Settle own complexes, discarding unnecessary blush and fear seem vulgar, initiative, perseverance. click here

Keep love passion

2008-08-11T10:21:00.000-07:00

Love is the surest guarantee of passion long conjugal relations. But save it for a long period is not easy, the experts say. To this end, they, among other things, advises lovers often expose each other dangers.Foreign sexual attractiveness creates passion, which definitely helps achieve closeness with loved man. The same passion is able to nurture feelings of love and marriage. A strong attraction makes Rights forget about themselves and to think more about their partner experiences. That passion makes human dimensions and to abandon quiet solitude that rim full tilt into abyss of love experiences. However, many people, especially women, underestimate the role of physical attraction in the choice of person to go to the altar stands.

Usually people from childhood to inspire people to love the fear of passion. It pushes alleged human-to unhealthy and indiscriminate Relations. At the same time, people almost do not explain how to retain a passion for a long time. While it is this ability and got a real love, which firmly seals conjugal union. Of course, love the passion leads to "chaos in thoughts, but these" toboggans "and could yield many benefits, experts believe. On the contrary, the lack of passion from the start dooms any marriage to divorce.

Strong love attraction helps partners to be closer to each other, forgetting the critical respect and mutual shortcomings. This "blind love" allows spouses to forgive mistakes and live in harmony under any circumstances. Passion gives a person the motivation and ability to give all the forces at the close networking relationship. In doing so increases the activity of divisions of the brain that are responsible for the feeling of euphoria and satisfaction. Love attraction better than anything else, helps a person achieve inner harmony, expressed in self-esteem, diligence, leadership and even obedience.

Unfortunately, romantic love rarely lasts more than 2-3 years and tends to rapidly weakening. This is due, and physiological characteristics, because to maintain a sense of euphoria requires more and more agents. Award-winning romantic feelings should become affection, although scientists are finding that these feelings and tend to weaken.

Therefore, experts advise any media try to delay the process of cooling feelings. For lovers of this should receive as much as possible impressions together. We need to make long-distance travel to exotic countries or condemn themselves and their partner to the dangers and tests. In all these cases, the human body produces adrenaline, the conservation of passion. The feeling of novelty, too, can support the attraction of love. Therefore, experts advise not to rush and to disclose to each other all the sexual potential. Correctly together and gradually go down the path of self, while exploring and revealing his partner in all the new parties. click here

that ... do things to somebody

2008-08-10T08:43:00.000-07:00

Perhaps the man hesitate to say aloud about their sexual preferences and fantasies? Perhaps he is afraid that itself would not be able to give her what she so wants to get from him? It is very difficult to find a man who is not located in an erotic game. A woman must itself take the initiative in their hands and give the man what he wants because, being next to it. Need almost all men. But each of them their dreams. Virtually every man hopes that will come a time when his dream become a reality. True, they have their taboos… They both want to get rid of them… But many men are simply unable to.

39% of men want to be spectators and watch a woman: how she danced as walking on flat in erotic clothes. Only after they get their portion of excitation, men are ready to proceed to the responsible work. Men have an advantage at the sites of love games. Main - desire, inspiration and mood. It is unlikely that there is a man who would willingly gave her interview on "The Ten most frequent representations of sexual desire". Neither man would not want to become guinea pigs. They want their erotic fantasies inspired, seduces. But their plans with whom they are not going to share. It is taboo for them.

The normal sexual life based on trust and openness to love and passion. Very often seem to fear more to unchain partner, can lead to undesirable consequences. The husband and wife, lived twelve years, came to the line, which is called divorce. Then the wife decided to try to make a novelty in sexual life. My husband liked this night, and now they are literally born again. A bit of imagination, and their family life became very different. Now they are like two Doves, which has virtually nothing can separated.

39% wish to have sex was more complete. 38% dream of experiments in bed. The challenge men - in the women's looking to capture what is missing their favorite, and give her what she wants so. Men need to understand each woman submitted signal.

The women's nudity - a strong emotional stimulus. The man brought in twice as fast as a woman. Sex for men - is out of emotions. Men want to be a primary rather than secondary player in the game of love. A man in his soul child… Give him the opportunity to enjoy an excellent game called SEX. click here

Teens on first date

2008-08-09T01:11:00.000-07:00

So, whether or not to have sex on the first date, or to withstand a pause in the recommended 30 hours (they believe enough to parted legs?) Or fail until the second meeting, or to bring the man to white incandescence, and then send itself as a gift…. fate? Unequivocal answer does not exist.

If we are on the first day to jump into bed to a man, then most likely we are serious embrace. Few born liking - no reason for sex, much less a man than a means to carry along. Because as if he sees only woman in a sexual object, after the somersault in bed, is unlikely to appreciate it, as a man with a gentle, pure mental organization and a high IQ. Although of course, if a woman tiger in bed, then there is a hundred percent chance to carry along, but also, unfortunately, only in the beds, the car, baths and other places where you will be made lovingly comfort.

Undoubtedly, all men think about sex on the first date, as women, for that matter. Not for nothing do they, even subconsciously, wear nice clothes, check whether the zone in order bikini and poured spirits, including and, so, just in case. Conclusion. If you only need sex and nothing but they - and forward with the song! If you would like or hope to continue the relationship, not to jump to go into the bed.

By the way, as one friend told me a man, 90% of females with whom they are familiar, away were not sacrificed on the first day. Worth only utter the magic words for the hearing impaired girls. If, however, speak of a man keen interest you, then most likely he did not even say for sex on first date, afraid the girl offend. After all, he plans to see her more and more, where rush?

Sex on the second date in our time is often the norm. Especially if people liked each other mutually, when they are interested together and between them there was something more than visual liking. In this case, sex becomes a bridge, approaching a man and a woman, a fire which burns this bridge.

Certainly, no need to forget about the situation when people were talking a long time, or virtually met in the companies. They know about each other practically all up to pet name, place of work aunts and sexual addiction. Why waste time? In this case, everything depends on the situation and conditionality to anything. Sex deliver a decisive point in further relations.

You see each other in the eye and you have the same feelings, emotions and desires. heart beats like a hammer drills, while the arms and dragged…. You know exactly - it's your people. It is your fluids are similar, he devouring your eyes, you're it, and it does not matter how much time has passed. His opinion does not deteriorate about you, and you spit, as my mother taught and advised girlfriend. No matter how many take communion, a month or people connected their fate for life. Regardless of the outcome, the mark on the soul and memory of the person will remain forever. Because your meeting - EXCLUSIVE, DESTINY. click here

Darkness

2008-08-08T23:46:00.000-07:00

In the dark do not see anything… so there are not visible, and it is for the better. And the fact that there is little whether it is possible to see: button, for example, or folds in the abdomen, and another (God forbid!) My cellulite (and let them say that it is actually not - I know something…). That's why I love and sex and darkness deal exclusively in the dark that much safer. And how in a different way to relax? So do not turn, so, too, but in a way I do a little chest… So, dear, I forgot to extinguish the light…

That's what most girls talks. Fair call! Simply, many of them are willing to make sacrifices of its "Big Love" and allowed to leave included a small night-light - under the pretext that so much sexual than bright light, not even while recognizing themselves in fear that the body is unattractive. But if you accept at least a night-light, this is progress, because few can have sex in the light (such girls usually removed in films relevant content). However, if you do not see sex in the light of the least lonely candles set in the far corner of the room, it is already a serious problem. And not only for your friend.

The woman, confident in its beauty (as it looked without any), will be able to convince others that it is irresistible, much faster than real beauty, doubt about its attractiveness. So, as you will convince themselves (through meditation, or Motivational magic rites) - it is not important, the main thing - the result!

Many men's magazines teach men in the classical position that "a man on top" of his shoulders look wider, and he - masculinity. Of course, you only look at this not very presentable - diffluent chest on the pillow, along with stomach and pop. So to start (until you even care about how you look) better position to choose the top - then your chest seems more and looking at how it sexual, he no longer draw attention to the rudiments of cellulite. Of course, not be neglected and pose "a man from behind", because in that case, you have almost no weaknesses.

For various sociological interest sites regularly conduct surveys of the population. One of them asked the men - whether you like to have sex in the dark? Most of them (86%) responded that "most often no" or "absolutely not". Those who commented on its response, agreed that the girl, who prefers to deal with love in absolute darkness, could not deliver the fun teammate, not relax itself, too, receives no pleasure. In doing so, the very meaning of sex disappears (well, in addition to the functions of conception).

It was also told that "sex - is not a game of hide and seek" and the girl go into complete darkness when you are already ready for sex, not very pleasant. Is that in extreme cases, when this means a sexual game. Of course, each of us to solve itself - love each other in the dark or with light. But do not forget that, first, many men love to have sex not only at night. And secondly, a girl, confident in myself in bed, feels more confident and in life (which, incidentally, many psychologists have proved). So perhaps it is time to include light? click here

A third type of sexual orientation

2008-08-08T08:04:00.000-07:00

Specialists for 10 years studied 79 women's non-traditional orientation. At the beginning of the study volunteers ages ranged from 18 to 25 years. The women offered themselves to be one of three categories - "lesbian", "bisexual", "uncertain". During the study 17% of women changed their orientation and have heterosexual sex. However, most participants considered themselves bisexual, at the end of the study continued to include himself in that category and argued that they are still equally attracted both men and women. click here

Poor girl.

2008-08-08T01:32:00.000-07:00

Good girls are good in all respects: they are always exquisitely look at all accurate to the best and pedantic, they never will be to work with barely sebaceous hair roots and better make a hole in the bathroom than come with varnish removed at the nails. Good girls vrut only in exceptional cases and prepare even better than mother-in-law. Men love a good girl and go crazy ... from bad.

-- It is ready to violent sex with a favourite always and everywhere: in primerochnoy, in a car at the parking in front of the Tax Inspectorate, in an office on the table and under the table, at home, when guests sit outside wall, headed by his compliments to the parents. -- It can do chic minet. And knows how to do it in any situation. Even the beloved came to the office and climbing under the table. -- It is ready for any experiments in bed, she knows about a hundred different items, even strangers porn stars with great experience.- And most importantly: a bad girl can become any, even too good and proper lady.

Any man dreams at least once a slave be related master hands and legs. Give him that opportunity! To saddle his "stallions" and brought it to exhaustion. By the way, quite a good reception and effective - to be nasty. In other words, kiss his body from the lips and lower gradually reach the paragraph X and suddenly begin movement back. Such passion excites men get to any other. Another very fun "Harassment": weasel "device" partner, brought to the exhaustion and a sudden, sharp jump again at a slow pace. When the correct technique will cry from the man and objects from escaping ... has not yet been received.

That is not correct goodbye girls, bad - does not apply. You can feel free to scratch her lover, leaving the strip across the back, called the bad boy. Most importantly - do not offend each other and get pleasure from the process, rather than anger and pain throughout the body morning. Wake a poor girl - is useful and even vital. To release the pair on a bed and lovingly "warmed" your relationship. Good luck, bad girl, and not much shawls! click here

The ideal female body

2008-08-06T08:57:00.000-07:00

"How big do you think the ideal clothing for women?". To interview men in order to ascertain the current standard of female figures - excellent idea arose from the popular British magazine Fabulous Mag. Results taught a lot of surprises.

Women, forever trying weight to 40 - the first american size clothing (he also - international XXS), may no longer face. As the study showed that men do not believe that the ideal size clothing for girls - the smallest of all. Much more like them more magnificent form. Leadership, according to the poll, received 46 - and (!) Size clothing.

The question about the most beautiful celebrities figures showed that only 1% of men felt the ideal body of Kate Moss (owner of the notorious XXS). A very thin Kira Knightley proved only 6% of the votes, while a harmonious beauty Giselle Bundhen - pitiful 8%. The ideal male figure recognized actress and TV, a British "star" Kelly Brook. Its not be called thin, moreover, has an impressive bust of the girl and managed to film for many men's magazines.

However, not all so beautiful rainbow for half of humanity: 74% of men confessed that for them is of great importance size clothing, which is their second half, 64% of men reported that a severed relations with the partner, if it had recovered more than 3 size clothing. 25% of men would have done it if it grow fat on the size of 3, and 9% - if the size 2. Two percent of respondents wish to part with that amount recovered at the 1. It turns out that information obtained through the poll, rather contradictory. On the one hand, the owner of luxurious forms have a chance to become sex symbols for their men, on the other - the latter will not tolerate unnecessary, in their view, "talent of figure skating". click here

The power of fantasy

2008-08-06T07:51:00.000-07:00

Many of us have sexual fantasies. Some of them should not serve, and we understand it themselves. But there are those who will be able to bring the embodiment of your sexuality element of novelty, to save you from routine and warmed cool feeling. In this article we will first of the most popular female fantasies and give the script for its implementation.

As a rule, more often male than female, plays an active role in sex. Changing roles and unusual behavior for both of you can help you get the thrill, to redefine themselves and know their partner. And this is certainly a positive impact and all other spheres of your joint life.

Prepare drinks and bring the man on the sofa, itself located opposite - so exquisitely you can put a foot on the leg, demonstrating lace stockings on. Talk about something that will stress your experience and maturity, gradually turning to a more frank discussion topics. For example, perhaps the fact that your husband, you no longer excites. Ask him whether he believes you attractive? What exactly he wants it in you? As he would say, move on the couch and start to withdraw buttons on his shirt. Kiss him, saying that what he had tender youthful skin.Ask the "boy", whether he has ever sex. He shy to answer, what does not. And then you ask him whether he wants to do sex with you.

Continue to "attack", not to move him whisper gentle words from time to time. And most importantly - do not get out of the image. Remember that your partner plays a role quite inexperienced young men, and your task - to enter it into the world of sex. Let him advice, tips. For example, ask him to withdraw your skirt or stockings. It is very important to maintain visual contact. Let your partner will consider you for a while (so you need to leave included light), but not touch. And you provoke him, stroke his skin.

Ask him to undress in front of you, but make him a few frank compliments. And when you feel that neither you nor your partner can no longer be constrained, go to sex. And here the imagination, most likely, you forget - and the start of the soul to enjoy sex! click here

Traditional sex

2008-08-05T10:08:00.000-07:00

Sex only between a man and a woman, as history shows, and our modern life, not an inviolable rule. The same love increasingly occurs, write about it in newspapers, show it on TV. Sometimes might give the impression that homosexual couples was very much in recent times. In certain circles is considered fashionable to identify themselves as bisexual minority. While more and more want to say - the majority.

If you remember the habits of ancient Greeks, they love it to the same special treatment. For them, perhaps, the notion of traditional sex does not exist, and if something similar and it was, it was somewhat different. Sexual relationships between men were considered the norm. And it is particularly popular young men, even boys, in fact. Have a "boy" for sexual comfort from the Roman maiella considered part of everyday life and sex.

These days, when TV sets with screens and print media from the pages flow huge flow of information, you may think that the traditional sex is beginning to yield many "gay" and "lesbi" tracks. But according to the sexology, it is not. Studies show that the percentage of those who prefer sex with one sex partner, always the same stable. And this is not more than seven per cent of all inhabitants of the planet adulthood. Therefore, a large number of "gay stories" only relates to the interest of journalists to such topics.

Now attitude towards sex - as in the traditional or not - has changed considerably. loose borders with now is not dissolved, and same-marriages in some countries even officially register. West generally refers to the issue more freely. If you ask a resident of Amsterdam, that for him the traditional sex, surely you can hear a different explanation than our compatriot.

But if television screens with us trying to impose one life, the vast majority of the population lives entirely on other foundations. Slightly farther from the capital has not found such a free attitude to same-love, but on the question of traditional sex receive clear response about the "boy" and "girl". In the province of homosexual couples are perceived as something sinful, wrong and alien. The smaller the town, the greater the conviction will result in the head those who solved the difficult step on the same path relations.

Traditional sex - is, of course, the relationship between man and a woman. Only such relations can lead to the birth of a child, and therefore the extension of the human race. That is why the only such relationship and are recognized in the Christian world. In many ways, played a key role here Church. Therefore, in our minds is sitting firmly the claim that sex with one partner sex with you - it is bad! Perhaps if it were not for it, we would, as the ancient Greeks, looked at the representatives of their gender entirely different eyes. click here

Young and free

2008-08-05T09:45:00.000-07:00

An increasing number of young women pulling time with the birth of first child, engaging in their education, career or simply enjoying life without the need for someone to care. This trend could lead to serious consequences for the nation. The point is that rather difficult to predict the age when women of childbearing age will be held. Despite the fact that menopause is considered such a foreign country, already 35 years to at least a third of women are infertile. The most frequent cause - the emergence of inflammatory processes (which are usually hidden flow) in the uterus and its appendages.

Moreover, with age a woman gradually increased probability of a child with congenital deviation from the norm. For instance, the 30 - year old woman in 2 times more likely give birth to baby with Down syndrome than the 20 - year. And after 35 years such a risk is so high (it increases nearly 10 times) that doctors strongly recommend that pregnant women over that age to be tested to exclude the existence of a fetus is not development 21 - pairs of chromosomes (the defect causes Down's syndrome). But apart from this congenital disease, there are other genetic anomalies, often less serious impact on health. The possibility of incurring any genetic defect is also steeply rising every year after 30.

Male age and way of life is not so drastically affect the quality of sex cells: male reproductive system constantly updates them. A number of eggs in the female ovaries, invariably (a total of about 40 thousand). Dysfunctional environmental factors and diseases, women may leave an indelible mark on their condition. That means you must not expose them to test for too long, if you want to give birth to a healthy baby. click here

Viagra treats women

2008-08-03T07:35:00.000-07:00

Men's medicine for erectile dysfunction treatment Viagra has proved an effective means to combat sexual dysfunction in women, new study shows.The fact is that sexual dysfunction - common side effect of antidepressants and is the main reason why people refuse to further their reception. This is a particular problem for women, because they twice as often than men, prescribe antidepressant. However, the most effective medicines to combat sexual dysfunction for men is not approved for use in women.

Scientists tested Viagra effect on 98 women who have already rid themselves of depression, but still experiencing sexual problems such as lack of stimulation or pain during sex. The test prescribed to take Viagra pill one hour before sex within eight weeks. Half of them gave a placebo, with no pharmaceutical effect.Approximately 73% of women who took placebo, reported the absence of any positive effect, while of those who took Viagra, only 28% reported no results. Some women experienced headaches, skin redness and stomach disorder, but none of them wanted to stop because of this participation in the experiment.

Cure this unpleasant side effect among patients, successful treatment of depression, but forced to take drugs to avoid relapse, enabling them to continue to take antidepressant, enhance the results of treatment - author of the study wrote George Nuremberg Medical School, University of New Mexico . click here

Women and their treason

2008-08-02T00:56:00.000-07:00

I want attention.Virtually all women complain that permanent partner pays them too little attention. And in general - is to begin to live with a man, he immediately stops noticing his lady heart and reduces the proportion of the number of gifts, flowers and other such necessary for it, signs of attention. Few ladies can do to get used to. Someone starts angers and swearing, others - fill the shortage on the side. Naturally, this is not a rare flowers or a compliment from staff and colleagues - like those on the move only on holidays and in cases of extreme necessity. Attraction-it wants to constantly and regularly.That's what had to seek something more reliable man. And as for men aim advances - this is primarily the sex, then even a very mutually beneficial cooperation: do you mind me, I - the bed. While it is difficult to say which option is worse in such a situation for a spouse: constant scandals in the family because of the mutual dissatisfaction or wife is happy - but with a lover on the side.

Since her husband boring.The situation is difficult and not so rare: a woman wants fun, activity and diversity, she and husband - quite boring and uninteresting people. Neither his party not to drag off, or in the theater, or even just take a walk. So far no, tired, then "you know, this is not for me." That's walking with other accounts. A more cheerful. Well then, you may continue communication and in bed. The more so that the boring husband and sex are usually also missing. Serve him and no missionary position "perverse".

Just like sex.Check if women talk about themselves or girlfriend, then articulate this need it so honestly and beautifully: "just like sex." And if a man gives a similar explanation, the women's interpretation of it usually sounds somewhat different: "because the stallion". Or, if it comes to the insidious beings, which is a temptation to your husband: "because the bitch." This is a very well illustrates the conventional understanding of female themselves, other women and men.Actually, most people are beginning to think rationally on issues of treason, only when the change themselves. If you have changed, come to the first plan very different, emotional, grounds. The first jealousy: a man confident in his sole right to partner and treason perceive any situation, so to speak, as a waste of their private property. No less important here and envy: I do not have enough, but he (she) was able to imagine (able) to allow treason, and I - no. Of course it is a shame!

But actually with treason linked to at least two significant real problem: the risk of children on the side (or the introduction of the - if revises wife), and the risk of obtaining from betrayed something intimate infect. But so few people think until the problem really is not manifested in all beauty.

So do not forget that the search for pleasure in someone else's bed is fraught with serious consequences - and this is (as opposed to their own emotional or sexual dissatisfaction) has not only your problem, a problem and your husband (wife). And, of course, if you do change, do not expect that the partner will go down in your position, understand, forgive. This, in principle, possible - but highly unlikely. click here

The former wife

2008-08-01T07:47:00.000-07:00

Many women are not like when their husband communicates with his former wife - whatever the occasion of this communication, and how rarely it occurs. But what is wrong with this communication? What is it dangerous for a new wife? Few people at the first attempt in that one finds (ever), with which to live and want, and it turns. Almost every woman has a former guys, and even former husbands. The same applies to men.

Moreover, many couples manage to disperse peacefully and without conflict, preserving normal friendly relations since the gap. Moreover, they can then fairly regularly and closely interact. But for some reason almost no woman could not accept that her husband's separation from the former happened exactly such a peaceful manner. Its very annoying even the mere existence of this "former" but that the former still has the audacity to communicate with another man now - for the female mind is often simply incomprehensible!

While seemingly: what danger may be a woman, on which your husband had already left? And not left to somebody, but to you? But to answer this question, you should start to understand something else: why did a man can maintain contact with the former wife even after the creation of a new family?

Eventually, ex-spouses could simply disperse peacefully and remain friends. Between them, there may be some understanding, they may even be interesting to communicate periodically. This may seem suspicious, but somehow they are divided. Apparently, you are more suited to the role of the wife of her husband than his former spouse. Does this situation cause for jealousy?

But, nevertheless, many women are trying all the truth and a lie to limit their husbands' communication with their former wives. And they explain this fear that saying "all of a sudden he will return to it." But here you can only repeat all the same, quite reliable argument: why is because he resigned from it! And even if he is able to answer for their actions, it can be concluded that it went quite deliberately, as well as consciously now linked their lives with you. So, no matter how say, a former wife - you do not rival. And there can be. click here

Your sexual IQ

2008-07-31T09:39:00.000-07:00

Want to know the whole truth about how well you know their sexual needs and desires are able to recognize their partner? And that really means sex for you? Then take our test! Answer "yes" or "no" to each of the following allegations, and then tally the results.

1. You never have to imitate orgasm.

2. You can talk freely on topics related to sex.

3. You easily offer his partner try new technology or sexual poses.

4. You think that your lover least once imitate orgasm.

5. You do not see nothing shameful in how to deal with masturbation, when you are alone.

6. If your partner will engage in masturbation with you - so you do not sedition.

7. If you are not in the mood to have sex, you expressly say so his partner.

8. You always honest, talking with a partner about their feelings during sex with him.

9. If you are doing in bed with something that does not like a partner, you would prefer that you know he honestly said.

10. You realize and accept that different people may have different needs for sex.

11. You are happy to accept suggestions that your partner try something new in bed.

12. Do you accept your body as it is - with all its advantages and disadvantages.

13. Do you like to share their sexual fantasies with a partner.

14. If your sexual needs or desires differ from the desires of your partner, you are ready to compromise.

15. Do you like the variety of sexual poses.

16. You try to do everything to your lover was pleased with themselves.

17. You - for safe sex and never deviate from this principle.

18. If your lover says "no" in response to something your offer, you did not grievance.

19. Romance for you - an important component of sexual relations.

20. Quick sex-sometimes you do not have anything against it.

21. If your partner happens premature ejaculation - you understanding on this with understanding.

22. If your partner hard to get excited - you do not take it personally.

23. If your partner is too gross or too undead sex - you tell him about it.

24. Being a good lover - does not have many partners.

25. You never thought arises that the sex - it is dirty.

Rate your sexual IQ: if you have 20 to 25 replies "yes", it means that you have a high sex IQ. You understand that good sexual relations are impossible without openness, trust and honesty, and follow these principles. Pay attention to the questions which you answered "no" - if you will change its view on these items, your sexual life will be even better.

If your result - from 12 to 19 replies "yes", it means that your sexual IQ average. You well know their sexual desires and needs and know how to build harmonious relations with a partner. But sometimes you might be conflicts or grievances. In order to bring them to a minimum, look at what questions you answered "no" and try to change his attitude to them, work on them.

If you have less than 12 replies "yes" - your sexual IQ low. Maybe you do not have enough self-confidence, and so your sexual relations are far from ideal. You need to seriously work on a - in order to enhance their sexual IQ. To think what actions you need to make, break them into small steps and start to work. click here

The family happiness

2008-07-30T10:23:00.000-07:00

Recipe female happiness: family, work and the man who knows how to fill and empty washing machine. These are the results of the research project, which cost 160 thousand pounds in funds from taxpayers.British women are happy if the organization of their life differs from traditional representations, and do not want to be more housewives and sit at home, care for children, read the results of the study, published by the Economic and Social Studies. "The results of our study contradict the statements that women would be more happy if returned to their traditional roles as housewives," - said study leader Professor Rosemary Crompton from the City University of London.

"Men are often neglected washing and ironing and cleaning are not engaged. But they are more than before, giving time for children, minor repairs, cooking and shopping hikes. They'd rather French and Portuguese men, and the difference between them and Scandinavian men insignificant" . The study involved women's lives in Britain and Portugal, as the final stage of a comparative study of family relations, employment and work outside the home in the UK and Europe.

The study showed that the conflict between family and work related rather with the way people work, than with the very fact of work, and heavily dependent on the availability of part-time employment opportunities and gender policies with regard to working time. In Britain, researchers have found a correlation between the level of stress for women and their ambitions. "Women, on reaching career ladder in Britain, often have a longer working day and can not afford the quality of child care and professional workers to work at home.

The conflict between life and work was more pronounced among those Portuguese women who monotone or manual labour, than at the same British woman. "This is hardly surprising, because many Portuguese women with children up to 15 years, employs more than 68 hours a week. But in the UK in this group are employed full-time with 29% of women.

The study used the scale of the conflict between work and family, developed by the research group. Men and women of the EU asked questions, including how often they come to work, "too exhausted to engage in domestic affairs", and how often they "can hardly concentrate on work due to domestic problems." These results showed that, despite the large number of Portuguese men and women, loaded full-time jobs, among them more people-oriented family values than among Britons. click here

Summer increases sexuality between men and women

2008-07-29T09:27:00.000-07:00

Sunlight "fuels" willingness . Interestingly, when we have more solar objects in relation to the opposite sex. There is conjecture that with the sunlight is generated not only vitamin D, but also the hormone MSH, which is directly linked to sexual desire.

All look more sexually . Men are becoming hot than usual, especially when summer through their shirts and trousers in sight inflated elastic hands and buttocks. Women To redden and fire - as if just after sex. Moreover, the summer - a time when girls could undress and show all their dignity. Regardless of sex, you feel healthier and fresher, that helps you become more confident in themselves, energetic and sex.

Rest and relaxation . In summer, couples often go on vacation - enjoy a romantic journey. Immersion in the new environment, they thirst for adventure and worse, respectively, increases sexual attraction. Being far away from laptops and cell phones, with a clear conscience, you can relax. As a result, become more honest, talkative, and then there is intimacy in relationships. And consequently improve the quality of sex. But, most important holiday for couples can concentrate on each other, and on his own relationship.

Unity with nature . For many couples summer - this time to go on nature, which gives many new opportunities to address sex in the open air. Deep in the woods, feeling unity with nature, partners can reset themselves social restrictions and try to do with love, like wild animals.

Swim shingle . In summer, the hottest couple could not resist the call of water. Swim in weightlessness, spray water, many partners can enjoy sex in the water. Just do not forget sometimes Spybot on land.

Sex on the beach . Collapsed on the private beach or take cover a large beach towel, loving love poshalit on the coast. Moreover, the risk of being caught unawares stimulates the formulation of adrenaline and dopamine, which, in turn, increases sexual attraction. click here

A quarter of 14 - year old British girls was no longer a virgin

2008-07-29T08:37:00.000-07:00

As it turned out, almost 25% of girls do not have long virgin. The first sexual experience with the young girls were very ambiguous circumstances. In 86% of cases partners preferred to save on Contraceptive (or just did not know of their existence), and approximately the same number of first sexual acts in life happen when young people were drunk. As is typical, most girls do not like the first sex, but this has not stopped them all look new and new partners.

Also studied the geography of the proliferation of early sexual activity. The most "advanced" have little resident south-west England and Wales - here with carnal comfort met up to 75% of girls. British authorities believe that if the sexual revolution can not be stopped, must be at least minimize its consequences. Children's Commissioner for Wales Peter Clarke said that adolescents should be given more information about sex, not to do so in "preceptive and fatherly tone". However, in the view of sexual Jen Berlou, most girls is much more important love and understanding of excitement, joy than flesh. The proliferation of early sex is a modern version of the problem of fathers and children.

I must say that the appalling, according to conservative citizens, data on teenage sex come with enviable regularity. In late January found that nearly 100% of American youngsters at least once engaged in the life of love. In doing so, the word "love" here looks somewhat inappropriate, since many adolescents has not changed the two partners.

However, unlike his British colleagues, the U.S. government considers necessary - such limit their sex life of young citizens. In April last year in the U.S. were lively debate about the fate of emergency contraceptive, which operates 72 hours after the start of sexual intercourse. Despite the fact that the vehicle completely harmless, authorities have banned its sale to teenagers, motivating that the girls would deal with teenagers will have sex more often, knowing that unwanted pregnancies can be prevented. click here

SEX-instinct

2008-07-28T11:33:00.000-07:00

Women use sex to get love and men use love to get sex. I do not remember who first raised the idea, but today it has turned into a cruise expression. Even became a kind of axiom to explain discrepancies in the issue of sex in the expectations of men and women.The modern woman feels no less free with regard to sex than a man. But for some reason is still the man from whom many mistress, respectfully referred to as stallions, a woman who sleeps with more than one man, often leave the gossip for her back and views of others. Where such injustice?

I think the reason for this attitude lies in the peculiarities of human psychology. The sexual revolution, like any revolution, breaks the external manifestations of any representations, but was unable to suddenly change the centuries approves stereotypes and attitudes of people. Even in today's world, human memory (albeit at the subconscious or even at some genetic level) keeps the stereotype: a woman - a hotbed keeper, a man - hunter.The facts of modern science, too, faces at protecting men. Genetics scientists found that sexual attraction for men meets a single hormone. Many know his name - is testosterone. The woman also leads to sexual relations is not a hormone, a complex set of chemicals. Maybe so, for many male sex - this is a normal physiological effects, comparable, for example, with meals. For women the same sex - this is a physical manifestation of love and closeness. That is why women so important emotional component of sex.

Women are generally less chained and uncertainty in their sexuality. Therefore, if a man should be kept through the bed of certifying that they might be interested in opposite sex, the woman would be sufficient complement or even a mixed one, admiration sight. If complement received, the ambition is met. That is, the goal achieved ambition to have a bit of fun, and we need to put the following.

If a person waits from sex only satisfy their physiological needs, then do not understand why it needs a partner? After all fun and can be achieved independently, without spending time on the acquaintance, establishing contacts and other conventions. Nevertheless, there are even known to all profession, which involves the joint occupation of sex without love. In this case, the motive for his ambition to have a bit of fun for men excluded. After all, he gets sex, not because he himself so cool, but because it paid the money. So, in addition to the physiological pleasure and ambition is something else, for which people enter into sexual relationships. Even the most cynical view of the adherents of that sex - this is just an act comparable to eating, put the question to a standstill, why, then, need a second person.

Two people loving each other, for whom sex - is an expression of closeness to enjoy quite a different quality. I have repeatedly observed sympathetic as they look to those who compares the bed with a fridge. Indeed they can only regret - because once they are capable of such a comparison, it means they never have been able to experience a sense of unity of space, given true lovers. click here

The women's happiness

2008-07-27T09:20:00.000-07:00

Orgasm - strong sensual experience, but there are several women of their species. One female orgasm - is weak haze of pleasure, hint at her sexuality. We experienced both passionate partner orgasm vivid and turbulent as the explosion. Orgasm can be one, but could be followed by an entire chain of the powerful orgasm in a short time. In addition to orgasm from vaginal sex, some women falling into the abyss of its sensuality, with kisses neck, chest, hands or feet.

They can also experience the excitement and a strong wave of light fun, going all over the body, thought only of partner. All women are different. Examples of how to bring the woman to complete sexual madness, can be infinitely. This article will cover the division of women's orgasm on physiological principles. Most men believed that the woman is simply orgasm, which they often consider the purpose for which a girl gets in their bed. Of course, orgasm woman cares. But it was not a cause for sex with a new man at the conscious level. At the level of understanding of logic and reason orgasm is displayed after sexual intercourse.If lover great pleasure, it is very difficult to withdraw to a more humble in bedding exploits man. Heavy orgasm helps remove the stress, relax. And just rejuvenates the body!

For women who do not keep long regular sex life, start various unpleasant processes, called women's diseases. Initiation meet the spoils without health weak sex. And no morality or complexes will not remedy them. The reason lies with the physiological level. Women are regularly experiencing strong and diverse orgasm, such problems did not arise. On the contrary, they not only well-being, but also a remarkable appearance. Such a woman happiness shines from the inside. It can be assumed that such a woman is experiencing all four types of orgasm. So, what is this secret information about orgasm your girl? click here

Sexual blackmail

2008-07-26T11:20:00.000-07:00

According to American psychologists, an average woman denies his partner 127 times a year! Of them 67 times "refuse"… headache, 28 - fatigue, and another 32 attempted rapprochement phrases "at another time", "I sleep", etc. The Dutch statistics confirm this. A poll in the Netherlands on the theme "How do you take revenge on his partner?" showed the following results: 90% of women admitted that the most efficient way - the suspension "of access to the body."

Men want sex constantly! If the French, according to statistics, engaged them 152 times a year, the Americans - 149 times, the Russians - 135, plus 127 bounce here and hope that men want sex nearly every day! these women enjoy, skillfully using sex as a weapon! Arithmetic there again simple: it is likely that women, like men, occasionally headache, fatigue oppresses them, but 127 times a year - is already a clinical case. Either interviewed ladies terminally ill, or trying to "trained" men, using his body as a prize pits. This sexual blackmail!

Interestingly, women are resorting to sexual blackmail, did not consider themselves selling! While the large accounts as the difference: in the bar - for money or the family bed - for coats? Combat bed dressuroy difficult, because its roots lie in early childhood. Imagine a child mothers and fathers, which suddenly refused the request. The child did not cry, did not ask, just nadul sponges and ceased to pay attention to the parents. After some time, did not pass confrontation with the child, parents go on about it. Everything done deal! Now the girl knows that human beings can control: it is enough to deprive them of what to them is important. Everything else will do the nature and women's magazines that explain 12 - 14 - year-old teenager, which is important for men.

Of course, if a woman refuses occasionally, this is not a reason to keep her psychologist, but if sexual blackmail is becoming the norm for women - will have to seek assistance from a specialist. And, preferably, to sexual, it may happen that a woman does not feel any pleasure from sex, considering it the only lever of influence on a man… click here

First Love…

2008-07-25T22:31:00.000-07:00

20 or 30 years later, in one of summer evenings, you will remember their youth. You have to remember him, because he was your first Love… Once, when you will still quite young, you met the guy. Maybe it will be your friend, who lives in a neighbouring district, maybe, just classmates. You're sure to fall in love with it, and every hour of your life starts to experiencing a different way, not like before. You will be dream, a little scattered and permanently's in the clouds. You do not notice the ordinary and everyday affairs, even when moesh dishes or shall floors. You will no longer angers mum on which to Sundays will make you direct orders in his room, and you will not hear reproaches that you all do not, as expected. You're all going to smile, but not to tell anyone about their smile. It is your innermost and secret, and this must be silent.

He will call you more often when your parents do not have homes. And you'll spend hours talking about something interesting, could some of the movie, or maybe just a way about anything. And every time, hearing his voice, on your body will tremor runs fine, but the head will be different fantasy and desire. But you did not tell him about this, although very want, but feel free. After all, you are not sure whether he needs your feelings, or do you simply invent everything, and your love for you just one. And every time, you will wait for the moment the meeting, or regular phone call.

And will meet, talk and kiss at the farewell from which you will be to show red, but in the soul of their dream of repeating. Maybe one day you do not endure and one of the meetings quietly say: "I love you", immediately adding: "You're my best friend". And those seconds after the words you say will be the most troublesome in your life. And he will raise the eyes and a question and a bit lost and look at you, like trying to say: "I clearly heard?". But he says nothing, but only takes you by the hand to continue to go on a long street of your city. And as the leaves all at once, and such usual and renouncement conversation becomes viscous and heavy, and does not want to talk, just keep quiet and go silent, feeling his hand next to his palm and fingers, sometimes compresses your wrist.

Time will pass, and here is one in your e-mail from him a letter. This will be a postcard with the verse, which he had long searched the Internet looking for you…. And your heart scores of joy, and you will understand that you are not alone in their feelings that sense - mutual. And you telephoned him. And will talk again about anything, but in that conversation will be a very different meaning. And this will be the happiest day in your life… Once you come to his home, as it has done many times. But this time would be special, because today you will be a woman ...

PS 20 or 30 years later, in one of summer evenings, you will remember their youth. You have to remember him, because he was your first Love… click here

Just friends.

2008-07-25T21:58:00.000-07:00

Is there a friendship between a man and a woman? I think every asked myself this question. I was confident that exists. After all, I had you, the loyal and reliable friend. And despite the fact that you saw only once, daily telephone conversations, we replaced the meeting. We knew each other absolutely everything, can talk for hours on various topics, often flirtovali and sometimes in your words heard notes jealousy. And even our second halves could not forbid us to communicate. You say that this is fate and our acquaintance on the phone was not accidental. You lived in a nearby town, and several months after dating, we did decide to meet. Brodie all night through the city, chat, kiss. I do not know why we have not decided on any relationship. We just thought that we better stay friends, and almost two years, this was indeed the case.

Time went. The last six months I was in love with her young man. All of us felt very nice couple. It seems that we are already together forever, no one quarrels over these six months we did not have. He tried to make every minute I was happy, taught to love and became my first man. Perhaps we would ever be married and lived a long, boring and perfect life. But here in this life intervened you, my best friend… Your proposal to meet unexpected, and now I have sitting next to you and madly want you kissed me… All repeated as two years ago. The same park, the same bridge, your hot lips and eyes, which I am drowning, as if in omute. All next week, I simply converges with the mind. At first, before your conscience tortures guy, and then I realized that it irritates me. I could not find explanations of all this, but now I belonged to you not just as a friend, I wanted something more.

I have to part with a guy on the same day, all my friends encouraged me not to hurry, but I did not listen, because I had you. I lived only our meeting and your calls. Well why I believe your words, because I have never before been naivety. Gone two weeks, the happiest two weeks in my life. You become less and come a month now, as I do not see you. You justify it because we live in different cities and their problems at work. You tried to escape from the conversation, but soon are told that we better be just friends. Then I laughed, and said that I think also. And in the soul, as if everything collapsed, I was the only regular your toy. You gave me wings and himself as they broke. And started another life. Day of fun and I was not shown nothing of how poorly me, and at night crying, shouting and could not silence their pain. On that day, I am very much disappointed in you, I understood that these two years that you know you played, you had not been present. Since then passed a few months, we remain friends, best friends - is your favorite phrase. But would you know that there is still painful to listen to me about your girls, advise something and realize that the more you do not ever my…

P.S. Sometimes, many of my article seem boring. But this is my first attempt on the way to creativity. And this is precisely the cry of the soul, it is a pain that I did not go for several months. click here

50% of divorces in Iran ...

2008-07-25T21:23:00.000-07:00

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Women east knew nothing about orgasm! Most women know nothing about orgasm! Sexual dissatisfaction is the cause of women 50% of divorces in Iran. This statistic was released at the third national conference "Family and childbearing" in Tehran.

The first two conferences were called "Family and sexual health", but the Islamic republic, President Mahmoud Ahmadi Nezhad insisted that the word "sex" replaced neutral "childbirth." The decision to change the name of the conference has caused anger among some religious leaders, for example, Ayatollah Mehdi Khazali. "I can admit that our dear president does not know the difference between sex and childbirth. But I was surprised that no one in his Ministry of Health does not see the difference between sex for pleasure and sex with the intent to conceive a child" - Khazali added. According to data provided at the conference center director healthy family, 68.1% of divorced women claims that they lost their sexual appetite within a few months after the wedding.

According to other sources, 59.1% excellent representatives of sex in IRI experienced anger, engaging in sex with her husband, 66.8% felt that their use as a source of sexual gratification, in 63.9% did not know that you can get from sex and even to experience the pleasure of orgasm.

Orgasm - most importantly

2008-07-25T07:52:00.000-07:00

Orgasm - the culmination of sexual pleasure. All seem to agree, but rumors around this topic is not burning rage. Actually it is translated from the Greek "orgasm" means "burn of passion".

Without orgasm no pleasure. This can and should be debatable. According to studies, 21% of women from time to time do not reach orgasm. But they sure: to engage in love can be a pleasure and without "the final chord". The other case, in principle, if a woman does not achieve orgasm. But there is not upset: the ability to reach a climax - is not innate quality. This may well be to learn through careful partner. Also useful will seek advice from a specialist.

During a sexual act is possible only one orgasm. The good news: theoretically, all women capable of multiorgazm. Unlike men, they really could experience slightly orgasm row. True, it does not mean that all of this too aspire. No problem will not happen if you, damn all the theory, take a pause for 15 minutes, and then again "thrown into battle".

It has been proved: point G there. For the past 50 years as the opening of Ernest Grafenberg circling… head. Hundreds of studies have focused on this topic, but all lacked conclusive scientific evidence. Why not just talking about the point G! What she size from 1 ruble that her pain stimulation gives effect that some women it is, while the other - no. According to some scholars, point G - the biggest myth in the history of gynecology! In short, its very existence is still a point of controversy ... Yes, say some commentators, there is little erogenous zone on the front wall of vagina: it is located along the urethra, near the bladder, a few centimeters from the vulval. In general, as it found, no one does not know exactly. Therefore, if you have not found it yet - no panic! Incidentally, there is a woman whose entire front wall is Cripple erogenous. But all correctly received by those who are looking for that magical point by tireless training and incidentally feels wonderful orgasm!

Vaginal orgasm stronger clitoris.Vaginal, clitoris, vaginal-clitoris, Womb… Specialists believe that there is only one type of orgasm - one that comes from the head. Need proof? Please! Recall that happens sexual response and without touching, such as in a dream. Of course, some women experienced orgasm through the clitoris, others need penetration, and someone - only anal sex. Do some more fun than others? In this regard, there is no scientific evidence.

The longer the better.The most admirable confusing! (Interestingly, someone holds a stopwatch on the bedside table at the bed?) Sex - it does not run on a long or short distance, and time - not the main indicator of quality. The main thing that is needed to achieve orgasm, - a special mood. That is, if our head is set to the desired Giant and we know their body, the discharge may come fairly quickly. And 10 seconds is enough to get unearthly pleasure.

Simultaneous orgasm better.Yes, 56% of women in this conviction. But at the moment of orgasm people are so heavily concentrated on his own feelings that, frankly, does not notice what is happening with a partner. And what, in general, the difference as to survive the minute "sudden loneliness" - simultaneously or one by one? While no secret that many couples consider simultaneous orgasm testimony to a special spiritual closeness. But if you need to do put special effort (or, worse, to experience too), then, parole, trip to the cinema, followed by discussion may well be seen to assume the role of "amplifier" your spiritual closeness. click here

Treason is useful

2008-07-22T08:03:00.000-07:00

How much nor talk about treason, and all the little. It seems as there are men and women, the topic never exhausted until the end. Ironically struggled with this scourge of mankind: even in relatively mild (in this sense) from pagan times treasonmen been quite tough, adultery and remains favourite sin of mankind.

It is painful treason, recently more and more often people refer to it as an inevitable evil. Almost 90 per cent of women (as they usually become victims of infidelity), recognize that without this there is no single family. Yes men are already in private conversations, talking about their relationship, not doing the type of honour innocence. However, psychologists offer to go even further and to recognize treason not only inevitable but useful (in some cases). As can be considered treason useful? But the center of family planning specialists are convinced that some families not be extended and, if it were not for treason one of the spouses. Of course, this does not deal with unique individuals, for whom treason something akin to another hike in the toilet. Here, any psychologist confidently say: this man is not ready for family life, and therefore the talk about his loyalty is not worth it.

But you for a period of 7 years there has been a happy family life, his girlfriend, and suddenly learns that her husband brought a mistress ... Here is what to think. The more so that in this situation uncomfortable feeling not only women but also men. What pushes our precious half to act, which he then still long will spare? First, the inevitable family crises. They currently have at least 3. The first occurs in their third year of living together. The fact is that the brightest feelings, which we usually call the love lasts no longer than 2 years. Then all set, unabated, the relations are moving in a new form, perhaps even more delicate and sincere than the old. But to accept the silence that came to replace the storms, could not immediately each. And boys and girls begin to doubt, and whether love, or they just have an all this. There underlying discontent and a partner, wants something urgently to change. Here and there appears mistress, a new and unusual ...

Roughly the same is done by 7 year marriage. Some couples live with ease through the first crisis (especially in this period if there are children), but are at a standstill for the second time. However, the heaviest is the third crisis, which is 17-20 years. The children grew up and fled. Parents finally could breathe with relief, and engage themselves. But here is where it appears that run the most secret dreams too late. Age, you know it. Women are beginning a closer look in the mirror, coming in horror from the deep wrinkles. And everyone wants to comfort or prove to yourself and others that are still ahead. Aging nobody wants. Divorce is rarely the result of the crisis becomes "middle-aged families, but spouses often begin to completely separate lives in one apartment. Sometimes people so there until the end of life.

And in all these cases, treason becomes useful, especially for men. What do if better way to believe in itself and our own forces, men can not find centuries. But for women and infidelity lover - that's not the end of the world. Especially if it instead hysterics scandals and think about what happened. After all, vanity often in everyday life we stopped to monitor themselves, to tell her husband a few gentle words, and in general, give it a little attention. And he needs in this way! Treason also makes smart woman go in themselves, because there is no way that all of trouble was to blame only one side. Incidentally, even if you know exactly what happened, psychologists are advised not to arrange "conversation on souls." Better pretend that nothing has happened, but instead of ascertaining the relationship to show its halves that all what he was looking on the side, there are homes and even better than he thought. click here

Random sex . Causes

2008-07-21T11:18:00.000-07:00

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Sexual revolution 60th years gave the woman the same rights, but rather a man. However, according to a recent study of British university, not all are satisfied with their own polygamy. 54% of women regretted that consented to sex on the first date. Without waking the morning after stormy night, women often feel "used", humiliation and insults, while men immediately fled boasted of their love stories in front of friends. Thus, 80% of men surveyed were satisfied with sex on the first date and only 54% of women were satisfied with such experiences.It is believed that a woman consents to sex, only when people see this continued relationship. Just women are not very well adapted to the random number Relations and prefer quality. "Women are not the most liked what they believe their partner is not fully appreciated" Women think that this lack of appreciation implies that it does so with all. "

However, as recently identified biologists, women can obtain greater benefit from the connection with several men - this will increase the genetic diversity of children, and even if the ideal man will not remain forever with this woman, he may leave their ideal genes her children. Of the 1743 respondents of both sexes regret after the accidental sex felt only 23% of men and 58% of women stated that never repeat that experience. "Overall, I was unpleasantly and otherwise," - said one of the respondents. "My expectations were better than turned out in fact, sex was ugly," - said another woman.

However, one of the reasons motivating women to casual Relations may be menstruation. During phase ovulation between 10 and 18 day cycle in women increases sexual attraction and arousal, and they prefer short-term relationships.

When a girl becomes a woman

2008-07-20T10:11:00.000-07:00

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Now you rarely can immediately fall asleep at night, you about something you dream, and in your dreams necessarily present a boy who likes you. He slightly over such a high and attractive, which run all the girls. You sweet dream, introducing his next to each other, you see, as he kisses you gently in the lips, something pleasant whispers in the ear, said that likes ...Certainly, this is unusual in a woman's life is time, when suddenly, as by magic, it ceases to feel a girl, growing up, to close childish, which are only wishes to the new doll or a beautiful dress. Something changed inside it, new sensations and strange experiences envelops the brain and other world is also something strange, in general, not like before. And the views already attracts more often begin to surface, but as I look, whether all is well with the figure, not too thick or not to fine art. And want to take the mascara eyelashes and lipstick to the lips painted, and now both go to school, probably not so much to look at you, boys, but in order to look older than their years. Yes, you are not satisfied with your age, you mature, but you just have 13, 14, 15 years old, and all around looking at you, as before, they will not notice that you changed. And it annoys you!

But here again it is morning, and you you go to school again to see their friends and chat about anything. But "about anything" has not, because they too have become adults, and they want to talk about boys, about something intimate, yet that nobody is responsible, but already full of temptations. And each share their impressions, trying to seem very adult and experienced, every little bit decorates to avoid tumbling into the eyes of class, and some fabrications and stories intimate nature walk to school. How did want to see all this was true! But until this is only a dream, dream, dream…

P / S Once in your life will come when you will be a woman. And then your life will cease to be such a romantic and mysterious… Therefore, in no hurry grow up, prompted another girl! ...

The relationship without sex…

2008-07-20T09:34:00.000-07:00

Live! Any! Being a beloved and cherished! How do we want this woman, incidentally, not just women. Sometimes we forget about everything in the world, love and begin to trust people quite false. Why? Indeed, love may end very soon! But every time we, as the first time, dissolve in "love"… Several years ago I fell. Fell so, that still do not understand why I was drawn to this man. Maybe it love? All the usual - met, began to meet. ford, laughing, chatting about everything in the world, kissed. We were well together… December month - snow, cold, frost. But this December, I remember so far. We played in snowballs, he wore me at the hands ... It was all wonderful, wonderful. I forgot about the past feelings to another person whom think that every. I do not even remembers about him and did not want to see ... But I felt that something in our relations not so. We have seen little and were secrets…

One day he invited me to imagine. And I did not hesitate, agreed. Everything was good: kisses, weasel, beautiful words. But without sex. Of course, he wanted, but I was not mentally ready for this. I really hope that he appreciated, respected, loved. At the time of our meetings, I do not feel. Something was between us, we were attracted to something, but that - I do not know until now. Then he was my guest. After this evening everything has changed. "The beginning of the end!!!"… We talked frankly. Conversation was not good. He asked not to hurry to develop relations, he was afraid of that, because much disappointed in the beloved girlfriend, with which to part of that night, when we met. I was accepted because previous relationship left no trace of good in my memory. The evening ended quickly. We bid farewell beautifully, he embraced me and kissed it. I thanked God with tears, so all that happened. I am glad, frankly, that was in our words. He even said thank you that between us there was no sex, because that would be without love, "just so". I realized that my intuition is not brought me then. I remember his kiss - is the best kiss, it always me gently and beautifully kissed that I completely dissolves. His kisses permeates every box of my body. I remember them until now.

It takes time, I was conceived on what could perespat with him then, sometimes even swearing at himself for not having gone to this step. It is still 1.5 years. We are sometimes seen from afar, but never spoke, not even been "welcomed". Recently, I met him in the shuttle. He pierce my eye and down his eyes. I sat in front of him and behind it. And I understand that very well that between us there was no sex. He gave no reason, I think that I walked a girl and all this kind. I realized that was the aim. He could not stow my bed, and he went to the goal. And I did not agree with that! I know that we have no future. Could it for the better. But my soul pairs few days after that meeting and I had this kind that my friends were in shock from me. Love it or not - I do not know. But sometimes in the city looking for his eyes. Why? Why? I did not guilt, I wish that he would learn to love, and sometimes remembered me. I will always remember only the good and his kisses…… click here

Where most beautiful women?

2008-07-19T09:49:00.000-07:00

The magazine for travelers Traveler's Digest published a ranking of countries where live most attractive women. More than half the seats in the first ten booked for beauties from Eastern Europe and the Baltic. And the girls from France, Germany and the USA, in the opinion of the drafters of the review, being difficult to Beauty.

The most attractive place for tourists-men, named Sweden and its capital Stockholm. In this city so many beautiful girls, that "it seems as if you are in reality shows on the top behind the models. In addition, Sweden, like other Scandinavian countries - one of the safest countries for tourists. Second place on the number of beauties per capita is Argentina, namely, Buenos Aires, where, as you know, live the descendants of Italian immigrants. This fact, according to the author, explains model looks argentin girls.

From 3 to 8 took place ranking countries in Eastern Europe and the Baltic states: Russia, Bulgaria, Latvia, Belarus, Ukraine and Estonia respectively. "Russia - the birthplace of the most beautiful girls in the world. In Moscow subway can be found more beauties than in the United States." In doing so, neither Germany nor France nor Switzerland are not included in this list. In Alpine countries, according to the travelers, are paying much more attention to appearance of animals. There is even a Swiss joke: beauty contest conducted among cows, rather than among women, because cows more beautiful than women.

Denmark also ranked among the most safe and pleasant places on earth. Girls Copenhagen, the author shows, different mores and complete freedom of indifference to social status as a partner. In the neighbouring country, the Netherlands, the beautiful cycling instead of machines, which helps them to maintain themselves in uniform. Amsterdam, in addition, among the ten most fashionable cities on the planet. In secondary cities ranking positions belong to Varna (Bulgaria), Los Angeles (USA), Caracas (Venezuela), Montreal (Canada) and Tel-Aviv (Israel). Israeli girls since the age of 18 serve in the army. And it means that, "If you decide to change it, be prepared to run for trouble." Beauty drive from Montreal, in particular, that speak French. This gives them a European charm.

Сauses of infidelity

2008-07-18T22:54:00.000-07:00

People married, altering their spouses, most often do so not out of selfishness or immoral motives. First, married change, to find themselves. "Long time in your life, there are forces that are preventing you to be yourself, express yourself, and treason - is the best way to understand how to be those whom you actually are . The second reason is treason - casual relationship. When a person and did not intend to do so, but proved unsuccessful in place at the wrong time.

The third reason treason - sexual panic. "You feel that your sexual power fade, start to panic and start lover, to show that you have no weaker than in bed." The fourth reason for treason in marriage, when partners decide to "kill" their relations. "The idea is that we will know about treason, and it would blow marriage, which either destroys it, or make stronger" that the crisis in marriage is also the reason why people change.

The sixth reason for treason - an attempt to sell itself more expensive. "Your life goes further, a spouse behind. With the help of adulterine connection you want to be with someone who, as you think best for your situation." Wish heated was the relationship in marriage - is another reason for treason, as usual excuse when you are thus trying to deliver at least a bit of fun.

The ninth reason for treason - It's easy escape. Words author of the book, fear of divorce leads to the fact that people hoped that it will put the entire end of treason. Or people with the help of treason is trying to understand what his life will happen next, whether it is possible to get with someone else what is missing in marriage - a tenth causes treason.The desire to escape is the eleventh cause of ties on the side. Twelfth reason is the desire of one of the partners to raise their self-esteem, as well as the desire to understand whether it could even someone like.

Fourteenth cause of treason is a desire to gain experience, which has not yet been made. Fifteenth - the desire to avenge their half. Sixteenth - middle-aged crisis. And the last reason for which people are changing in marriage, according to the American psychotherapist, are unsatisfied. Also, the author advises husbands and wives, lovers who are not recognized in their sins, because the truth may do more harm than its concealment. click here

Myths about a girl's virginity

2008-07-18T10:13:00.000-07:00

With so much pristine linked myths and legends that confuse. We will try to confirm or refute the most common of them.

Myth N1. All start in 13-14 years . Who is this "all"? Adolescents simply a lot of talk about IT, for lack of another way to prove and independence. The median age at first sex of American teenagers - 16.2 years (average in the world - 17,4). And the age of sexual debut is directly dependent on welfare in the family, of intellect and level of education and, of course, the level of self-esteem. Thus, up to 16 years, started 1 of 4 students.

Myth N2.Virginal membrane thicken over the years - and deprive innocence than later, so it is difficult. In fact, the anatomical structure virginal membrane, the value of its openings and density is very individual and not depend on age, and the characteristics of your body. If it was elastic in 18 years, then to 28 and not "closes".

Myth N3. Early first sexual experience is harmful to health. Not a myth. virginal membrane-a barrier to infections at the time, yet not formed until the end of the protective environment (on average - up to 18-19 years). At the same girls to a very thin epithelium walls of the vagina (the formation of an end to 17-18 years) - it's easily traumatic during sexual intercourse. All this often leads to inflammatory processes that could later lead to spikes and infertility.

Myth N 4. Later the beginning of sexual activity harmful to health. Previously, even among physicians misleading view that migraine, ovarian dysfunction, and even acne - the result of prolonged virginity. Some of these diseases may indeed be due to hormonal and depend on the regularity of sexuality (and regularity orgasm!), But not on the availability of virginal membrane. We know many cases where women first "learn" the man in 28, 29, 35 years old, pregnant and gave birth safely. Gynecological problems "old virgin" are not related to the pristine as such but with yet another myth.

Myth N 5. Those who do not live sexuality, to the gynecologist does not necessarily go. The best way to my mom showed you child gynecologist even in 6-7 years. But if such a doctor in your city is not the case, after the first menstruation, you have to take care of themselves and attending antenatal clinics at least once in 1 year: at a young age, initially to treat almost all diseases.

Myth N 6. Defloration - the process painful and bloody. Sometimes, of course, that hurt some large receptacle and embodied the dream of medieval knights - the bloody bed. If, after the first sexual contact, pain not long passes, if more than 2 days does not stop bleeding, it should be to see a doctor, to prevent impulse walls of the vagina. But in normal situations, especially if the girl is severely initiated (and, consequently, in its many natural lubrication vagina), blood and pain can not be.

Myth N 7. The first sexual partner should be older and experienced. At least desirable. Experienced teammate enough patience and skill to bring the "newcomer" to a high degree of excitation.

Myth N 8. The best way to lose innocence in the bath. Indeed warm water relaxes muscles and nerves, prevents spasms - and consequently reduces the pain. But water washes natural vaginal lubrication. Besides the model of domestic baths have sex without the traumatic effects can only experienced lovers. Therefore, the bath can be used for prelude, and then move into the bed.

Myth N 9. Since a condom patients. On the contrary! Condoms get rid of the pain, since almost all modern rubber covered with a special lubricant to facilitate sliding. Defloration they can not obstruct, because in the process, sorry, is not a condom, a body in it Vesminte.

Myth N 10. On the first time can not get pregnant. Can! Therefore, begin receiving combined hormonal contraceptives in advance, yet at the stage advances and joint walks. click here

Buying virginity

2008-07-18T04:30:00.000-07:00

Traditionally, women's virginity implies anatomical integrity of pristine virginal membrane and its non-participation in sexual acts. However, because of anatomical features and elongation virginal membrane options, when it remains intact, even after several sexual acts. At the same time, virginal membrane may be damaged, with special tools gynaecological screening, or as a result of trauma, intensive classes in certain sports. Classified determine virginity as a lack of the person, past and present sexual intercourse, the girl innocence, as well as a human until the first coition. Men's virginity has no anatomical criteria and virgin considered to be a man, not having hetero or homosexual contact.

In different historical era of moral value virginity assessed in different ways. Some people in the primitive stage of development, prolonged state of virginity perceived as sexual unattractive girl. In ancient Greece, for example, was considered normal, if a girl 4-5 years participated in sexual games teenagers or even adults. The notion of virginity existed only for Vestals - priestesses homemakers goddess Vesta. Vestal, losing virginity, buried alive in the land. For all the same the rest of sexual emancipation was quite commonplace notion, and no one was confused by today's standards, the early start of sexual activity. When Emperor Tiberius (1 century AD) to execute the law prohibits virgin. Before death executioner was obliged to deprive her innocence. In prechristian period when the cult prostitution existed then, the object was a virgin sacrifice, and it is often sacrificed gods. In initiation rites deprivation of innocence is usually conducted with the help of artificial falos.According to popular belief, many European countries virginity symbolizes unblown Rose Bud, who proudly holds or girl or rose, protected them.

For the first time an experimental operation to restore virginity has been done in 1962 by Italian gynecologist Bernullom's own daughter. Since then, technology recovery virginity - gimenoplastic mastered many surgeons and gynecologists. Currently, the problem of restoring virginity is a very topical.But it should be noted that very virginal membrane can not be restored because it is a piece mucosa vagina. Therefore, the procedure actually restore virginity - a plastic anticipation of the vagina, thereby ensuring the availability of imitation Worthless, namely a sense of obstacles and bloodish separated from the vagina during sexual intercourse.

Also of great importance are the dates first sexual intercourse after the procedure. They are divided into guaranteed (up to 2-3 months), during which ensured the availability of complete imitation virginal membrane, and the likely - can reach several years, while the more time passed, the less blood will be selections. The optimal duration defloratsii after the operation - 2-3 weeks, that must be taken into account if, for girls this question is relevant. click here

adolescent sexual activity

2008-07-17T10:16:00.000-07:00

U.S. scientists have found that adolescent sexual activity is not a determinant of human papilloma virus infection which causes cervical cancer. Thus, sexual activity here than in any…

As is known, previously selected to vaccinate girls against the virus is based on the factor of their sexual activity. As the last study, which was attended by more than 3 thousand girls, the probability of HPV infection in adulthood did not depend on adolescent sexuality.

Thus, in the way of life of girls can not be judged on the development of their HPV infection. At the same time, experts agree that an active sexual life increases the risk of acquiring HPV because of its high-proliferation. click here

married lover

2008-07-16T09:00:00.000-07:00

So, life has played a joke with you - you have a wife instead mistress. Or are going to become, it is not important. It is important that you supported in principle the idea that be mistress - is located in the beautiful state of life, who with the help of our boards can be made even more attractive.So, who becomes the mistress?

The woman who was not married, but she is hunting there, so she goes to sexual contact, in order to fulfill the desire, her suggestion society and mentality.

The woman divorced or a widow, naively believing that children need a good father, the previous best (or just a living parent). These two categories of unmarried men trying to choose, either married to divorce. God judge them.

Married women who do not receive pleasure in marriage and therefore have sex on the side.

Free women who want sex.

Mistress can and should be able to accept gifts from men any cost. But only if they are - a luxury. That is such that when the case will be returned to him and do not suffer from it daily necessities of life. For example, perfumes can take as a gift, shampoo acquire itself. Shrimps and buy a cake - how can you say, dear. Potatoes and bread to deign itself. Gold earrings are accepted with gratitude. The same amount for payment of flats rejected with indignation. Otherwise, see above on a kept woman. Suppose that you are not tormented remorse of conscience about how much money he spends on you. You do not ask him money and gifts. To hint at is not precluded, only subtly.And then, rewarding gift to anyone who gives him more than to the person who receives it. And suddenly spirits, which he chose for you, smell dried lizards? He chose them to your taste. So relax again and again to thank. Perfume then girlfriend can give it to them would be happy. And tell him that they liked you so that you constantly to use them and they quickly ended. Conclusion: even if you spent on it. When will shy away from you, remember how much he has spent at you and keep spare. It invested a lot into that, just do not drop out.

Now about polygamous. Your married lover sleeps with you and wife. And do not believe that he and his wife did not sleep because it does not want. Sleeps and as yet. You should not at all worried. His semen - no tooth paste from a tube, not until the end of embezzlement, a wife must be happy that you do not insert sticks in the wheels. Moreover, never compare themselves with it. You - a master of sport in sex. Know this! For this, you have chosen, rather than beautiful eyes. So to compare themselves with his wife, only to lose time and humiliate themselves.How often he comes to see you? Once a week? Every two weeks? She says that often can not, because that work, home and stuff? It is quite possible to believe. He would be glad to heaven and, yes sins, that is caring, do not allow. This is what is - a master of sports in sex idle!In your relationship is not treason. It does not alter thee with his wife. You do not modify it with another, because you are not obliged to do it, not love and did not give an oath of loyalty. And if the second would be roughly the same employees, their visits as time and amount to an average frequency of sexual acts in the family.

Another piece tips:

Electioneering positive family man. They are already accustomed to taking care of the family, then, and will take care of you if necessary.

Electioneering employed Campaigner honest - they are responsible to work and earn good money. You will not brutalise conscience that his children remain without bread with butter, if you're with him once again dine in a restaurant.

Electioneering lovers average sexuality. That he and his wife this, and you wake of the tiger and so devastated that he was still only enough for a little wife. And all right, will no longer look on the sides.

And finally: from time to time, recalls his married lover about what you're not going to break his family - let them know that you are not only a luxury, but a treasure!click here

why divorce?

2008-07-15T22:25:00.000-07:00

According to studies of American sexuality, sexual contacts of the 10 only 4 - indeed desirable. Couples married for several years, it is easy to agree with that. Proximity is increasingly becoming a "wrong time", "not for any mood", "despite" and so forth - not for nothing jokes about the "headache" do not lose relevance for centuries! So what happens? Who is to blame and what to do?No need to search for the guilty - neither you nor "he" is not responsible for lost desire. All quite understandable and predictable. Passion, which makes you once throw stones at each other anywhere in the embrace - in the car, elevator, Entrance (doterpet was so difficult!), Soluble in acid daily household problems. Romantic meeting also remained only in memories. Now everything is simple and boring: an evening shower, dinner at hastily, telly "with a dream to come", soft sheets, pillows comfortable, familiar posture, a kiss on duty in "gratitude" - and sleep in each other back…

Moreover, it is necessary to take into account that the woman cool faster than a man. And it was not peculiar, as the man to demand sex "on automatic". She needed Prelude. And the soft evening light. And that body in the embrace of twine, and flowers on the walls dissolve, and passionate whisper sailed past in a cloud, and fetching hands, intertwining, and had to bite lips so as not cried from happiness and love…

So what do I do? It may be that you have this temporary mood. divorce, the easiest way to destroy the relationship. But save the family, feelings to each other - this is art! If you set categorical ( "No, no, I can not more - even I can not see him! We need to disperse, it is definitely!"), It did reflect on everything once. Last. Imagine that a divorce or a gap behind. "He" is no longer snoring you on the ear at night, not running on the flat in socks and shirt in search of trousers, does not watch football, not to force when sick ... You imagine that his and no ... And you flat meets cold emptiness of loneliness - every day… And what then?

First and foremost: learn to say "no"! No one can force you to have sex, if you do not want to! Take this for a rule, and life will be much brighter. And then you wake up in a real, true femininity, sexuality and reintegration. And "it" you really have to seek and win in the second, third, fourth, fifteenth times!Another option - try to talk to "them". Well, not directly: "I am vomits from you!", A hint that lacks the severity of emotion. Let try to think of himself as diversify your married life (and it's in his interest so!).Try to recall how and for what you fell in love with him for the first time. Well, in the end, both repeat their wedding trip (if it was successful, of course).Head of the novel on the side! Not necessarily bring it before the end - sometimes to feel revitalized and desirable, it is enough light flirting in the workplace. Perhaps the learning of other men, you make sure it is your sole and not suitable. And then you will find both win!

And all come back: you again immerse yourself in love, warmth, endless kisses (a tender, then passionate to pain) and will be holding hands. And would whisper, gentle words, smiles, the eyes uncovered. All will return. After all, everything in our hands! click here

sex in society

2008-07-15T10:36:00.000-07:00

Sex without love life becomes a burden for people from which they want to get rid under various pretexts.The girls, unlike boys, with children experiencing a great need for tenderness. According to the latest research psychologists, it is her pleasure for them becomes a decisive factor in relations with a man and in adult life.Why do people have sex? The answer may seem obvious and unequivocal, but not all so simple: the study conducted by psychologists University of Texas at Austin, show the contrary. Researchers interviewed more than 2000 men and women aged 17 to 52 years to find out the reasons why they had sex last time. Such reasons turned 237!

The list begins with the answer "nothing serious - it was just fun factor", went further options as well mundane - "I was from that well", and spiritual - "I wanted to feel closer to God". Found a place and such responses as "I want to get promoted" and "I would like to give his partner something other than sexually transmitted diseases". There were such: "to warm the cold night", "to burn calories after dinner dense" or "to overcome the boredom".

In the context of reducing indirect confirmation of pleasure from sex change its social functions, researchers from Universitaetklinikum Hamburg-Eppendorf came quite by accident. They found that after lengthy relationship in women begins to fall disastrously sexual desire. If at the beginning of the relationship 60% 30 - Summer women wanted sex "often", the four years they became 47%, and after twenty years of living together with difficulty to recruit and 20%. This explanation was found: in polls, the most important factor in living together with men to women is… tenderness. About 90% of women want from their partners manifestations of feelings, which in most cases and no sexual contact. This requirement had to replace sex, which have been much easier. But an acute sense of frustration and dissatisfaction relations will not disappear.

As another vivid example of substitution is the real desires of such a phenomenon as sexogolizm, which often indicate the uncertainty rights in itself. Similar roots and has now been widely disseminated among men pick up, to confirm that the male desire, love and popular with the opposite sex.There remains the question: how happy people are regularly trying to compensate for the original desire sexual contact? Indeed, the main problem of this substitution is that, in reality, people cease to feel sexual desire. Psychologists sure: to tenderness, love and other feelings not on the list remained unfulfilled desires, is more often to listen to himself: "In search of sensations which I now find?". It must be timely voice their real needs a partner, because in the end, another famous slogan of the time the sexual revolution was "to test their desire!", Their true wishes. click here

So what must be a woman?

2008-07-14T10:16:00.000-07:00

To understand the modern woman is not as hard as it likes to complain men. To do this, do not necessarily look her in the head, in soul or in a cupboard in search of clue her secret desires and lust. Just look at the Women's Forum and thumb through topics. The topics to be discussed actively, better than serious sociological studies show that really care about women today. So what is it? Career, family, or a beautiful figure?Figures statistics search queries and popular discussions so eloquent in themselves. Here's how looks rough scale values of modern women, based on data of several popular women's publications and forums.

Slimming 40.5%.Not so long ago, with his manipulation face, figure and the body considered a matter of personal, intimate and with whom either were not discussed. Neither with the girlfriend or with a colleague, nor, with her husband. Today is the most popular topic. The truth is that more and more slimming and denounced uncontrolled promotes healthy eating and lifestyles, but this is all being discussed with the same enthusiasm and dust, and that ...

Relations 22%.This topic is old as the world. Love, jealousy, betrayal, loss ... But if before (even by the way, in the past twentieth century) emotions and passions boils mainly in the soul, or in literature and art, giving mankind immortal masterpieces of art and thought, but today they do not always stormy and net flow of human passions lead us in mainly media and the Internet. Women still intoxicated with reading with the personal lives of famous people as well as "mere mortals", but discussing and his family and intimate life, and others', is already public expression of feelings and emotions.

The beauty of 11%.Today this issue, above all, the external beauty, but nothing about the mental, although women and put it, of course, above. We love to talk about efforts to change for the better if not peace, at least its appearance imperfect, but acknowledge that vanity is not a small part of our time and money. We want to like. It is simply necessary. Moreover, the mass media, advertising and cosmetics company assentation echo and easily lured decisions. What, are you still single? All the case to the hair! Buy a new shampoo - happiness itself and you will fall right into their hands. And women tirelessly searching for a magic tool that will make them beautiful and, consequently, happier.

Pregnancy 10%.This is a bit surprising, but a happy period, exciting expectations and prepare for the emergence of baby care about women more than the result. At that time, women only care about their mental state, feeling, "inner life" and future deliveries. Escape and forget that you are pregnant, almost impossible. And very often, pregnant women do not forget about this to anyone.

Animals 5%.Yes, thematic magazines, websites and forums on care and maintenance pets much more than the resources devoted to child-rearing. Undoubtedly, pet tender and deserve attention and love. But there is a little disturbing thought. If the attention and love for animals so much, then someone else loses them clearly. And perhaps, these "someone" very close.

Handicrafts 5%.It is surprising in the fact that someone else is engaged in handicrafts. Most recently, this class was almost vital and economically justified. Today, it is rather a hobby and creativity. Knitting and embroidering no longer fashionable to ridicule and is often young and active part of women. And while economic and thrifty in the list are not indispensable to the merits of women's contemporary men, ladies will always go to what would make their ability to handle.

Recipes 3%.This can be a very exciting exercise, but a modern woman is not ready to give him too much of their forces and time. All the women conceived less than would be such a tasty and useful to feed her husband and children. And increasingly worry about the caloric content of food, fat and carbohydrate content and the negative impact on their own, still imperfect figure.

Children upbringing 2%.No, of course, we love and care about our children and give them entire 17 minutes of his time on the day! It is as calculated by psychologists, a woman spends on education of the child. At communion with him and upbringing, rather than feeding, dressing, bathing and walks with a child shopping. We are pleased and proud to talk about our children, showing their photographs and accomplishments and very little interest and developing educational programmes for them, relying more on nature and experience. And the older a child becomes, the less we are concerned about it and communicate less. but to devote his life to family and children ...

Sports 0.6%.Sports concern lovely ladies, again, just as, unfortunately, a necessary part of the first paragraph of the list of values. Gymnastics, basketball and hockey few who are interested, give way to a long aerobic loads and isotonic exercises.

Household 0.8%.The topic of concern to women and if so only for their own husband, namely a discrepancy spent on it, farm it, time it and husband. Since then, as women for the first time asked a rhetorical question, why I should do a theme that moved from the household level in the section of social and hotly debated and almost daily. And not only at home in the kitchen, but also in the media. But since this issue, as has been previously stated, rhetorical, had no answer to and can not be. Therefore, the theme of everyday life in the bottom of the list of women's priorities and I think in the near future will disappear altogether from the agenda.

Culture 0.3%.This notion in the list of topics and interests of women defined favorite soap operas, movies, novels, popular music and in the less everyone else that unites this word. No, it does not suggests that modern women are not interested in culture, art and even science. click here

For the first time

2008-07-13T05:23:00.000-07:00

Diana stood middle of the room and examined its nudity. The girl was waiting for a meeting with the unknown. A few weeks ago, she turned Only nineteen… Today, she decided to overcome yourself, your own. Today, she decided to learn the unknown, what is written in love in novels and movies show.She gently touched his arm elastic breasts and smiled. But maiden smile was full of doubt, not joy. -- No… No… - said its mouth to speak in undertones. -- No back roads and can not be today…… That should happen today… so I decided that I want…… And it will happen today… Today I am learning something dreamed at night and what so afraid…The first sexual experience is very important for women. And it does not matter, however, how many years it. It imposes further imprint on the lives of all women. Well, if the first man was an experienced man, sober and gentle. Women's memory of life keeps this proximity. How much fear of experiencing the girl before it becomes a woman! And as practice shows, many women's problems are just unfortunate experience with the first proximity.Recall themselves. In early adolescence, we dreamed of romantic love. It was not the place coarseness and violence. We watched movies, did not read a novel about love… I want the same… We thought that our first love will bring us joy, and the first proximity will fairytale… We will only belong to the beloved man… But alas, how often our dreams remain just dreams and have nothing to do with real life, with random or early links with animal instincts man or boy, with whom many of us had to face.Many girls enter into a sexual relationship out of fear remain the same, be not like all girls, not to lag behind their class. Many in this way pushes betrayal friend. Just to deceive the girl decides to avenge him… Sometimes she simply drunk and lose control over themselves. American psychologists found that early sexual experience contributes to the development of adolescent depression and may even lead to suicide.British scientists conducted a study of sexual behaviour in 59 countries. And that's what they found: -- In some African countries, girls married very early - on average 15.5 years (for example, in Cameroon, Mali, Mozambique). At the same time, and going on their first sexual experience; -- U.S. girls begin sexual activity at 17.5 years, guys - at 17.3; -- In France and Italy, men lose their innocence to 17.5 years, and girls - to 18.5; -- Young people in England to part with virginity to 16.5 years, and girls - to 17.5.Now many students in senior grades 14-16 already have sexual experience. This is due to start earlier physical maturation adolescents. There is the view that youth is becoming the first sexual experience very early and so well versed in sex, but it is not quite right. Only 16-18% of girls receive this experience at such an early age.By 21-22 years the average American girls has some sexual experience: it had already been two or three relatively permanent partner. 17-18% American girls and residents of other large cities "held in girls' 25-27 years before. Studies show sexuality, and that after the start of their intimate lives of sensuality developing rather slowly: in the next year or two sex do not bring special joy nor them, nor their partners. "Late" women remain alone: only 15-17% of those who started late intimate life, get married. click here

For men, sex is much more important than love

2008-07-12T12:36:00.000-07:00

Recently, scientists once again confirmed that romantic love and sex - this is totally different things, sometimes not even related to each other. In one study volunteers showed photos of loved ones and simultaneously crawled brain: mechanism for the revitalization of certain areas of the brain that is very different from what happens during sexual stimulation. Actually, according to scientists, love is as powerful engine for human life, such as hunger. Head of research anthropologist Helen Fisher of Rutgers University in New Brunswick recalled that throughout history people created poetry and music, sang songs, danced and even dying for love, but not for sex! Although it is believed that the male sex is much more important love, it does not diminish their ability to love: an average of three out of four suicide because of unhappy love it are committed by men.Men often falls than women, because a visual, that is truly "loved eyes." And this is logical explanation: Men visually determine partner, capable to healthy offspring. But women tend to think in other categories: when looking at photos loved ones they have intensified part of the brain associated with memory. Fisher suggests that this reflex formed millions of years and "on the ancient language" could mean the following: "A man brought whether the meat last week?". For the survival of the family and it was kind of great importance. Maybe this is why women are very well remember all the details of the relationship with her partner. When asked why so quickly passes stage of romantic love, Fisher has made an assumption about the limitations of human capabilities: to live all the time at the height of emotions impossible, it requires great energy costs and depleting rights. Therefore, love is the stage after stage of attachment.click here

You alone?

2008-07-12T11:15:00.000-07:00

You feel terribly lonely. "All couples girlfriend on…", and you sit at home again, muffled in an old blanket and spend sad passing glance at the evening street cars. You think that in each of them, a mixture of fun and sharing tender kisses, sent to the party or romantic dinner happy and beautiful couple. In taking the head of thought that you are doomed to old age look to the dark window and languish from loneliness. You not only want to feel love for someone and to feel his feelings towards you, but to have them physically, feeling his gentle hand on his body, pressed him naked. In general, you do not have enough not only emotionally but also physical, sexual contact with another man. And so happens that the need for physical contact prevails over the need for emotional.All new and unknown always excites much more. You may experience sexual feelings bright, engaging in sex with their new friends. Your relationship can not at this end and, again, you will no longer be lonely.You absolutely do not know this man, including his intentions and thoughts. Is not known what might end your sexual adventure, because it is so that the finale may be very poor and even tragic. And you can begin to experience it not only sexual interest, but also sympathy, and such a date at once, you can cause suffering. Furthermore, this way, to put it mildly, more suitable for girls light of conduct. In any case, it's up to you - whether to refuse from sex, being lonely, and waiting in the wings or not.A woman can live for years without sexual pleasure, without losing human dignity, but can not and weeks to live without hope for them.Strangely enough, ironically, but many men dream of spontaneous sex. Moreover, women think about the same, but until then, while a man played by its rules.A woman wants love, wants to hear gentle words. Man wants sex with almost any woman struck his imagination. But, as neither say, we are all living beings, and often forget about everything in the world, throws into the abyss of passion, without thinking of the consequences.click here

10 good reasons to engage in sex now

2008-07-12T02:58:00.000-07:00

Research proved that sex ... helps weight. Forget about the debilitating training in sports hall! Sex makes muscles work all your body, because this drill better cardiovascular system. In addition, one hour love games helps burn 300 calories. struggling with stress. Quoting his body in a horizontal position, you unconsciously takes the burden of past preoccupations of the day. Besides, raising harmony oxytocin causes a feeling of calm and relaxation. increases self-confidence. As studies have shown the Norwegian University of Sport, women athletes who have sex before the competition, showed the best results. Thus, confident scientists, athletes simply feel more confident and rested than usual.hide your age. The best tool against wrinkles - good old sex. Intimate caress help you look and feel younger than their years: Thanks to the formulation of high estrogen and other hormones your hair shine and skin simply shines. relieves pain. Ill head? Busy spin? Forget about the pain, it is better to spend a few minutes to love comfort. Is generated during sexual intercourse endorfiny, facilitate all kinds of pain. excellent antidepressant. Pleasure received during sex, helps to get out of depression and forget about concerns and fears.enhances immunity. By sex at least 2 times a week, you have less risk of influenza or catch colds. The fact is that sex increases the level of lgA - the immune system first line of protection body. prolongs life. Researchers the University of Bristol, found that men and women who devote sexual comfort stations 3 times a week, much less suffer from heart attacks. And in the opinion of an American expert in matters of sex Julia Cole, sex reduces the risk of cancer.click here

Virtual Internet beauty

2008-07-12T02:02:00.000-07:00

It is no secret that men look past each passing Leggy beauty. It's no secret that, sitting behind the wheel cars, they are able to see and on the road and pavement. They like to read and watch porn magazines and porn. Recently, the men appeared another passion - they furrowed boundless spaces Internet in search of virtual beauty. My neighbor, who several years ago passes over sixty, is ready 24 hours a day, sit behind a computer. As he searches, grandfather of two grandson, "in a distant country that he left his hometown in the province"?I think that his wife, who for twelve years younger, little heartened by this fact. Instead of helping his wife on the farm, he is busy "hard work" - the study sites porn site and erotic content. Strangely enough, but global statistics show that more than 45% of men aged 25 to 50 years of porn site visits. I think that the age limit would be increased if a male pensioner had access to the Internet. Almost all women display themselves from the fact that the husband or lover so fond of virtual beauties. In those minutes when the wife busy preparing dinner or cleaning, the husband fascinated by another woman, albeit virtual. For men this as a disease, like alcoholism, as a drug. The man is living a virtual life, just forget that next to it is the favorite woman, which he unwittingly causes pain.Lying in bed, many represent his wife in a passionate Leggy beauty. They sometimes forget how old they are, and dream to be in the bedroom next to a young special, a gift of his love and weasel. As they say, dream no ban. As long as people live, he is dreaming dreams and only the good. Many men do damn for wives. At a time when its halves are with him in one room, a spouse slot space dyshet Internet and passionately in the form of ordinary beauty. Many men walking on erotic sites before you fall into the bed. Sometimes they are so passionate about his "work", that have forgotten that their spouses are waiting, can prosidet near the monitor for several hours, and when returning to the bedroom, the wife has been sleeping a solid sleep. Each of them wants to somehow diversify their sexual life. And this does not depend on age. look at women for whom sex - this work, a means of obtaining wage, a man calls from his wife for something unusual, most have forgotten that it had conducted a whole day at work, and in the evening, as protein in the wheel, methane for cooking .And what is not only fantasy come to mind men Some want the favorite woman to appear before them in the form of intriguing romantic Venetian Courtesan last century, covering its face mysterious mask. Want to see a child of the Prophet, which belonged to them, lord, and perform all male whim.Mysterious erotic image of women has always attracted men. And this fact is accepted. What is worse, if your husband does not benefit women. That's when you can sound the alarm. Either he has already completely exhausted as the man himself, or he homosexual. The man - for his kind hunter. He always pulls in the unexplored world. His arms - passion. Interest in the woman - this interest in life. When viewing erotic websites, many men want to realize what. Want to get pleasure from the beloved woman. With this bad? Help him… Send a surprising night, a night on which you dreamed of before became his wife.We often forget that many men excites naked female body. But the closeness occurs usually in the dark. Man wants to admire the woman who wants to see through the eyes of those parts of the body, which relate to his hands. Practice shows that pornographic - a necessary thing not only for men but also for women. It is important for self-learning, to strengthen and preserve the family.

"Porn attracted not only single or corruption of people. Men can arrange existing relationships with partner, but porn is still interested in continuing their ", - so to speak London psychotherapist Jane Haynes. click here

Drinks seduction

2008-07-12T01:33:00.000-07:00

We all agree on the wisdom "of women is not terrible happens, happens little vodka", as it would a shame for us nor sounded. And all because themselves shamelessly use it in the "war of the sexes". Yes, and you certainly the experience convinced that not even a particularly attractive Chevalier after a few glasses of heating is no longer a matter of such disgust, as before.Due to this that allows alcohol to relax, removing many barriers, like "off" brain (especially their own fears) and making the person more confident in itself. And now, a modest student forgets their complexes on the small chest, a young man - about low growth. Doctors believe that alcohol extinguished olfactory receptors through which we choose each other. Yes, love at first sight exists. Only she called "love at first smell" - is when two people find most sister smell them. So, allow alcohol to deceive himself (and others too) in "smells nice", for which it has long valued Casanova.Alcohol is different: some - to forget the other - have fun, and still - to go astray. The personal properties in the latter attribute absentu, which are made from bitter wormwood, which contains exciting substance "tuyon". It features also varied, chocolate and egg liqueurs, which cause the feeling of love and support forces during the "sexual marathons".Humankind can not bypass and diverse mixture of alcohol. The most simple and now the favorite (especially cold winter evenings) recognized spicy mulled wine, when heated red wine add cinnamon, cloves, cardamom, nutmeg and ginger. Often used for seduction and brightest "summer" cocktails with exotic fruit: avocados, marakuyey, coconut and banana. And of course, one can not but mention the herbal insisted that even our ancestors used to inflame passions. I even managed to find some old recipes that you can try.

Drink "Glamour" In boiling water (3 cups), add dry mixture of herbs (1 hour spoon raspberry leaf, 1 hour and flowers kalendula spoon, spoon 1 hour Preserves: Blackberry leaves) and bring to a boil. Immediately remove from heat and insist 20-25 minutes. Potion poured, add 2 tablespoons. tablespoons cognac. The rest midst of caraway and at the tip of knife passed through mincers, mixed with an equal quantity of honey and served for dessert instead of jam. click here

Sex at once

2008-07-11T13:07:00.000-07:00

We all once said that sex - this is something special that happens between people loving each other. But when nothing special is not happening, in our sex life appears at once… Gourmet Czech porcelain much better disposable tableware. But if porcelain No, we did not hesitate, take a glass and plastic drink from the coffee or tea. Similarly, in love… When you have a great love, fervently and mutually favorite man, you can only envy. Envy such an unprecedented, fortunately rare. When such a person you do not, you look at yourself at least some emotions, to seek their own heart - and suddenly something there? Some forgotten sympathy, suddenly declared itself affection ...When you cold and lonely, you're ready to look for love in each. you go home and think that maybe he sits on a nearby seat and did not even suspect that it may be happy with you. Or one stands in the queue in a shop and know not aware of your existence. Are you sad and painful. This is not a severe pain, which settled in your heart to put resentment. This dull pain - the pain of emptiness, of the inability to change it, fill our hearts with love…

He comes, and you do not have neither the forces nor the desire to learn his interests, to form the view habits, step by step the richness of his personality… Do you see it and nothing Man does not want to know about his work, car, friends and parents. It is for you mysterious new phenomenon. You look at it, touch it… On this strange, but you want it, because it is only to reach out, to bury lbom tattoo on his stomach and forget about everything in the world ... The man for you no one, and that is why it just for you man. A man of flesh and blood, without any cockroaches in the head (you just do not know about them). He does not bring you any problems, not causing pain. After all, as long as you do not like, you absolutely do not hurt. You will not hurt, even if he did not call the next three weeks. And you will sincerely surprised when his call-dealer when the fourth. You will be surprised to see on the screen of a mobile unknown number (you do not even entered in his notebook!) And answer him. And as he does not happened to ask how you conducted the New Year, and dares over criminal cases in your police Chronicle newspaper. To believe if in a fairy tale - in what could become a random acquaintance in love throughout your life? .. Previously, I believed in it wholeheartedly, but now I do not even want to ask this question. First, you just never know about it. Secondly, happiness can not schedule - long-term plans always promise only disappointment. And third, do not forget, everything depends not only on you. You can climb out of the skin to achieve reciprocity and preserve love, but do not help…… Love in your life can appear through 5, 7 or 10 years. But you can not afford such luxuries as sit and wait for her without cause. Life - this most precious, that you have. And do not think, will take place whether one is the "Premiere" (love throughout your life). "Rehearse" - that is also creativity, a chance to express themselves and get colorful impressions of life. After all, this is an excellent way to sadness, a great chance to get rid of memories, to feel wanted… I let the whole world would await… await, because even once can be unforgettable, bright and long enough… click here

Mystery of erotic dinner

2008-07-11T12:28:00.000-07:00

There comes weekend, and feel like a free night stay alone with a loved one and bring him pleasure, leaving pleasant memories of jointly held time. Ways and means of successfully hold a lot of time. You can go to acquaintances or friends, you can go to the theater or concert could be held with delight at the party. But there is another way. You can donate mysterious erotic evening, without leaving your own apartment. Oysters and chocolate, truffle and saffron, vanilla and celery help you with this simple fact. After all, they have to initiate properties. Use them to cook dinner erotic, which for a long time will remain in your memory.Evening Weekend - is precisely the time when you can afford to relax and bring the loved one in the charming network of love. How can with the help of culinary art of winning the heart of men? Erotic in the kitchen plays one of the first roles. Main - set to erotic Giant and premeditated, as an ordinary evening into a fairy tale.Even the first people on planet Earth Adam and Eve not been without fruit such as apple. Who knows, maybe, because people packed the first time experienced the mystery of love. The French - lovers love of adventure and exotic - are very often used this fruit. Apparently, no accident. apple as a means of inciting mentioned in the Indian treatise "Kamasutra". If you believe that the apple on your desk - this ordinariness, can replace it with grenades. Sparkling seed will play no role in the latest entice the. His inciting properties are no different from the properties of apples. Granat lovingly regarded as a means of antiquity. The Greek goddess of love Aphrodite used in his diet in large numbers this fruit. It should be noted that the men grenades useful because it improves potency.There comes a long-awaited evening for two. It is in this evening is worth recalling candles, flowers and beautifully served table. To achieve the location and love men who have not enough female beauty. It should remember the saying "the road to the hearts of men is through his stomach". And this is so. What man does not like to eat? Candles, tasty and cooked food for the sole and unique in your life, men - Women's pledge of success. Cooking erotic - this ancient science, which to this day has not lost its relevance.

Drink "Museum of Love" Ingredients: 1 fresh apple, 1 tablespoon. spoon sauerkraut, 1 walnut, 1 / 2 cups tomato juice, 1 hour spoon of honey, 1 tablespoon. spoon shredded turnips, 1 hour spoon mixture of dried herbs: mint list, raspberry leaves (in equal ratio) 2 cups water, 1 tablespoon. spoon shredded raw carrots. Preparation: Apples to rub o or cut thin slices, carrots and turnips, clean and chopped straw, dry grass chopper. All components are mixed, add hot water, walnut, sauerkraut, quickly bring to a boil and insist 10 minutes. Procedures, add honey, tomato juice and mixing.

A woman is better to put on the table aromatic beverages, breathing love to
connect with the aromas of herbs and forests. Do not forget about clothes.
Remember that the man loves eyes. Therefore, this evening, you should look
sexually. Do not forget about tea. This is a special ritual that contributes to
stress and raising the spirits. Erotic dinner together will increase your an
already strong sexual desire. Weekend to exist and that each of us has received
its share of happiness. The best means of exciting sexual activity - is fantasy,
and most important erogenous zone - this is our brains. All we want happiness.
And what can be happy without love?

causes of violations of erection

2008-07-11T11:04:00.000-07:00

Erection problems may arise for many reasons, and very often developed these violations constitute only a symptom of another disease. In general, usually causes that influence the development of erection disorders can be divided into five groups:

Psychological disorders: Depression , Drug addiction, Alcoholism, Specific psychopathological disorders - "fear of sexual impotence", the impoverishment of sexual techniques, etc.
Endocrine disorders: Gipogonadizm (underdevelopment of sexual glands), Diabetes mellitus Obesity Prolaktinoma? (Brain tumor), Sarkoidoz (a special form of inflammation, which is involved in the lungs, eyes, skin and internal organs), involving gipotalamiya area (the brain region that regulates the internal organs)

Vascular system disorders: Atherosclerotic arterial system of sexual defeat against the backdrop of a member of diabetes, smoking, high blood cholesterol, hypertension Artery occlusion of the pelvis (typically arise after the pelvis bone fracture), Venous system disorder - the highest outflow of blood from sexual member, The combination of different types of vascular lesions sexual member.

Neurological disorders: Violations of cerebral circulation (strokes) Diseases of the spinal cord MS Parkinson's disease

However, it is necessary to bear in mind that perhaps the combination of these reasons, to varying degrees, determine when a leading cause of erectile dysfunction is difficult. Most often this happens with an overall ageing of the organism. Diabetes mellitus, hypertension, smoking and diseases account for about 80% of all causes erection. Diabetes mellitus adversely affect the condition of nerves penis, disrupting their normal functioning, and leads to disruption of smooth muscles, which is erectile tissue. Hypertension (high blood pressure) and therapy aimed at lowering blood pressure may also damage blood circulation in sexual member. Smoking - this is the main reason for the so-called? When there disorders at the level of capillary blood circulation sexual member. For this reason, smoking, to be exact - "smoking" many specialists is assigned to a separate group of causes of erectile dysfunction, also develops and with diabetes mellitus. So - in 60% of cases the cause of impotence is that the blood did not reach the penis or creates its fast catching ago. In 15% of cases the cause should be found in hidden damage to the nervous system. 5% of the cases developed against the backdrop of various endocrine (hormone) diseases. And only 20% due to psychological reasons. click here

The whole truth about erotic dreams

2008-07-10T11:22:00.000-07:00

Dreams of a sexual nature often cause concern among people, especially when they are doing in a dream, then what would they have never done in real life. For example, women can dream dreams, where they have sex with several men or women, etc. Why is this happening? Dreams - a reflection of the processes that occur every day in our subconscious. Because sex - is one of the strongest engines of our lives, it is not surprising that we film dreams about sex. Some people do not dream of sex directly, only portable. For example, men delete the following characters: the various tunnels, hills and mountains. Women also remove characters such as cigars, water, flares, towers and other buildings towering above the ground. Sexual dreams in images and symbols dream more people internally hidden. Therefore, if you dream of sex, do not worry, just you on this occasion no complexes.Do people in a dream orgasm? Yes. Although women experiencing orgasm in a dream not often where they are experiencing more frequent sexual arousal. Men experiencing orgasm in a dream where more women. But with age sexual dreams they withdraw all less and less. Men do not worry about seed eruption during sleep. This is normal hormonal process. This is not harmful to the body, and not a sign that you have any violations. What if sexual dreams frightening? Most dreams harmless or funny. Sometimes removing such things, which you never committed and would not try in real life. All this is normal and not a cause for concern. But some people film is far from harmless dreams, for example, incest or violence. If such dreams are repeated, then they lay some psychological reason. If you want to find the cause, then you should consult a specialist. Today, with the help gipno therapy and psychotherapy can refashion dreams or just stop this kind of dreams.Dreams of love. Sometimes people dream dreams that their much loved and cared for. We can not say that it dreams of sexual content, but they leave a sense of attachment to the image, appearing before in a dream. Such dreams can leave a person at a loss and embarrassment, especially if the image in a dream, not the people with whom you have a relationship at the moment. Dreams of love bear its significance, which is that you do not everything is in place with these relationships, and you passionately want to restore a sense of love and romance in the relationship. If you are concerned about such dreams, you can discuss your problem with your partner what you do not have enough, what you would like to change. If you can not solve this together, can benefit from assistance specialist. click here

Men's and women's resentment differ

2008-07-10T08:13:00.000-07:00

All probably somewhere in the boundless spaces of consciousness understand that offend stupid, useless, it is a waste of time, nerves and tears, but few actually can avoid it. It is believed that particularly impressionable women and resentment. But in reality, men no less susceptible and vulnerable. Simply they are better disguised. True, we, women seem to be more emotional, therefore, react to the words are not always as we expect. We can suddenly burst into tears. And suddenly, not only for men but also for themselves. We can smile and swallow offense. And expressively that the abuser colder everything inside.Why men when offend, go to bed, for me the great mystery. I'm trying to discern her second marriage. But some use the chance and simply washed out of the house, of course, not forgetting sandwiches and an affront to a person who disappears behind the door. This is the "Great difference between male and female thinking." Women try to be visible and impressive show how much they are offended. Men struggle to conceal it. They worry so diligently and indifferent, that once you understand how much he is experiencing on your fault. He would not spoil their pillow tears because it immediately, he sleeps. There will be no call to all friends and talk loudly, as it offended. He did not give you such a pleasure, as "soap opera" with delivery at home. No, you look at it long and sad, bitter and tenderly to smirk.And what shall we do when resentment salty streams flow from the eyes? Call girlfriend, cry. 25 Write a message on your mobile, drink a glass of wine. Collect suitcase, put at the door and sit at the window in anticipation of an apology. And come back from favorite bar or a bedroom, primyaty little, hungry and naproch all have forgotten. And carefully prepared ironic monologue about kindness, understanding, forgiveness and compassion to the squalid becomes unnecessary and inappropriate. What words? We have already forgotten those who are actually offended.Some ladies, and some men too, so used to this kind of satisfaction that the case put on stream. They often provoke others to conflict or to seek reasons for resentment only to the guilt complex abuser allowed them to manipulate them, receiving the necessary things: toys, new clothes, jewellery, expensive gifts or simply attention. For many people, who feel resentment, their sensitivity and vulnerable - is an unconscious way to get emotional jewelry as a gift: caring, tenderness and sensitivity.In fact resentment - this recognition rightness abuser and the availability of our internal problems. We unpleasantly when someone, or a foreign favorite, shows our fears, doubts and uncertainty in the bright light. Unintentional or specially abuser gets in our most painful point. If he did not want to offend us, it is likely to allow elementary or callous indifference. So whether you need to sharpen our attention to the weak side, motives and seek to develop a discussion? And if the attack was deliberately and in cold blood, then offend and show it - hence, to recognize that the goal of "enemy" achieved.Right with a sense of grievance is not easy, but possible. And indeed, necessary. And this can be learned. Recognize that we groundwork and whose words and something to say about this - is already half way. But to say quietly, without calling the conflict. And to understand why so painful to us - is a direct route to the finish. And most important, but difficult - is to remove the cause of our suffering. No, I do not have to stifle her husband's pillow and poured tea staff member in rat poison. But if you offend Criticism of our physical appearance or character and mental qualities, you should make a difference in itself. Having taken his figure or work on their domestic content. This can help resolve the problem, which delivers unnecessary distress, and to deprive surrounding reason for ridicule and recrimination. And if not cope with the problem, you should change their attitude to it. For example, to recognize that we are all imperfect and are entitled to leniency and forgiveness. click here

Why sex without orgasm?

2008-07-09T09:27:00.000-07:00

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Some scientists, skipping all the talk about love and some feelings there, tend to regard sex as an instinct of reproduction, by the way, one of the most powerful. It is only the instinct of self. If you forget that people - this is a reasonable creature, able to control their desires, it is quite precise definition. However, having read this, once you begin to think about, and what more you want - or sex of reproduction. Probably still the first, otherwise people are not used to so much of contraceptives. After all, sex - is also a pleasure, ecstasy, which with nothing more than to compare. Only these are not all can experience this very ecstasy during sex. The reasons for the conclusion of events was not a long-awaited orgasm, and bewilderment and disappointment enough.Physicians, sexology, psychologists, psychotherapists, Venereologists and other experts give their explanations lack of orgasm. That and the presence of various diseases, anatomical features, psychological and easy installation ignorance erogenic zones partner. But very often the reason no one is looking for. To address such problems in our society is not accepted. According to many, this is not reason at all. Here is rising prices, poor work or problems with mother-in-law - this problem.Sex without orgasm for women, it turns out not so afraid. Research has shown that women may not feel orgasm with her husband and still continue his sincere love and live together. For women, this is not a valid reason to break relations. Where a more important point is the opportunity to be close and bring pleasure beloved man. For men, this problem much more serious. Indeed, the inability to experience orgasm for them is akin to the recognition of men's insolvency. At the same time, some men factory precisely because they see as a woman experiencing orgasm. And they even upset by the fact that there was no orgasm. It turns out that for many men answer to the question why sex without orgasm, is obvious. At the same time, women are taking this form of events.If you go back to what sex - is not only a source of pleasure, but also a way to extend the human race, the orgasm is quite different colour. Thus, without a male orgasm process simply will not start, and sperm simply did not leave the limits of the male body. A study of female orgasm talking about even more interesting facts. It turns out that during the female orgasm is allocated a certain amount of fluid. A long time could not understand what kind of liquid and what its purpose. It turns out that it is intended to ensure that in some way dilute the male semen, which is quite thick. Thus a more easy passage of sperm to the female genitalia, increasing the likelihood of conception. It turns out that in terms of biology, orgasm - a necessary component for a new conception of life. If not to mention the fact that it is also madly pleased.Sex without orgasm is a place to be if that suits both partners. If not, shy and afraid of something not worth it. Now these problems can easily be resolved. Sexology and psychotherapists help you get rid of this problem and give a new sense of sexuality. You will learn to get pleasure from sex. By the way, psychologists say that sex and a good orgasm - one of the best antidepressants. Do not want to check?

Watermelon increases libido and replaces the "Viagra"

2008-07-09T08:59:00.000-07:00

American scientists found that components of watermelon have on blood vessels same effect as the drug "Viagra". Antioxidants litsopen, beta carotene and tsitrullin found in watermelon is no worse than usual "chemistry", - confident researchers.Miracle watermelon due to the effect that it used tsitrullin transformed into amino acids arginine, which promotes blood circulation. Arginine increases Nitric oxide - a substance conducive to relax and allowing the vessel to normalize sexual function. In addition to increasing libido watermelon is good that supports the proper operation of the heart, immune system, displays the toxins from the body. Thanks to the content of watermelon litsopena favorably acts on the heart, prostate and skin. A new study is likely to increase the sales of watermelons and reduce the popularity of "Viagra". Although… Men easier to bring to visit the packaging of tablets than watermelon. click here

Fantasies of women during sex

2008-07-08T10:39:00.000-07:00

Very often, men attending the question: what a woman thinks after sex? If you ask a woman, as she really thinks after sex, she nor for that you do not tell. And to think she could about anything and not only after sex, but also during sex.If a woman thinks about what she would like to try to posture and what she had feelings for the man, it is quite normal. But if a woman visited by thoughts of another nature, it is thought that the relationship was not the case. So think about what a woman during sex? And what her fantasy attend? 1. It represents that deals with sex with another man. This may be her idol or a man to whom she had any feelings. Why? Women are unpredictable creatures and their fantasies rarely lend themselves to any logic. And their feelings, it is generally unexplained fact. Some get more pleasure from this, some just want diversity. And more than half of them are not going to change the partner.2. She thinks about his body. Women substance is highly self-critical and complex, if they think that their body is something not in order. Therefore, the men made about any thoughts about the figure of women is to abstain. Any woman pleased to hear compliments about how her body is perfect, perfect breasts, and unparalleled stalk. 3. She thinks that would not get pregnant. Women are very afraid of unwanted pregnancy, so very wary of a sex in "dangerous days". So after sex, it is possible that her thoughts will be busy than this.4. It represents itself in bed with a woman. Such fantasies are characteristic of each woman. This means that it has not satisfied with sex, man faces therefore reflect on their actions. Of course, many men such fantasies are of a sense of revulsion. It is therefore better man does not know about them. This is only the most basic elements of what a woman thought visit during and after sex. A woman's imagination has no boundaries. click here

As men do fetishist

2008-07-08T09:38:00.000-07:00

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Science can all. Including - and make fetishist from the regular men. This is demonstrated in 1968 scientists.They decided to find out whether using "Pavlov's dogs", to change sexual behaviour.The essence of such an experiment. Five men showed photos of naked women. The members of each of the men was secured falometr - it's a simple device, which captures the fact erection.After each photo followed photo sexually normal winter women's shoes. The procedure was repeated many times. After a while, simply showing images of shoes began to cause erection three of the five men. In doing so, the two "guinea pigs" erection caused sandals golden color, which did not show on stage, air conditioning (creating a reflex).Scientists managed to prove not simply that there is a fetish normal conditional reflex sexual nature, but that could artificially create a fetish through, for example, advertising.

condom-"Viagra" from Futura Medical

2008-07-07T11:14:00.000-07:00

New condoms from Futura Medical help prolong sexual intercourse and increase the size of a man's dignity. British pharmaceutical group Futura Medical Plc plans to release a new condom, which developers called "revolutionary". Rubber product called CDS500 company specializing in innovative products for safe sex is heightened interest of consumers now, although its production will begin only in 2008.From their fellow new condom availability of different "magic" properties through which its users will be able to increase the size of their dignity as well as being sexual intercourse. Such a condom helps to achieve results through the gel component called Zanifil, the precise chemical composition of which the company did not disclose Futura Medical, fearing possible competition. Judging from the effect produced gel, it can be put on the same level as Viagra medication with the only difference that he has a local effect. On the side effect of this super-yet unknown substance, since mass application of the new condom has not yet been made.To test CDS500 developers invited 108 couples, each with a male at least once suffered total or partial loss of erection when using conventional condoms. The results of testing the new condom manufacturer gave great hope for its future popularity: the small number of gel Zanifil at the tip of contributing to the expansion of arteries and increase the inflow of blood to the body of childbearing, CDS500 stimulates erection.In addition to a condom-"Viagra" company Futura Medical is going to teach a gift and lovers of acute sexual sensations. The developers plan to issue a modification of the Revolutionary CSD500 called FLD500, or Female Lubrication Device. In that condoms gel substance Zanifil will bear on its outer surface that will serve the additional oil and contribute to stronger erection.While developers of new condoms are awaiting approval by European Union regulators to be signed later this year, Futura Medical Plc shares rose by 7.5%, and for marketing CSD500 and FLD500 is ready to take on a well-known brand Durex company SSL International. Of course, the interest of investors in these products would not be so high if society itself is not shown such an interest to them. "Up to 80% of condom users are interested in new products - a company representative said. -- No more important for us that 49% of those who do not use condoms, said that would like to try CDS500 ". click here

about love at first sight...

2008-07-06T11:22:00.000-07:00

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Whatever talked about love at first sight themselves lovers, scholars argue that this phenomenon - no more than a consequence of physical attraction. Through such conventional methods of seduction, as a direct look into the eyes and smile, pulls us to those who have to flatter our selfishness to its attention. Everyone knows stories about how the two accidentally encountered views, exchanged smiles and feel mutual attraction. Scientists say society that knows the true mechanisms of this phenomenon, as love at first sight, and, judging by this research, from the love in such little feelings. The main thing that motivates a person falls into a "love" - it is selfishness and sexual attraction, and researchers argue that people are attracted by those who show sympathy to themselves. According to Ben Jones of the Laboratory studies person in Aberdeen University, in this case is something similar to narcissism. And furthermore, so evident to all known effects, to varying extent aware of different people, that is your attraction in terms of other people grows, if you wait them smiling and looking in his eyes.This work, which focuses on social signals were set to demonstrate the degree of attraction one person to another, questioned earlier conducted a study on the attractiveness of those who took the basis of only physical traits. Thus, they pointed out that many people prefer symmetrical and studied how attractive people seem to be pronounced features of femininity or masculinity in the face. Jones and his supporters do not consider the position of physical data important: in their view, the main "Law attractiveness" can be summarized as "I am interested in you, and if a person looks directly at you and smiles - it is the application of that principle in practice.To confirm his hypothesis, researchers led by Johns conducted such an experiment: they broke into four folders on your computer images of women satisfied and disgruntled individuals and men satisfied with the individuals, each person was photographed looking to the camera and looking to the side. Then the volunteers were asked to assess the attractiveness of images of every human being. It turned out that the man who looks directly at us, we seem attractive only when the expression on his face can be said that we liked him. "In fact, we found that those people who look at you directly, seem more attractive than the same person, but look at the party - said Jones. - In other words, people like when they watch."From the perspective of human evolution such results seem logical, since to bring to a sexual partner, you need to exert utmost effort, so you need to apply such funds, which could increase the attractiveness of an individual for its potential partners. Remember, smile, coupled with a direct gaze into the eyes makes you eight times more attractive!

Sex three, instruction on the application

2008-07-06T10:03:00.000-07:00

If, after long persuasion, your girlfriend all the same sex has agreed to try three times, then proceeding to elect a third partner. You must choose together to avoid further resentment and suspicion.Never proposed as candidates for third place your best friend girls, especially if girlfriend is very attractive. With three sex (man, woman, man) have to warn her that the exchange between the two Dutch men also be included, so that no girl fainted or fell into the sunset of not just laughter, because it sees the first time. But this hand (man, woman, man) occurs much less frequently, although there are girls who do not engage against sex with two guys.If your girlfriend does not want to try three sex and the more you share with another girl, that in no case does not need to be hysterical and bangs bang the door. Sex is such a thing, which has neither a framework nor borders, but each has its own barriers and do not need to make your loved one they cross. Escape from this situation, the winner can be only one way - to find a compromise between you and your lady heart. Here are some facts by reading them, you may not even want to try sex three:1. In refusing sex three 12% of men try it on the side. 2. Girls who have already tried three sex remained dissatisfied, their number is 40% 3. Most girls (about 67%) likes when men gentle, attentive and gentle. A 3% would like to see more sex trips to rape.As a result, we have that: • To start you need to discuss all the details with her partner before to have sex. • Never offer his girlfriend three girls engage in sex • It is important to be careful girlfriend, try to understand what she likes. • There is no need afraid to share their fantasies with her partner • Sex should be built on respect for a partner and the desire to make him a pleasure. And most importantly, do not be afraid to experiment! click here

X-Men: myth or reality?

2008-07-06T09:10:00.000-07:00

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Stupid to deny that science can not yet explain. Maybe we are still not well studied the world around us, to say with 100% certainty that there is to be, and that - no.In 1999, the boy was born in Germany, at first glance, no different from other children. Nurses noticed only that the baby muscles heavily curtailed. They were too advanced for his age week. A four-year-old boy could raise the age thing is six times heavier than that which can be a normal child. How then could happen that a newborn gained muscle mass in record time? Perhaps farmers who for years used a similar gene mutation to grow special, muscular breeds of cattle. Unknown just what will happen with this child in the future. To date had not yet conducted any studies on gene mutation, which is responsible for intensive development of muscles. Therefore, the health and future of this boy - mystery, covered with darkness.Sonar - a new long-term in science. Even 150 years ago met people that can see objects without the aid of eyes. Today, there is an organization called World Access, which teaches blind people how to sonar. But this complex science alone is not everything. Yes, and who hardly left it farther Ben Undervuda. When Ben was 2 years, he put terrible diagnosis: cancer retina. In three eyes removed him. His life could become a real nightmare if the five years he has not learned to recognize objects, making quick click languages. He is so successful in their classes, which can now go to skateboard and play basketball.9-year old Michael Lotito once cool Hotbed parents ate TV. A year later, Lotito was entertain people for money, then go bicycles, the metal containers. Supernatural opportunities are not to have metal, glass or poisonous items. It is necessary not only to die after such a meal, but also successfully to digest everything. This, incidentally, Lotito copes at hurrah. He now has an adult man. A Guinness Book of Records Michael came for the fact that ate an airplane. He ate it during the entire two years, using an airplane for about kg per day. The last X-ray showed that the body Lotito still have pieces of metal, and often it is not yet before the end of the chain to digest. Michael had not yet died only because the wall of his stomach two times thicker than the average person.Already more than 20 years scientists struggling over clue abilities of Buddhist monks. Using a special kind of meditation, Tum-mo, Buddhist monks may deliberately lower your metabolism up to 64%. For comparison: Your metabolism can lower by only 10-15%, and then when you sleep. Among other magical qualities, monks can raise body temperature at 17 º! Today, researchers dream of obtaining the secrets of Buddhist monks, to subsequently use them for training astronauts. But the monks have not surrender. Former konferanse and circus artiste, Tim Kridland once amused hall that swallow shpage, walked on hot coals and lying on nails. He claims that learned to conquer pain, not paying attention to it. Scientists have only bred hands: Tim feels and temperature, and touch. A so-called immune to pain can be explained only gene mutation. However, as always… Previously, it aspires to God, the Christ, and now has nods in the direction of gene…Masutatsu Oyama was born in 1927 in Korea a few years later he moved with his parents to Japan. There Masutatsu began to study karate. He was not ordinary fighter, he went on another path. Masutatsu in front of crowds fought with the bulls. He killed animals bare hands. Total for their lives Oyama killed 52 bull. Three, he cut down with one punch, and the remaining 49 died in excessive flour. Based on the stories of his life had been withdrawn 3 film, a nickname Hand of God he has received from fellow citizens.